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I'm 14 and i just started masturbating. I'm not sure if i'm doing it right. I use an eltric toothbrush, but that doesn't always work. I need household items to you. Also, i really want to have an orgasm. I'm also worried about if i'm hurting myself and if it's wrong. I need tips on how to pleasure myself and how to keep myself safe. Btw, my parents can't know. Please answer back!

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Well honestly, the best way is to use your fingers and rub  your clitoris. It takes time to acheive an orgasm, but we all get their.

Because of your age I don't feel comfortable asking you to use "household" items. If something hurts, just make sure you stop immediately.

If you have another question or need a better answer, ask me the question in "private" and I can help you a lot better.

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I can answer any questions related to female masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)

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As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

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I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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Because of the sensitivity of the issue, I would never release names of pasts clients.

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