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Dear Relationship Counsellor,
Is it true that there are men that treat love relationship seriously, and thus loyal, and men that do not, and thus be adulterous/playboy/swinger?
Is it also true with women?
Is that the reason why we have men that sleep with numerous women, and women that sleep with numerous men?

Answer
Hey Choo,

Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring your heart felt emotions and seeking a helping hand for the same. Kudos to you !!!

Well yes when ladies keep their priorities clear and let the guy know what they desire in long run, ladies can easily make out who all guys make them suppress their wishes or ask them to pursue their passions, along with married life or relationships. People feel true honest and loyal guys is myth, but actually, it's not that way. It's all about how do you go about making your relationship work and lead to mutual acceptance of each others views about life.

Well men try to be playboys when they are serious in relationship and cheated by ladies or they have friend circle who keeps boasting about dating ladies, they take it as cue card and get into adulteration. Otherwise, guys can stick around with same girl for ages also.

Well women also have desires in life and many feel shortcut to success is by using any means. They also have sexual desires of having multiple partners and if they can play around they do, just that they cant express openly like guys. Also a lady always wants a strong guy in life who can bind them and keep them glued, not someone who give them total liberty always !!

Well sleeping around is more to do with sexual capacity and making a mind that their partner can't satisfy their hunger for wild sex, which they tend to get it fulfilled by sleeping with various partners in long run.

All the best !!

Cheers,
Relationship Counsellor
Bringing smiles on the faces on the way .....
(relationships.counsellor@gmail.com)

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I am quite experienced and matured enough to handle questions related to following topics: 1) Love- Friendship 2) Issues in all kinds of relationships. 3) making a relationship work. 4) Effective tips to sustain a relationship. 5) Sex related queries. Well as of now haven't come across any such questions, which would offend me or I lack expertise in, but am a straight forward person and doesn't hold my wordings back. I don't mind being honest in case I lack knowledge about particular aspect and quite flexible to accept genuine views of others or seek other professionals for my case studies, to help the clients out.

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Well I have been doing online counseling through my own blog for past two years. I have got good response throughout, which has motivated me in going ahead and helping people in their relationship issues and bring a smile back on people's face. I don't say that am a professional in this area, but well sufficient enough to contribute in the aspect of Modern Day Relationships.

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