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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| How to find my pc muscle | 2/5/2012 | Nikki |
| Q: Can you please help me thanks I want to have an orgasm A: The PC muscle is inside your vagina (the muscle that you would use if you were peeing and trying to ... | ||
| I seem to be able to do it only one way... | 2/1/2012 | Nikki |
| Q: Ok, so I've been masturbating nearly a year, and I seem to only be able to bring myself to orgasm in ... A: First of all, lots of girls and women masturbate by humping something (right girls?). You know, I ... | ||
| Why does my Clit? | 1/9/2012 | Nikki |
| Q: Three cheers for you and your expert approach to female masturbation. I have been reading this site ... A: You could always make a quick trip to the ladies room Jan (lol). I actually have done that before ... | ||
| Why does my Clit? | 1/9/2012 | Nikki |
| Q: Three cheers for you and your expert approach to female masturbation. I have been reading this site ... A: So Jan, what is an orgasm? I guarantee that you will know it when you have one. It always feels good ... | ||
| Do i orgasm/ tips to reach orgasm | 12/18/2011 | Nikki |
| Q: It feels good but I dont think im reaching my orgasm. Im a virgin so im afraid to put my fingers ... A: It sounds like you are asking how to reach your orgasm. So, what is an orgasm? You will know it ... | ||
| Girls and masturbation | 11/30/2011 | Nikki |
| Q: Hey Nikki, Now as you could probably tell I'm no girl, but there is somthing that confuses me about ... A: Daniel, Most women (and girls) most definitely do masturbate. They will not admit it to you because ... | ||
| Female Masturbation | 11/29/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I am 21 yrs old and I have been masturbating since I was 18.I am against sex before marriage so I am ... A: Usually, there is an opening in the center of the hymen that is large enough to allow a tampon or ... | ||
| Female Masturbation | 11/28/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I am 21 yrs old and I have been masturbating since I was 18.I am against sex before marriage so I am ... A: When you masturbate, do you usually have your orgasm? Do you ever have more than one orgasm when ... | ||
| Can you help me have an amazing orgasm? | 11/17/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I'm only 14, but I really want to have an amazing orgasm. I've been probably fingering and doing ... A: Do you orgasm when you finger and stimulate your clit? There are some techniques to use when ... | ||
| how to orgasm | 11/14/2011 | Dave |
| Q: my question is that i dont know if i am correctly masturbating. usually when i rub my cilt and rub ... A: What you are doing is fine. Try rubbing beside your clit. Get your finger wet in your vagina ... | ||
| TMS-female | 11/11/2011 | Dave |
| Q: From the time that I was a little girl, I have always masturbated face down, a hand in between ... A: The way you are getting orgasms for yourself is one way to masturbate, and it is working for you. ... | ||
| Am I normal? :/ | 11/7/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I'm 15 years old this year and I have some questions regarding my body. I'm not sure if this if ... A: Yes, you are normal. You have extremely sensitive nipples and you are sexually responsive. A girl ... | ||
| Something exciting | 10/31/2011 | Dave |
| Q: Im 20yrs old and a virgin. Waiting for the right guy, i guess. I strated masturbating when i was 10, ... A: Sarah, thank you for your question. I want to help you because you really shouldnt have to get sore ... | ||
| Sore clit | 10/25/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I love masturbating and I have been at it for about two or three years now and I am currently 14. I ... A: The problem may be what you are using to clean your vulva and vaginal area. Generally, it is a good ... | ||
| Need more excitment | 10/23/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I have been masturbating for about four years now, i am turning 16 and i was wondering if you had ... A: Do you rub your clit? If you havent tried it, just experiment to see what feels good. Get it wet ... | ||
| Consequences of frequent masturbation? | 10/23/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I'm 17 years old and have been masturbating on and off since I was about 12. In the past year, ... A: Megan, thank you for your question. Can you describe your vibrator for me, or let me see a picture ... | ||
| Orgasm help | 10/21/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I am 15 ( and a little scared seeing as this is my first time asking) well I use a handheld back ... A: There is no need to be scared hun. You are being brave and asking what you need to know. You can ... | ||
| menopause and orgasm | 10/12/2011 | Nikki |
| Q: my wife is 48 and one year without her cycle, her hot flashes and other symtoms seem to be slowing ... A: Paul, I feel you. What I would recommend to you is to learn how to pleas your wife orally. And I ... | ||
| Other ways to Orgasm? | 10/12/2011 | Nikki |
| Q: I am 15, turning 16 in the next few months and I've recently started to Masturbate. The only thing ... A: The best advice I can give is this. When you are rubbing your clitoris and it is feeling good, ... | ||
| female orgasm | 10/2/2011 | Dave |
| Q: Im happily married 20yrs, my wife can always orgasm by crossing her legs, but ive never been able ... A: Paul, I understand that you are asking this question so you can help your wife achieve orgasm, and I ... | ||
| Masturbating, cant reach an orgasm on my own | 9/30/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I'm 15. I've been masturbating since I was about 12. I always just let the water from the bath ... A: Yes, I do have some advice for you Maya. Did you begin having orgasms when you were 12 using the ... | ||
| confused | 9/26/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I'm 19 and i have never experienced an orgasm. I find my self frequently turned on without much ... A: I answered hurriedly so I want to express a few more ideas. You raised the question that there may ... | ||
