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YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Question QUESTION: I've been masturbating for a little less than a year, and the last few months I've run into the same problem.
The first 2 times I masturbated (clitorially), I orgasmed very easily. But since then, I haven't been able to. My body will stiffen and I'll have these "tremors" down there. I'm not sure what I'm doing differently, but for some reason I can't achieve an orgasm again.
Any advice? Thanks!
ANSWER: What is your age Alexa? Are your breasts developed? Are they sensitive, like does it feel sexual when you hold and squeeze your breasts or play with your nipples?
Does you clit get erect and wet?
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QUESTION: I'm 17, so my breasts are mostly (if not fully) developed & feel sexual when touched. My clit gets erect & wet when I'm sexually stimulated. I haven't noticed anything abnormal about me or my body, so I'm not sure what is causing this difficulty.
Answer OK Alexa, can you explain , describe your orgasms(the 2 clitoral orgasms you had) and compare what they felt lik to the tremors you mention where you masturbate and yur body stiffens and you feel tremors down there. Does it like the tremors are directly on your clit or your labia or over your whole vulva. Do you feel any contractions? Do you feel it in your anus as well? Just relax and describe both expriences and then tell me the differences you notice between the two.
You are doing very well honey. Keep masturbating and try to relax more. Dont try to orgasm right now, just try to make your clit feel better than it ever has, take deep breaths and relax your tummy muscles and your vaginal muscles as you play with your clit.
