AboutSamantha Expertise If you have never masturbated, NOW is a good time to learn what it feels like.
I WILL answer YOUR questions about masturbation and also help you with concerns you may have. Dont be embarrassed to discuss your masturbation habits. I will not embarrass you. No question is too personal or too private to be dicscussed here. Whether you are a beginner wanting a little help, or a woman seeking a more intense orgasm, or if you simply want to know if you are 'doing it right', you can ask me and expect me to give you the practical help you need. I know that your pleasure and total satisfaciton are impotant to you.
Experience
YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Expert: Samantha Date: 7/10/2008 Subject: we are masturbating instead of sex
Question i'm (32 years old) living with my boyfriend (29 years old) since two years ago. Happily spending each day of our lives. Our sex life was great the 1st year. then, i started masturbating secretly after i noticed that he is frequently going to the bathroom and masturbating. this is hurting me coz i feel i'm not turning him on. and we r sleeping together like 3 times per month only. Masturbation is keeping him away from me. Why? eventhough he says that he loves me so much and only gets an erection with me. i'm doing my best to please him, love him, kiss him and pamper him with sexy lingeries, with anything u could imagine, but unfortunately i feel as if i'm his sister now. the other time i saw in the search bar on the net that he was looking at anal videos, both girls, guyz and trannys. and then he goes running to the bathroom to masturbate. and when i see this, i go and masturbate as well all alone. coz i dont wanna cheat on him.
Please tell me, is this normal?
Answer It is not normal, though it is common these ays with all the porn available on the net.
If you dont like to masturbate alone, tell him. Make sure he knows how he makes you feel when he behaves this way. Ask him is there is somehting you can do for him so he wont need to masturbate privately.