| orgasms | 9/26/2011 | Nikki |
| Q: i recently started masturbating and every time i get close to an orgasm i feel the overwhelming urge ... A: I know I used to stop before I reached my orgasm because when I would get close I would feel like I ... | ||
| breast massage | 9/15/2011 | TD |
| Q: how do i give myself a breast orgasm? thanks! A: Write back and check "private" Yes women do reach an orgasm by stimulating their breasts but for ... | ||
| curious | 9/13/2011 | TD |
| Q: I understand that there's -- in terms of color -- two different kinds of vaginal secretion, a white ... A: I do not know the percentages. The clear is triggered from the g-spot area where it is stored. The ... | ||
| Fed Up with No Action | 9/11/2011 | TD |
| Q: I am fed up with trying to have an orgasm. I am 24 and have been masturbating for a long time ... A: I am not sure for now what the real issue is with you........but we can try to find out But I have ... | ||
| Confused | 9/11/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I am 13 and recently started masturbating. But when I try, I dont experience the supposed pleasure ... A: The answer to your question is very complex. Simply put, orgasm is the best feeling you can have. ... | ||
| Baby Oil? | 9/8/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I'm a 15 year old female. I've been masturbating for about 4 years. When I masturbate, it usually ... A: One thing I forgot to ask you the first time is about your wetness. Do your panties get soaked ... | ||
| delayed orgasm | 9/7/2011 | Dave |
| Q: im danielle and im 28. my problem is that it takes too long for me to reach an orgasm. i do have it ... A: You are a very sexual young woman. It is wonderful that you feel the desire for sex so often and ... | ||
| delayed orgasm | 9/7/2011 | Dave |
| Q: im danielle and im 28. my problem is that it takes too long for me to reach an orgasm. i do have it ... A: Danielle, I want to give you a detailed answer so please give a little more information. Explain to ... | ||
| Time for a vibrator??? | 9/5/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I don't think I am reaching my full potential as far as orgasming is concerned but I have been timid ... A: I suggest you try using a vibrator since you are open to the idea. Use it a few times and try to ... | ||
| Baby Oil? | 9/3/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I'm a 15 year old female. I've been masturbating for about 4 years. When I masturbate, it usually ... A: Generally Baby oil is safe to use on your vaginal area as long as you are sure the bottle is clean ... | ||
| tingle feeling | 9/3/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I turned 14 last month and have been masterbaing for a few months now. I have a bf but we really ... A: No, it isnt bad to masturbate a few times in a day. At your age I would say it is very common. And ... | ||
| tingle feeling | 9/2/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I turned 14 last month and have been masterbaing for a few months now. I have a bf but we really ... A: Thats good Kayla. Thank you for clarifying it for me. OK, I understand what you mean by the tingle ... | ||
| tingle feeling | 9/2/2011 | Dave |
| Q: I turned 14 last month and have been masterbaing for a few months now. I have a bf but we really ... A: Kayla, please don't worry about touching yourself too much unless you do it constantly or if it ... | ||
| Is my orgasm fake? | 8/30/2011 | TD |
| Q: I have an intense orgasm every time I masturbate but have never been able to orgasm during sex with ... A: Please write back on private I would suggest that you try to stimulate yourself the same way you ... | ||
| Masturbating While Sleeping | 8/28/2011 | TD |
| Q: I’m just wondering if it’s normal to masturbate while sleeping. My best friend is a very “active” ... A: I will write some here but I really prefer to write on private so reply and we can take this ... | ||
| Feeling like i have to pee during sex | 8/22/2011 | TD |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and for the most part our sex life is amazing but ... A: This is not un-common and can be confusing......... The sensation to pee is most all the time a ... | ||
| Am I squirting, or is it urine? | 8/20/2011 | TD |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have discovered a way for me to squirt..i think.Ive been doing it for a couple of ... A: usually it is not urine. it is usually a clear odorless fluid from the g-spot area But sometimes ... | ||
| with boyfriend | 8/20/2011 | Dave |
| Q: im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and we havent had sex yet and neither of us are really experenced. i ... A: It's probably something I would not recommend. It's too easy for both of you to get caught up and ... | ||
Nikki
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
I can answer all questions regarding female masturbation. I can help you reach an orgasm by masturbating, reassure you that your masturbation habits are normal, and assist you in discovering your sexual self. I am non-judgmental and caring by nature.
Experience
I have studied female masturbation for over 20 years and am an avid masturbator myself. My research has involved one-on-one interactions, personal experiences, case studies, epidemiology, and field and computer-assisted research.
Education/Credentials
I have a doctorate in biological sciences, but female masturbation has been a primary interest of mine even before I received my PhD. My goal is to assist women of all ages so that they learn that there is no shame associated with masturbation. It is a natural act that has been repressed (i.e., guilt provoking) for far too long. Women deserve pleasure the same as men, and masturbation is the best way to learn what feels good. Once they learn, women can show their partners what they like.
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