Female Masturbation/masterbation

QUESTION: Hi my name is Kadie i am 18 years old and i recently tried to masterbate but when i did this i get a stabbing pain in my lower area and id like to have sex and have kids in the future do you have any clues as to why this is happening?

ANSWER: Kadie, have you ever masturbated successfully?  Have you had orgasms?

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QUESTION: No i haven't

Im not sure if you inserted your fingers into your vagina or not.  Let me suggest you start by relaxing and rubbing your breasts, then rub inside your thighs and finally begin to rub your vulva, focusing on the area right next to your clitoris.  See how that feels for you.  Use some lubrication on around your clitoris.  If you need more specific help let me know.

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