AboutSamantha Expertise If you have never masturbated, NOW is a good time to learn what it feels like. http://www.redtube.com/6767
I WILL answer YOUR questions about masturbation and also help you with concerns you may have. Dont be embarrassed to discuss your masturbation habits. No question is too personal or too private to be dicscussed here. Whether you are a beginner wanting a little help, or a woman seeking a more intense orgasm, or if you simply want to know if you are 'doing it right', you can ask me and expect me to give you the practical help you need. I know that your pleasure and total satisfaciton are impotant to you.
Experience
YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Expert: Samantha Date: 7/3/2008 Subject: Water Pleasure
Question I've recently tried masturbating with a showerhead (or rather, the water from it). I'm able to find my clitoris easily, but the sensations quickly become very intense and scare me. I try to keep it a little longer, since it does feel good (though my leg and butt muscles tend to spasm). However, I usually end up just rubbing against a pillow which lately offers a quick but very small climax that isn't all that satisfying. I'm starting to think I should just wait until I have a boyfriend I'm sexually active with and try the showerhead thing with him. Any suggestions?
Answer Miki, you are doing fine honey.
Try this: Just lay in your bad naked and rub the area aroudn your clit. Get it wet from your vaginal opening and keep it wet while you play with that arear of your body. Do it for as lon as it feels good. You may orgasm. Let me know.
