AboutTD Expertise I can not think of a question that would be beyond my experience.
I have interviewed and worked directly with hundreds of women to overcome issues in both masturbation and sexual intercourse. My techniques that I advise are proven to work and can change a woman’s whole experience with orgasms.
I work directly with women one on one to help them work through their questions and frustrations. As a sex therapist I draw the line at intercourse with my clients, but women feel comfortable with me working with them one and one because they know there will be boundaries
Experience Since all males think they have all the answers I want to be accurate here- I have studied and interviewed several hundred women to get the knowledge to help in most every situation. Most of the help is with orgasms and how to achieve them with or without stimulation other than a penis. My research shows that most women have some mental and physical blocks that just need opening up to understand what is going on down there. Some need stimulation from fingers or toys and many may start that way but progress to not needing outside stimulation at all. The goal for many women is to have an excellent orgasm with just intercourse. This is not always possible and hence women get frustrated. I have a lot of experience with working with women to get through barriers and try different techniques. I have made huge progress with most every client. It changes their lives.
Organizations I do not belong to organizations
Publications I published an article about 10 years ago
Education/Credentials I am a college graduate. I have made it a hobby of sorts for over 35 years. So many women are frustrated with their orgasms and many never know how intense a really good one everyday can be. I know what I am talking about and you will see it in my answers. I make sense out it all.
Awards and Honors No awards except positive feedback
Past/Present Clients I have such a long list of clients that I would take up this page.
Expert: TD Date: 3/24/2008 Subject: Being comfortable
Question QUESTION: Hi, TD.
I have been masturbating since I was 14 *I am now 15* so it's been like a whole year. I am trying to get comfortable with the fact that I do it still. I've talked to my best friend about it, but the thing is that she doesn't masturbate and she doesn't really understand what I am going through. Every time I'm masturbating, I have to stop because for some reason I start feeling weird and thinking that it's someone a young lady like myself shouldn't be doing this. Lately, I've been trying to search more about masturbation and I see all different sorts of thing such as "masturbating is good," "masturbating is bad" "masturbating helps relive stress," "masturbating can make you lose memory,"
I am so confused and I'm getting sick of it! I want to stop masturbating but then again I cant! I mean how much sexual stress can I have inside of me!?!?
Can you sense my stress about this?! Please help.
Thanks.
ANSWER: Hey Zee,
Cool name by the way-
My message is to relax- Don't fret. You can take what I say to the bank-
Masturbation is natural- masturbation is good and most girls do it. And guess what- like 98% of boys do. So relax and enjoy.
Masturbation is healthy. For boys I think it is like "necessary".
For girls it is pretty much the same thing- if you just put up with all that "feeling down there" and do not "sort it out" then you will be certainly frustrated.
Ok so you are horny and your friend is either not or out of touch with down there. Oh well that is her and this is about you.
One thing that is also ok is that it is private. This is about "you" and you can keep in private.
I realize that this forum is valuable for many to read- but also I am not so much for EVERYONE to read all about what I like to say.
So I prefer private in this forum which pisses off some people- but oh well- I was never out to gain a popularity contest here.
So write back with your questions and I am here
TD
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QUESTION: I understand what your saying but that's not all.
I hate the fact that everyone is so cool about talking about sex but why is it so hard to talk about masturbation?? I know it's private but so is sex.
Oh amnd not trying to seem like a b---- but my friend is sexually attactive so that's why I think she doesn't masturbate.
But ok like last night I was masturbating and I started crying. I dont know what to do. I get scared and start acting weird because it's so...i dont know i'm juss not used to having something thats so private because i'm so open about everything.
I told myself never to masturate again. but i want to.
i hate this so much. please help me feel more comfortable with muself.
is there someone wrong with me??
Answer Hi Zee,
What I meant is that sometimes I just do not want the "world" to read my responses and I tend to be more open when you would click private on this forum.
There is nothing wrong with you at all.
I think you meant that your friend was sexually active. Some girls that are do not masturbate. They like all that "build up" and getting very horny before a sex session. Other girls masturbate regularly and have sex often. Either way is just a choice- no right answer.
So let's dialog some and see if we can not get to the bottom of all of this. It sounds to me like you are frustrated and that will usually lead to a kind of not so happening orgasm.
