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YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Expert: Samantha Date: 7/5/2008 Subject: Masturbation health worries
Question Hi, my name is Y.T. and I'm fifteen. These questions were also sent to Allie,
but I was hoping to get two opinions on the same matter. I masturbate every
other day or so, usually using running water in my shower so I don't have to
clean up (I ejaculate easily). I noticed something recently that's been
bothering me. My inner labia are beginning to look darker in color and more
stretched, and once got bruised during masturbation. Is this a serious
problem, and will it go away? I stopped masturbating for a week to see if
there were any changes, but they still look dark and stretched. I'm not in pain
at all, and I can still masturbate successfully, but I'm not sure this is normal -
none of my girlfriends have mentioned anything similar. Should I be worried?
I was also wondering about bestiality. I have a large shiba inu named Shuck
who has not been fixed because I live in a fairly solitary environment where
there are almost no other dogs. I've let Shuck give me oral stimulation before,
but I usually find that it's just not as easy or as efficient as masturbating by
myself, even though I come to intense orgasms by it. First off, is this "wrong?"
Is it unhealthy for me or for Shuck? If not, is it dangerous to consider
penetration by him? I heard from a close friend that bestiality can injure or
mentally scar some animals.
Thanks for taking the time to read and answer my questions!
-Y.T.
Answer OK, the bruise is most like caused by masturbating with too little lubrication(wetness). Use KY or baby oil or your own sasliva when you are not wet enough. Keep the area you are stimulating VERY WET.
Abruise will hapeen at times because of over-stimulation. YOu labia are not damaged because of that. If you are conceerned or if they keep hurting see your gyn.
I dont subscribe to the idea of bestiality. My recommendation is stick to masturbating.
