Female Masturbation/How do i orgasm?


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Ive been masturbating since i was about 10.( i have always had a high sex drive) It started with a shower head , then a back massager, and now i use my hands . I like mostly rubbing my clit. It feels great, and i reach a point of sensation then im not horny anymore . I get real tired and have to pee after . I just dont feel like im having an orgasm , though. Im not a virgin & ive never had anything come close to what happens when i masturbate .. But i just dont feel satisfied by masturbation. Whats going on?

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Hi Chrissy!
Can you answer a few questions for me?
How old are you now?
Do you get wet when you masturbate? About how long do you masturbate before you feel the sensation and then you're not horny anymore.
The sensation you feel, is it like a surge of pleasure, like a "peak"?
Everything else you've described makes it sound like you are having an orgasm, perhaps it's not as strong as you'd like, maybe because of your age.
Get back to me and we'll go from there hunny
-Heather

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I can answer most questions about male and female masturbation including physical, mental and ethical aspects. I've helped many girls and women, and some men, with issues like not enough pleasure, too much or too little masturbation, mutual masturbation and teaching others, and using it to improve your sex life or life in general. If I do not already know the answer to your question, I will gladly find it or refer you to someone who does.

Experience

I have helped my sisters and friends learn how to pleasure themselves growing up. I was always the one my friends would ask about it and I would try to help find the right solution for them. I am very comfortable talking about the subject and any problem associated with it. I believe there is always a solution to any problem, but I will not hesitate to refer someone to counseling if the problem warrants it. I strongly believe masturbation is a healthy part of living for both sexes, and can especially be important for women's sexual health and relationship success. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology and have done a lot of research on masturbation, and how a healthy amount of it can be a positive part of a young person's life, and an uplifting part of a relationship or marriage later in life. Personally I have been masturbating since I was 11 years old, and I have tried just about every trick in the book. I know what worked for me, what works for most people, and what is just a bad idea.

Organizations
Volunteered for one year at a local soup kitchen which also counseled clients. Worked one-on-one with clients as a Volunteer Life Counselor there, finding solutions to financial, shelter and clothing needs.

Education/Credentials
G.E.D. acquired. Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from a Central Oklahoma University.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many friends, my own sisters, college roommates, my friend's brother, a few men and women online.

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