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| Can we get through this. | 11/14/2009 |
Q: Here is my situation. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, we now have a 2 1/2 ...
A: I appreciate your inquiry and I am so sorry for the pain that you are enduring at the hands of your ...
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| Domestic Violence | 11/13/2009 |
Q: My wife and I are dealing with a situation that has grown to the point that we no longer know what ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I understand your concern for the safety of your daughter. What can ...
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| my husband doesnt respect me & treat me as i am no one to him! | 11/5/2009 |
Q: my husband hide many of his family matters from me.treat me as i am an outsider. when i am at my ...
A: I am sorry for the problems you have experienced within your home. I imagine that you do love your ...
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| Will I lose the kids if I report? need help | 11/2/2009 |
Q: I need help and stumbled across this forum. My husband and I have been best friends since ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry and I am sorry for your pain and suffering. I'd like to first start of ...
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| domstic violance | 9/7/2009 |
Q: I have been married 18 years, throughout the marriage we have had some rocky times. He has done so ...
A: I appreciate your inquiry. In honesty Dawn there's truly not much that you need to do because the ...
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| DV Victim Assistance & Compensation | 8/30/2009 |
Q: I was in an abusive relationship in Las Vegas, NV. I was finally able to escape the house to call ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry and I am sorry for all the bad that you have experienced. Because there ...
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| physical,mental,emotional abuse | 8/29/2009 |
Q: I beleive i am getting all of the above from my partner and i cant and dont know why!.Im a good ...
A: I appreciate your inquiry and I am so sorry for the pain you and your daughter are experiencing at ...
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| Does this sound like abuse to you? | 8/28/2009 |
Q: When my husband and I fight, he often calls me a f..in' idiot and sometimes he breaks some of my ...
A: I appreciate your inquiry. To answer your question YES what your husband is displaying is a form of ...
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| i amsolost | 8/27/2009 |
Q: my husband and i had another altercation a few weeks ago after in and out of this relationship for ...
A: I appreciate your inquiry and I am do sorry for all that you have gone through. I know starting a ...
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| domestic violence | 8/9/2009 |
Q: the wife and i had started arguing lead to place i hit her police were called i went to jail for 27 ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. However it's kind of hard for me to truly answer your question because ...
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| my daughter | 6/26/2009 |
Q: I have a 21 year old daughter who lives or lived with me until last night.for years she has ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. The article listed below may be of great help to you. Please take in ...
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| Any organizations to help | 6/6/2009 |
Q: I am a victim of domestic violence.I dont want to stay with my husband.I have one year old kid,USA ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry and I am sorry for your situation. I researched the organizations that ...
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| Is it me causeing him to be abusive? | 6/6/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 7 years now we have 2 kids one mine from a previous relationship and one ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I want to assure you that you are NOT in any way responsible for your ...
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| How to love again | 3/27/2009 |
Q: I used to be in a horrible relationship. I've had broken bones, have scares, low self esteem. He ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. YES, you were in a very abusive relationship but am happy to know ...
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| Issues of Domestic Violence | 3/27/2009 |
Q: I am a victim of well two decades of domestic violence. I got involved with the gentleman when I ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am terribly sorry for your suffering at the hands of your husband. ...
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| Abusive Relationship? What should I do? | 3/25/2009 |
Q: My husband has a really bad temper. He calls me hateful names when we argue. Stupid f**in Bi*** is ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I understand that you love and care for your husband BUT Kally you're ...
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| Physically and Mentally abusive husband | 3/24/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for less than two years. This is his third marriage. Past wives ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am terribly sorry for the abuse that you are suffering at the hands ...
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| Abuse | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I too have experienced abuse but mine has been all my life. 40 years. I'm still in the abusive ...
A: I thank you for your kind words and for wanting to reach out to other abuse victims. You are well on ...
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| Abuse | 3/21/2009 |
Q: I too have experienced abuse but mine has been all my life. 40 years. I'm still in the abusive ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am sorry for the emotional pain you are expreriencing. But I am glad ...
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| Is there hope? | 3/14/2009 |
Q: I'm 25 years old. I've been with my husband for 6.5 years. 4 yrs dating and 2.5 years married. First ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am sorry for the upsetting times you are experiencing with your ...
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| daughter in denial about mental/physical abuse | 3/12/2009 |
Q: How can i help my daughter who allows an abusive ex partner in and out of her life. He has lost her ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I understand your concern for your daughters safety. It's unfortunate ...
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| Domestic Violence | 3/7/2009 |
Q: I broke up with my ex four months ago, he was physically and mentally abusive to me.We moved out of ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. It's kind of difficult for me to answer your question regarding why ...
