Female Masturbation/How do i finish?!

So i'm almost 16 and in the past few months have been trying to masturbate. This all started because I was experiencing alot of sexual frustration because I have never had a boyfriend or even been found attractive. I do it alot; or at least try because the problem i'm having is that when i'm about to climax (clit and area around) my muscles start to tense and my hips buck. Now i'm aware that this is apart of the whole experience, but i know i haven't finished. I try to continue but it is either too sensitive to do so, or i have lost the rhythm and have to start all over again. My question is; what do i do? I can't buy something; i don't have an electric toothbrush (nor do i want one), i don't find shower heads working. I try to use otherthings but it just won't work...

Faye, it is important that you learn how to finish -to get your orgasm and sexual release.  I will be happy to help you.  If you know how to do kegel exercises start doing them right away.  I will teach you if you need it.  It sounds as if you are getting very close to orgasm.  We just need to work to develop your technique so your body can get all the good feelings that you deserve.  You are probably much more attractive than you realize.  We may be able to find you a vibrator you can use or something else that will work for you.   You are important and I want you to experience orgasms so you can have sexual release and relief.  I assure you that together we will find something that works.

Is your hymen still intact?  And do you use tampons or pads for your period?  When do you expect your next period to start?  

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