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Starting Domestic Violence for Women Group10/23/2009
  Q: I'm an Expressive Arts Therapy Clinical Trainee co-facilitating a DV group for women in November. ...
  A: First let me say that I have seen therapists who work through art do extremely effective work, ...
domestic violence8/16/2009
  Q: I been in realationship for 15 yr about 2 years ago he hit me and went jail he took DV counseling I ...
  A: Wrong question, I think, Joan. He gets mad, he starts smashing and destroying things. Your kids ...
research paper7/22/2009
  Q: I am doing a research project on domestic violence and I had few questions? 1.Is there a typical ...
  A: That's more than a few questions that you have there; that is most of the information that you would ...
Abusive husband6/5/2009
  Q: Let me begin with the starting it is a long story. I was only 20 whn I got married to this man who ...
  A: I wonder that you still listen to what 'other people' say. 'Other people' have helped you get ...
Degrees of domestic abuse5/23/2009
  Q: I have recently separated from my partner of 7 years. We have a four year old daughter. After a ...
  A: If I had a dollar for every time an abused woman asks me: "Can my partner change?" I'd be able to ...
Can a marriage recover after abuse?5/10/2009
  Q: I have been married for 10 years. Last week, during a terrible fight, my husband strangled me. I ...
  A: That's a difficult question to answer, especially given how little information you provide. From ...
Domestic Violence even after divorce4/27/2009
  Q: I have been seperated from my ex for about 2 1/2 years now. There was a long string of domestic ...
  A: The situation you describe is a very worrying and threatening one indeed. Clearly, the Sheriff ...
A few questions.3/27/2009
  Q: my name is Luci and I have a few questions on this subject and I was hoping that maybe somebody ...
  A: What a lot of questions. 1) Women don't leave the first, second, or third time, because they are ...
Preparing to leave2/17/2009
  Q: I want desperately to leave this relationship. I have been with this person for 33 years and feel ...
  A: Perhaps the first place you could start looking for domestic violence counseling and support would ...
shocked2/9/2009
  Q: I've recently started dating a man and we've really hit it off. He's handsome, smart, funny, rich ...
  A: Why wouldn't you just run? If this guy wrote the blog, and all the evidence suggests that he did, ...
domestic violence2/4/2009
  Q: I've been married for 6 years and have a two and a half year old and a one year old. My husband has ...
  A: There is a possibility, nobody is saying it is a big one, but he has to want to change. And you ...
neglect1/14/2009
  Q: Im generally a very private person,but im sick of holding in how i feel i had a poor upbringing ...
  A: Obviously, given your abusive upbringing, it is very hard for you to trust people. It must also be ...
20 year old daughter abusive to Mom10/14/2008
  Q: My daughter just turned 20, I am at my wits end with her, she has had many struggles in her life, ...
  A: First let me say that strictly speaking this is not my sphere of expertise. So I can only answer it ...
Am i doing the right thing?9/30/2008
  Q: I have been married for 9 years. After being married for 3 mths my husband, due to low esteem would ...
  A: Why would you not be doing the right thing? You have had a miserable marriage for 9 years. Ok, ...
successful working women and husband's jealousy7/10/2008
  Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
  A: You ask some difficult questions. How do men feel when they have wives who are more successful than ...
Is there hope?5/26/2008
  Q: My husband recently went to jail and now faces court for knocking me to the ground and giving me a ...
  A: Cathy, You know exactly what you should do. You should have no further contact with him. And, ...
Is there hope?5/23/2008
  Q: My husband recently went to jail and now faces court for knocking me to the ground and giving me a ...
  A: You ask: "If I don't help him, who will?" More to the point, if you do help him, always assuming he ...
Is there hope?5/23/2008
  Q: My husband recently went to jail and now faces court for knocking me to the ground and giving me a ...
  A: Well, I don't want to rain on your parade, but the short answer is that it is most unlikely that you ...
An abusive father5/6/2008
  Q: My parents have never had a good relationship but my mother has always covered up for him and made ...
  A: I'm not sure how you want me to help you. Your father is abusive and you are still frightened. Your ...
getting the courage to leave4/21/2008
  Q: I just read a question/response from a woman who was in my same situation. I am in an ...
  A: What's the worst thing about leaving when he is in hospital? Are you betraying him? Are you ...
domestic violence3/12/2008
  Q: Sir, i am married for 3 years and have 2 babies. my husband is very possessive and caring in the ...
  A: First things first, I cannot tell you what to do in terms of what actions to take. From what you ...
live in after divorce & bought house as partners2/17/2008
  Q: I am a fool. I divorced my husband and then on taking a real estate course thought we could flip ...
  A: Here's the thing: this nightmare won't end until you end it. It's that simple. Your marriage ended ...
domestic violence2/1/2008
  Q: on the 16th september my x husband was arrested and sentenced to 10mnths in jail he attacked my ...
  A: You say you are fearful and you have good cause to be fearful. What you don't say is what advice ...
Why do i still love him soo much1/8/2008
  Q: i am 18, in may last year my boyfriend of a year bit me all over it was so bad i had 2 leave and go ...
  A: Well yes Zoe, you could just as easily block out the good times. You are pretty good already at ...
Prevention of domestic abuse12/11/2007
  Q: I am helping one of my frinds get over a recent case. What are ways now that both me and her can ...
  A: One of the most important things you can possibly do to prevent it happening again is exactly what ...

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All questions relating to women's experience of domestic violence and recovery. I am not qualified to talk about men's experience.

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20 years in an emotionally abusive marriage. Since then I have worked with thousands of other abused women to help speed them on the road to recovery. My website www.EmotionalAbuseRecoveryNow.com and blog www.lifemadesimple.typepad.com/abusednomore offer insight, information and support,

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Educated to Ph.D. Level. NLP Master Practitioner. Diploma of Life Coaching.

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