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| Father Rights | 2/21/2009 |
Q: My kids went with there mom to a shelter one night after me and her broke up. I've been trying to ...
A: Because I am not familiar with your particular situation I can only give you a generalized answer to ...
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| conflicts with mother | 2/15/2009 |
Q: I'm 25, my mom is 51. I was born out of a bad relationship, my father cheated on my mom and they ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I've read your question several times and from my own personal ...
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| shocked | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I've recently started dating a man and we've really hit it off. He's handsome, smart, funny, rich ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. After reading your question I too was disgusted. My advice to you is ...
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| Verbal abuse | 1/30/2009 |
Q: How can you get your ex boyfriend who you just had a baby with leave you alone? He sends text ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. My first suggestion to you would be to contract the The National ...
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| Helpp | 1/10/2009 |
Q: I hope you can help me on this i met my husband at 15years old he is also the same age as me we ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I imagine it is all confusing right now. The fear of being alone can ...
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| help me please | 1/8/2009 |
Q: I need help. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend used to hit me before i got pregnant and than he ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am not sure if you are living with your boyfriend. If you are you ...
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| family denial and enabling abuse | 1/3/2009 |
Q: I was violently thrown to the pavement by my estranged husband in front of our child yesterday. My ...
A: I am so sorry for the abuse that you've had to endure at the hands of your husband and I am also ...
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| verbal abuse | 12/23/2008 |
Q: my husband that is love so much lied and said a man called his phone an was looking for me and i am ...
A: I am sorry for the abuse you have suffered. Based on what you have shared with me you have done the ...
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| dillemma | 11/21/2008 |
Q: I have been in and out of abusive situations but this one i eem to be blind to. my boyfriend confue ...
A: Unfortunately you may not be able to help your boyfriend realize that he is indeed abusing you ...
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| bully or not..? | 10/28/2008 |
Q: I have a boyfriend and we’ve been seeing each other for 4 months. We’re having long distance ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry and for sharing your concerns about your boyfriend and his behavior. ...
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| depression causing domestic abuse? | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I am 34 years old and have struggled for several years with depression. I am on my third marriage ...
A: I thank you for you inquiry. To answer your question. There is no excuse for a person to abuse ...
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| Phyical Abuse | 9/20/2008 |
Q: I had a abuse problem in the seventh grade with this boy name Tyquan Harris. He used to hit me a lot ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. The first thing I suggest especially if you are still a minor (under ...
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| domestic violence | 9/6/2008 |
Q: My ex-boyfreind recently went to jail for a second domestic charge. we have been together for two ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. To answer your question from my point of view it appears to me that ...
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| Angrier husband after epilepsy diagnosis | 8/31/2008 |
Q: I wanted to write to you because you understand disabilities. I was diagnosed with Epilepsy in ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am sorry for the problems that you are experiencing within your ...
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| abusive man | 8/21/2008 |
Q: I am 20 weeks pregnant with a very abusive man. He is verbally, emotionally and sexually abusive. ...
A: I apologize for the delay in responding to your inquiry. I'd really like to assist you, however your ...
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| Can he change? | 7/23/2008 |
Q: I've been married to my husband for five and a half years. And for the first five years everything ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. Now I will not suggest to you that you should leave your husband ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. In reply the answers to your questions are listed below. 1- What is ...
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| Was I right to end this? | 7/6/2008 |
Q: I am hurting right now and need someone to talk to who might understand. I recently made the very ...
A: I hope that this message finds you at peace today. No I don't mind you contacting me again, that's ...
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| Was I right to end this? | 7/4/2008 |
Q: I am hurting right now and need someone to talk to who might understand. I recently made the very ...
A: My name is Susan and I thank you for your inquiry. Without hesitation I must start off by saying ...
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| Am I in denial about this relationship!? | 5/13/2008 |
Q: I recently moved away from from home town to go to school far from home. I come from a very loving ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. Hmmmmmmm after reading your e-mail for me it's plain to see that NO ...
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| emotions and seperation | 4/25/2008 |
Q: My husband smashed a glass of wine over my head. This caused me injury and him to be put on a ...
A: Sometimes a person can become immune to physical abuse to a point where they shut down emotionally ...
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| How do I get past Domestic violence? | 3/24/2008 |
Q: My father used to beat the holy hell out of my mother. They both hit me until I got bigger. My ...
A: I thank you for your inquire. Healing from Childhood abuse and or Domestic Violence takes time. To ...
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| Should I stay, leave, try counseling | 2/14/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 17 years with 2 children (10 and 6). About 7 years ago my husband gave me ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am, sorry for the situation that you are experiencing with your ...
