| Subject | Date Asked |
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| what are the answers? | 8/25/2008 |
Q: I have a son ten, just married after year and a half. I'm now living away from husband, he is now in ...
A: I truly understand how you feel and your concerns. I don't think so. I don't believe people ever ...
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| why do I still love my abuser of 20 years? | 7/30/2008 |
Q: I was married for almost 20 years and throughout the marriage there was yelling, pushing, ...
A: It is not weird to have feelings for your ex, my goodness it was 20 years you invested but I think ...
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| Red Flags | 7/23/2008 |
Q: I recently ended a relationship that lasted only about eight or nine months. While, I still feel ...
A: First of all please forgive me for taking such a long time to get back to you, I travel a lot and of ...
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| domestic violence?? | 7/6/2008 |
Q: my daughter is 21 with a daughter of 4yrs. she split from her partner 7 months ago and since then he ...
A: I am so sorry for you and your daughter about what is going on with her and I do agree with you that ...
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| Ground & Pound Style beating | 7/2/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend beat me this past Thursday. He was drunk. I am a brown belt in Tae Kwon Do & am feeling ...
A: When I was married to my spouse about a year, I threw something past him, he swears I threw it at ...
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| Abuse? | 6/16/2008 |
Q: Yes I am wondering if I am in a abusive relationship. My boyfriend very moody pouty, if I don't want ...
A: Ellis, You are a sweet girl who has a kind heart and wants to believe in people, never loose ...
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| Abuse? | 6/15/2008 |
Q: Yes I am wondering if I am in a abusive relationship. My boyfriend very moody pouty, if I don't want ...
A: I was sure at what I was going to say until you said the magic words, I am pregnant. You are ...
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| emotional abuse | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I think my husband is emotionally abusive. He is always blaming me for things I do not even have ...
A: Hon, I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to get back to you but I travel a lot. I read ...
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| verbal abuse | 5/24/2008 |
Q: I have a friend living in Phonix Az. And she is a subject to verbal abuse. He tells her anything and ...
A: ,, No it is not leagal for him to leave them there like that and actually they are being held ...
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| bullied back into situation | 5/22/2008 |
Q: Last July (2007) I finally said that I'd had enough, called the police, he was arrested and I got an ...
A: Your situation sounds like my exhusband and sorry to say one of my ex-boyfriends. Having to lie for ...
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| Am I being emotionally abused? | 5/21/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 4 years now and at first, when we were dating he was ...
A: What it sounds like is that your husband wants to completely control you and that is no way to live ...
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| bullied back into situation | 5/20/2008 |
Q: Last July (2007) I finally said that I'd had enough, called the police, he was arrested and I got an ...
A: Omg, I do understand. I left my oldest daughters father 20 years ago and he found her maybe about ...
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| Question on Your Past | 5/5/2008 |
Q: When did you first notice your husband/boyfriend was being abusive? Did he try to put himself back ...
A: My Husband is not abusive, my ex boyfriend was. No he didnt cae. I was not locked in anything. My ...
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| Am I missing something? | 5/2/2008 |
Q: within the last hour my husband called me lazy about 3 times because i wasn't helping him move a ...
A: I didn't say divorce him, I said to leave for your safety and your babies. I believe if you can get ...
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| DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND CHEATING | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I've been in a relationship for 10 years and we have had more than a few bouts. This time it ended ...
A: No none of this is your fault, if he cheated then he chose to and no it is not your fault period, it ...
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| is he abusive? | 1/29/2008 |
Q: my name is kaylen and im 17 years of age.my boyfriend is 21 and we live together.my boyfriend has ...
A: Well Kaylen, all I can say is that God is a God of second chances so be it far from me to say anyone ...
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| is he abusive? | 1/25/2008 |
Q: my name is kaylen and im 17 years of age.my boyfriend is 21 and we live together.my boyfriend has ...
A: Sweety sorry I took so long but I fly alot and cant always get back on time. I just back from ...
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| emotional and mental abuse | 1/14/2008 |
Q: I was just wondering if my husband is actually changing and if I really still love him. I've been ...
A: Sweety I am so sorry it took me so long to get back to you but I was in Khileen Texas last night and ...
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| violence | 1/12/2008 |
Q: When I was married 30 years ago my husband abused me and I took it for 5 years. I filed for divorce ...
A: I feel so bad for you, 30 years is too long for anyone to be abused. I hope you get out as well, I ...
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| I think my husband needs to talk | 10/29/2007 |
Q: What do I do if my husband wants to change, he hates how he looses control when he's angry, but he ...
