AboutAllie Expertise Any way you masturbate, any questions you have about sex, anal sex, oral sex, masturbation, group masturbation, or mutual masturbation I can answer, and I can help you from numerous experiences. I can also answer any questions about nudism, nudity, or simply just being naked.
Experience I have been masturbating for ten years and have explored numerous areas of masturbation.
Education/Credentials A high school diploma and an Associates Degree in Female Sexuality.
Expert: Allie Date: 6/25/2008 Subject: what am i doing?
Question Hi, I've been engagng in some form of masturbation as long as i can
remember (even at a very young age) but never did any kind of inserting even
with a finger.
What i do do almost every time for the last couple years is lie face down and
place a palm underneath me, right above my clitoris and vulva (where pubic
hair would be) and just push down with my fingers rhythmically, while kind of
bouncing my lower body up and down. The tips of my fingers press over the
top of my genitals and back very rapidly with significant pressure.
I always do this w/panties or even pants on and feel a sensation that
somewhat escalates but doesn't reach orgasm (at least i don't think it does; i
am a 23 year old virgin and to my knowledge have never had an orgasm).
My concern is that I often get really sore..aching sore around my labia lips
and maybe my clit too, but to be honest, I am not as aware of my body as I
should be. I dont' even know what it is I am doing, whether it is clitoral-
stimulation or other- maybe the sensations are around my labia only...i want
to know if what I'm doing is heard of and possibly termed. ( i don't want to
know that it has a name to feel normal about doing it- i feel totally normal, i
just would like to find info)
And more importantly, I'd like to know because of the pain, whether there can
be any effects I should be worried about with this type of masturbation.
This is really the only way i know how to feed urges; I don't feel fulfilled until
i do this. It was really difficult to describe and i hope you got some sense of
it- it's not humping, though kind of of like humping my own fingers, but my
fingers do more work than my hips/pelvis.
Thanks so much and feel free to ask for any additional info.
Answer Well everybody has their own method of masturbating and this is apparently yours, so it is called masturbation. I think you are compressing part of the body that is sensitive but it should lead to any really harmful effects.