AboutSamantha Expertise If you have never masturbated, NOW is a good time to learn what it feels like. http://www.redtube.com/6767
I WILL answer YOUR questions about masturbation and also help you with concerns you may have. Dont be embarrassed to discuss your masturbation habits. No question is too personal or too private to be dicscussed here. Whether you are a beginner wanting a little help, or a woman seeking a more intense orgasm, or if you simply want to know if you are 'doing it right', you can ask me and expect me to give you the practical help you need. I know that your pleasure and total satisfaciton are impotant to you.
Experience
YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Question QUESTION: Do all women/girls come while masterbating?
ANSWER: Most girls do cum or orgasm while masturbating. Some have difficulty with that.
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QUESTION: The reason im asking is cuz a lot of times i cum, even though i dont think ive
reached orgasm. have i actually had an orgasm? or have i just cum? is there a
difference?
ANSWER: There is a difference honey. Some girls call orgasm cumming.
When you say you cum do you mean your vaginal opening gets very wet(lime running onto your legs or your butt), or do you squirt out or ejaculate some fluid?
An orgasm feels amazing, and it leaves you breathless and a little exhauseted if it is a good one.
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QUESTION: I mean it gets all wet, but not squirts.
Im almost certain i've had an orgasm...and yes it was AMAZING! But it only
lasted like a few seconds. :(
Answer OK honey, yes I am sure you had an orgasm from your description of it. And I am so happy for you. Hundreds of girls are masturbating every day and trying to get that amazing feeling that you are able to give yourself.
HOw many times a week do you masturbate and get an orgasm?
What is your age Zoe? I know you are wanting your orgasm to last longer. And it will if you will keep practicing. If you want to, you can start doing kegel exercises. This will strengthen your pelvic muscles, the muscles that you feel contracting during your little orgasms that you are having. look up kegel exercises on the internet and do 10 slow squeezes and 20 fast squeezes 3 times every day for the next 6 weeks. If you have questions about it just ask me.
HOw long does it take you to have an orgasm? HOw long do you masturbate yourself before your body goes into orgasm Zoe? I hope you will do some kegel exercises today and masturbate and have an orgasm. Please let me know and ask any questions that come up.
Dont worry about cumming for now. You will need to massage your gspot inside your vagina ( on the front wall of it) to make yourself cum, or ejaculate. If your hymen is intact, you wont be able to do that yet, but you can have amazing orgasms, and that is important honey. Your orgasms can be VERY satisfying without cumming, K?
