Expert: Gypsy Garcia - 8/2/2009

Question
Hi Gypsy Garcia,

I was hoping you would be able to help me with something. I identify myself as a bisexual and I've developed strong feelings for a friend of mine over the past year. And sometimes, I feel as though those feelings are reciprocated. She has done some very obvious things that would suggest so, but then she goes and does something else that would leave me wondering if she does or not. She's a very flirty person, but some of the things she does towards me exceeds flirting. So I can't tell if she is just playing around or being serious.

I had a dream the other night about her—a first actually so I was really hoping this would tell me something. In the dream, she came over my house to sleepover. She spent her time on my computer as I laid in bed watching TV. I told her to come on the bed with me and so she turned off the computer and did. But throughout the entire dream, it seemed like she was lifeless. There wasn't really any emotion on her face. Shortly after, I went to shower and when I came back, she was laying on her side with her head propped up by her arm watching TV—emotionless. I THINK she said she was bored and she was going to go home early tomorrow, but I told her that my mom wouldn't be home until 5. She said she'd take the bus home. I remember my stomach dropped when she said that. And that's all I can recall.

And last night, I had another dream about her. I was having trouble remembering it so I wrote it down as soon as I woke up.

We were on the phone and she said she was going to take a shower. I remember I was at my bathroom sink and she was getting into the shower as she was on the phone with me. I could literally see her in my head showering at her house with the water running still talking to me on speaker. Throughout the dream, I highly doubt that I ever saw her naked. I think she always had a towel around her. So then I hung up but I could still hear her talking, saying "oh I don't know if you hung up yet but.." and she said some stuff that I can't remember. She appeared very happy and excited to talk to me. Then she somehow appears in MY shower. Someone called her and she pokes her head out the shower to answer it, she then became very serious. She came out the shower and I THINK yelled at me for not picking up her phone or something? She somehow makes the person call her back and forwards the call to my phone and takes my phone in the shower with her to talk to the person. As she's talking, I use the toilet, maybe reading a book or something. I'm not sure.
This is where the dream starts to fade a bit..I remember a song comes on and she starts to sing along, very happily, in the shower. I'm not positive but I think the words were "we are the reason to believe" repeating over and over again. Then out the window I could see shadows of figures (horses maybe?) passing across.
Then two former teachers appeared in the corner of the bathroom and a friend of mine (who happens to be one of the teacher's daughters) appeared next to me. See looks at my flip flops/sandals and tells her mom that each of the diamonds on my flip flops are 1 karat diamonds. And that's the end of the dream.

I am so sorry about the length so far, but this would really help me figure her out so I can do something. I don't want to waste anymore time pursuing her if she doesn't feel the same way.

There's also one more thing I was hoping you could give me some insight on. I'm sorry for bothering you with all these.

I used to like this boy that went to my school a few years ago, and the feelings gradually stopped once I befriended him—I liked him as a friend. But after we graduated, we haven't really seen each other in a few years, only here and there and an occasional chat. Well I saw him the other day and we talked for bit and I think I might have feelings for him again.
So in the dream, we were in front of my house and he was on my side of the street and some other kid was on the other side of the street standing in the doorway of a house. The kid didn't really looked familiar. My friend had skittles on him and he was trying to throw them one by one into some bag on the ground but kept missing..badly too. So I laughed and joked/made fun of him. Then the kid across the street throw a skittle at him and my friend threw one back at the kid but he missed badly.
So then I threw one and missed, but then it bounced off something and hit the kid in the back of the head. Then we went back and forth throwing skittles at each other. I actually hit the kid more than he did me, and when he'd hit me it would just skim me because I was hiding next to a car but it'd hit him right on when I threw it. So that's all I remember basically.

I'd appreciate any insight you can give me. Thank you so much and once again, I'm extremely sorry about the length. I really appreciate your time. =)

Answer
Dear Brenda
I think there are more games on the horizon if you persue this. Things you really do not want or need. It all looks good on the outside, nice package and all but on the inside the package carries heavy baggage that you will be drahhed into if you go forward.
Sorry
Love and Light
Gypsy