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I WILL answer YOUR questions about masturbation and also help you with concerns you may have. Dont be embarrassed to discuss your masturbation habits. No question is too personal or too private to be dicscussed here. Whether you are a beginner wanting a little help, or a woman seeking a more intense orgasm, or if you simply want to know if you are 'doing it right', you can ask me and expect me to give you the practical help you need. I know that your pleasure and total satisfaciton are impotant to you.
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YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Question Hi my name is Maddy I'm 15 and I have only been masturbating for 2 months. I try to do it every day or every other day. It takes me 5- 10 min of masturbating to orgasm, but when i orgasm it lasts about 2 seconds. Is that normal? Is there a way to make it last longer? I don't use toys or anything other than my fingers. Would that help?
Thank you
Answer Hi Maddy, 2 months, its still new to you then. It sounds like you are doing fine with it. Actually it is wonderful that you are able to orgasm. I know it seems so short and it feels so good you want it to last and last.
Why dont you explain to me exactly what you do with your fingers, the position you are in, etc. Just be as detailed as you can and help me understand exactly what you are doing and how it all feels to you. You are getting release through your orgasm and thats great honey. I will try to help you get a more intense orgasm. The experts say the typical average orgasm lasts 5 to 7 seconds. Of course some last longer and some are much shorter. We will try to get your orgasm to feel better and last longer for you. I know you are wanting that. How much time do you have that you could spend each day in private to work on your orgasm Maddy?