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I often have dreams which have a common theme of putting myself in a bad situation and being unable to properly get out of it.

For example, committing a crime and instead of being able to think clearly and come up with a good solution to the problem, I do something stupid like run or try and hide in some ridiculous way. The details of the dream keep changing, but the theme is the same. I am never able to fully get out of my situation, and have to resort to "cheating" (I'm a fan of video games, apparently it turns up in my dream too).

I recently got a new job that I'm okay with, am in a stable relationship, and have an average relationship with my parents. These dreams have been recurring for the last few years. Can you help me understand what this theme means?

Thank you,

Hey Kim!  I'm sure we can figure out what your dreams are about.  It would really help though if you can describe one of your dreams - maybe your most recent dream - in more detail.  Often, there are lots of clues in dreams which might seem insignificant, but they can really help pin down what the dream is all about.

The way you described the theme of your dreams - eg: putting yourself in a bad situation and being unable to get out of it - is probably a really spot on description of what is going on in your life.  I am guessing though, that you probably can't really think of any such situation, otherwise you wouldn't be asking for help.  Would that be right?

In general, committing a crime in a dream might be something to do with a moral issue you are facing (depending on what the crime is of course.  If you could describe a crime in more detail this would help.)  Running or hiding in a dream usually refers to avoiding something.  In fact, this might explain why you can't think of anything that the dreams might be about because you might be really good at putting certain naging thoughts out of your head!  Cheating in a dream might refer to cheating yourself or kidding yourself along in some way.  It could refer to cheating on others (not "cheating" cheating necessarily, but not being totally honest about your feelings perhaps.)

Does this make any sense to you at all?  If not, send me something in more detail as a follow-up question and we can go from there.  Any other comments would be most appreciated also.

In the meantime, take it easy.

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