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| My brother emotionally abuses me when I try to visit my elderly father | 12/7/2007 |
Q: My brother, age 53 abuses me. I'm a 54 year old woman. He lives and cares for my aging father who is ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am sorry for the emotional stress and pain that you are going ...
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| Husband and cult abuse | 9/13/2007 |
Q: My husband would bring my pets in the house and kill them in front of me. I was most terrified when ...
A: I thank you for contacting me with your concern. I am terribly sorry for the pain you have endured ...
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| Abuse. | 9/9/2007 |
Q: My brother sometimes grabs my arms and pushes me against a wall when he's angry. He also used to hit ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. YES your brother is abusing you in a physical way. When someone hits ...
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| Abusive Father | 9/8/2007 |
Q: I am 14 years old and I live with my brother who is 11 and my parents. We moved into Canada 4 years ...
A: I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. Please understand that what happened was an ...
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| seperated husband says god changed him | 9/7/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been seperated for 4 months. He has been physically abusive including pushing ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. However it is difficult for me to answer your question with regard to ...
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| I Think I'm in an Abusive Relationship | 8/17/2007 |
Q: I’ve been wondering a lot lately if I am in an abusive relationship. I’ll give a quick list of facts ...
A: My name is Susan and I thank you for contacting me with your inquiry. First I must say that you took ...
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| mean hubby | 7/9/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 4 years, but together for 7. He's is 24, and I am 25. This is ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. You took the first BIG step in realizng that they way your husband ...
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| My friend is in a abusive relationship | 6/18/2007 |
Q: I know a girl who's boyfriend hits her. He doesnt hit her everyday, but at the sametime shes not ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. If your friend is being abused by her boyfriend and she has been with ...
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| help to help others | 6/3/2007 |
Q: I suffered abuse as a child,it wasnt torture my father loved me, and i wasnt sexually abused.We were ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry and I hope that this message finds you well and in good spirits this ...
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| surviver looking to help | 4/29/2007 |
Q: I think it is amazing how you help people after being a victim of abuse yourself in the past. I too ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry regarding assisting victims of abuse/domestic violence. I myself ...
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| effects of domestic abuse | 4/24/2007 |
Q: i recently married the man of my dreams. and i love him. but i am haunted by the physical, verbal ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. The various affects of abuse can follow us throughout our lives. One ...
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| Am I creating this behaviour | 3/25/2007 |
Q: Susan, is the problem mine and am I worrying about nothing. I have been with my ihusband 2 years and ...
A: I thank you for contacting me. After carefully reviewing your inquiry. I believe that you and your ...
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| Emotional Abuse | 11/11/2006 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for a year. He has custody of two of his three kids. The oldest lives ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry regarding emotional abuse. To answer your question, YES your boyfriend ...
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| self defense | 10/17/2006 |
Q: its ok to retaliate to repeated domestic violence
A: In certain circumstances retaliation may save a victims life. On the other hand retaliation may ...
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| Am I being emotionally abused? Should I stay? | 8/31/2006 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 4 years now. During that 4 years he really doesn't like to ...
A: Yes if you feel you are being emotionally abused and if the relationship is making you unhappy you ...
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| How to make it stop. | 1/10/2005 |
Q: Over the past two years my husband has choked me, pulled me by my hair, raped me and emotionally ...
A: I thank you for contacting me. I do appologize for the delay in replying to your request for advice. ...
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| domestic/emotional abuse | 8/11/2004 |
Q: i left an emotional abuse boyfriend afer 10 years, first i felt sorry for him and thought i could ...
A: I thank you for contacting me regarding your situation. First I am sorry for the emotional abuse you ...
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| domestic violence | 7/28/2004 |
Q: My husband was recently arrested and taken to jail by a police officer who happened to be driving by ...
A: I thank you for your message and I am sorry for the emotional turmoil you are experiencing. I've ...
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| How can I forget all the abuses I 'd experienced? | 6/19/2004 |
Q: I am separated with my husband--who abuses for almost 10 yrs, he left, i feel relieved, but he took ...
A: Yaochaun Yin: Hello I thank you for your inquiry. I am terribly sorry for the emotional pain you ...
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| domestic violence | 5/13/2004 |
Q: How do you prevent domestic violence?
A: I thank you for taking time to send me your question regarding domestic violence. The best way to ...
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| abuse/family relationship/love | 4/30/2003 |
Q: I am 44 years old, have been in an abusive, controlling relationship for almost 15 years. I have ...
A: My name is Susan. I thank you for your inquiry. I read your story and first I must say my heart ...
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