Female Masturbation/Masturbating Hurts


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So i'm only 14 years old and i have been masturbating for about 4-5 months. I masturbate with the back of an electric toothbrush and the only position i like to do is making a butterfly position with your feet and then laying on your back. I can't seem to orgasm as good as i used to and sometimes my hip hurts when im done, on my right side. Any suggestions?

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Hi Nicole,

Do you fantasize about anything in particular when you masturbate?  It might help you if you fantasize or think about sex, or watch something that turns you on before starting to masturbate.  Reading a sexy story first can help too.  Do you usually get wet before you start to masturbate?  And are you using the vibrating toothbrush directly on your clit, or near it?  

I will help you as much as I can.   How many times do you masturbate in a week?  And do you notice if it's easier to masturbate right after your period stops or at some other time during the month?  At your age you should be able to have some very satisfying orgasms.

I think the problem you have with your hip hurting is because of the position you are using.  Try to be more relaxed and just open your legs instead of putting your feet together.

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