A: Sorry it took so long to get to you but I travel alot and am mostly gone from home now, so I ...
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| help | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I'm thirteen years old and i just lost my grandma ....my dad has always had really big anger issues ...
A: Please forgive me for taking so long to get back to you but I fly alot and did not get to your ...
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| domestic violence | 10/12/2007 |
Q: what beahaviors instigatethe domestic violence?
A: You know at first I wasn't going to answer the question because I don't think anything instigates ...
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| Will there be an end? | 8/17/2007 |
Q: I am a victim of domestic violence and had been for 24 years and now that I had built the courage ...
A: As soon as I read what you had to say, I truly prayed for the correct answer to give to you. ...
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| abuse | 7/28/2007 |
Q: I have recently divorced after a 24 year old marriage. There was much verbal, emotional and mental ...
A: First I want to applaud you for the courage of finally walking away. Most women don't do that and ...
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| Can an abuser change? | 5/13/2007 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 4 years and been with him for about a total of 6 years. We ...
A: Well you are right, it is your decision. I don't know what more I can say except that be careful ...
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| Can an abuser change? | 5/9/2007 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 4 years and been with him for about a total of 6 years. We ...
A: I am so sorry that I took so long but I have been very sick unfortunately. I read your letter and I ...
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| emotional/psychological abuse of my child | 4/21/2007 |
Q: I have been divorced from husband who was emotionally/psycholocally abusive to me. We have joint ...
A: I really don't have a degree when it comes to this field but I can say the answer to both of your ...
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| husband beated me then denied in front of police | 3/21/2007 |
Q: Myself Bhakti and i have been married for almost 4 and half years..and i have a one yr old ...
A: Before I wrote this I did pray and ask God to give me the ability to give you sound advice. I read ...
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| abuse | 3/21/2007 |
Q: I do not know if I am in the right place for asking this but here goes.. I have severe depression.. ...
A: First I want you to know that I am not a professional Doctor but I do have common sense. I felt sad ...
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| emotional abuse or emotional blackmail? | 3/9/2007 |
Q: I did get most of my stuff back, but my question now is, why would he even want to be friends with ...
A: You welcome Jennifer,,, I am glad that you've made up your mind and left. I think from the outside ...
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| emotional abuse or emotional blackmail? | 3/5/2007 |
Q: I had been in this relationship with my neighbor. At first, very charming and sweet. He was going ...
A: I did read your letter and was appalled, it does seem manipulative for him to make you see him to ...
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| domestic violence | 12/15/2006 |
Q: What goes on in domestic violence court?
A: In court during a court proceeding the victim will face his or her accuser. The Accuser will face, ...
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| Self-Defense | 10/17/2006 |
Q: its ok to retaliate to repeated domestic violence
A: I remember when I was in that situation, I would personally hope that people would leave the ...
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| Domestic Violence Retaliation is just | 10/9/2006 |
Q: A Victims Deliberate use of deadly force is a just response to repeated domestic Violence? True or ...
A: Actually no, but in the mist of the violence if deadly force is used I suppose a Jury might be moved ...
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| Injunction | 8/21/2006 |
Q: My husband of 13 years filed a domestic injunction against me, he comletly lied but he received a ...
A: Mrs. Alissa I am so sorry that it has taken so long for me to get to you, and I hope someone ...
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| routine | 6/21/2005 |
Q: i cant seem to get a routine in my house! my husband is mental and emotionally scared due to his ...
A: As always, I prayed and asked the Lord for the right words in advance. Sometimes it takes ...
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| Steps to solution | 3/14/2005 |
Q: I am a freshman who is attending Purdue University North Central. I am doing a research paper on ...
A: Absolutely, well for me it was different. I was not married to this guy but I thought that I was ...
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| what exactly is the problem??? | 8/20/2004 |
Q: I'm a twenty-two year old daughter who attends college. I only live with my mother at home three ...
A: Let me start by telling you this, I am saved and totally in Love with the Lord and I love my Mother ...
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| adult abuse | 8/24/2002 |
Q: Please tell me where to find online, information on adult abuse. My older brother started sexually ...
A: I looked up some info and this is what I found: 1. http://www.kalimunro.com/ 2. ...
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| Any ideas? | 11/27/2001 |
Q: I don't really know if this emcompasses your area of expertise.. but I figured I'd send it because ...
A: First off I want to apologize for taking so long, but I downloaded a trojan horse or rather a virus ...
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