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About Ken Bush
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I can answer questions about astrology, counseling, parenting, depression, dating, numerology, divorce, sexuality, psychology, relationships, love, intimacy, psychic gifts, and marriage.

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I have worked on line, on the phone, and in the church for 15 years. I was supervised and trained by a licensed State Counselor in family dynamic, adolescent intervention, marriage and family psychotherapy and crisis counseling.



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AA; BA in Counseling Psychology

 
   

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Family Relations - second marriage problems


Expert: Ken Bush - 10/26/2003

Question
My husband and I have been married for 2 yrs. Our spouses are deceased. Mine died several years agoo while his more recent(3 yrs). One of his daughters will not accept our marriage. We were invited to his grandson's b-day party at his grandson's request(his is 5 yrs old), but his mom didnot acknowledge us. What do we do. The other children are coming around. Mine are fine with our marriage. He has a granddaughter that is almost 2 that he had never seen until today. What can we do to bring this family together. They do not celebrate any of the holidays together because of our marriage. Why did she bother to invite us to the party if she wasnot going to speak to us. I know she is grieving but she is missing out on so much by not letting us be a part of her and her childrens life. thank u - we need help and prayers. j

Answer
Hello Jamie:

I am sorry for your situation.  Sounds like you have a lot of caring energy to help in this sitation and that is what is making you sad.  The process of accepting you with your husband of 2 years can take up to 5 years according to one study on divorce.  See this as your chance to show your great mercy toward people that may be ignoring you or trying to hurt your feelings.  Your highly gifted and are held to a higher standard, hang in there dear soul.

Remember to help heal with the power of mercy blended with love.

Take care my friend.

Love and light to you

best Ken

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