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About Amanda
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My specialty is finding ways to intensify orgasms and sexual pleasure/satisfaction, but I can answer pretty much any type of question. I can successfully give instructions on how to achieve an amazing orgasm, or achieve a first orgasm, or give different techniques to use. I can help you feel more comfortable with your own body and find out what feels good to you.

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I masturbate every day and I try every new technique that I find. I am always reading about and studying masturbation so I can learn as much as possible.

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I have a high school diploma and I will be getting my college degree next year.

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I have previously helped other people via email or instant messenger and they have been pleased with my techniques. They still contact me whenever they have a question.

 
   

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Female Masturbation - Orgasims


Expert: Amanda - 10/26/2009

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Hello, hoping you can help...
I've always had full wonderful orgasims and a healthy attitude towards masturbation. About 3 years ago, I became quite depressed, became fat, which made me feel unattractive and out of touch with my body. It was round about this time that I stoppped being able to orgasim. I have since recovered form the depression and feel great but I still haven't been able to have one since. To clarify, when I masterbate I can become very aroused and will feel pleasure and then it just comes to a natural stop, it's like the orgasim happens but to nowhere near the same intensity as before there is no beautiful release feeling, just a build of pleasure and then nothing, like a cheap firework. I'm confused as to if it's still a mental thing or could it be pyhsical...
I feel cheated.
Thank you.

Answer
First, I am proud of you for making it through your depression.  I know how depression feels and I'm glad you made it through to the other side safely.

Onto your question.  You might want to keep masturbating after that happens.  Sometimes for me, I feel like I am going to cum, then I lose all the feeling but I keep going and maybe 10 seconds later I orgasm.  The same thing might happen to you.  Just try relaxing and masturbating even after the feeling has gone away.

Hope I helped!

~Amanda

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