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I WILL answer YOUR questions about masturbation and also help you with concerns you may have. Dont be embarrassed to discuss your masturbation habits. No question is too personal or too private to be dicscussed here. Whether you are a beginner wanting a little help, or a woman seeking a more intense orgasm, or if you simply want to know if you are 'doing it right', you can ask me and expect me to give you the practical help you need. I know that your pleasure and total satisfaciton are impotant to you.
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YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Expert: Samantha Date: 7/18/2008 Subject: Scared of penetration?
Question Well, I have been masturbating for a few years, but I always just rub around my clit, because I'm too scared to do anything more. I want to try fingering myself, but for some reason it seems really scary and I just can't do it, no matter how horny I am. I'm just scared to put ANYTHING up there.
I haven't been sexually abused, and my family isn't the type to say that masturbation/sex is bad or a sin or anything...so I don't understand why I'm having such a hard time with this.
I love to think about something being inside me, so why does this scare me..? thanks for any help..
Answer OK Bella, are you still virgin, is your hymen intact? Even if it is, you should be able to push one finger in. Try it gently and firmly. Dont hurt yourself and be aware that you could tear your hymen. There is an opening in the center. It is usually large enough to insert a tampon. YOu finger may go in if you persist, but dont force it. LEt me know honey. How old are you?
