Female Masturbation/I just can't cum.


Question
Okay, so I've tried SO many times to cum w/ just my fingers, but it just doesn't cum out. I don't know how to properly masturbate, and that doesn't help. Can you please help me? Maybe tell me how to do it right?

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Hi Marceline!
I'll need to know a few things before I can help
You are a female correct?
How old are you?
How long have you been trying to masturbate?
What ways have you tried and what feels best so far?

hen you say "it just doesn't cum out" what exactly do you mean. Do you mean that you do not orgasm (have a rush of pleasure) or are you trying to squirt or have liquid come out like you might see in a boy?

I'll be on vacation for a week so when you write back it may go a bit before I can answer, or your question may be sent to someone else, but they will be able to help you... or you may wait until after January 7th to reply and I'll get it then :)
-Heather

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I can answer most questions about male and female masturbation including physical, mental and ethical aspects. I've helped many girls and women, and some men, with issues like not enough pleasure, too much or too little masturbation, mutual masturbation and teaching others, and using it to improve your sex life or life in general. If I do not already know the answer to your question, I will gladly find it or refer you to someone who does.

Experience

I have helped my sisters and friends learn how to pleasure themselves growing up. I was always the one my friends would ask about it and I would try to help find the right solution for them. I am very comfortable talking about the subject and any problem associated with it. I believe there is always a solution to any problem, but I will not hesitate to refer someone to counseling if the problem warrants it. I strongly believe masturbation is a healthy part of living for both sexes, and can especially be important for women's sexual health and relationship success. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology and have done a lot of research on masturbation, and how a healthy amount of it can be a positive part of a young person's life, and an uplifting part of a relationship or marriage later in life. Personally I have been masturbating since I was 11 years old, and I have tried just about every trick in the book. I know what worked for me, what works for most people, and what is just a bad idea.

Organizations
Volunteered for one year at a local soup kitchen which also counseled clients. Worked one-on-one with clients as a Volunteer Life Counselor there, finding solutions to financial, shelter and clothing needs.

Education/Credentials
G.E.D. acquired. Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from a Central Oklahoma University.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many friends, my own sisters, college roommates, my friend's brother, a few men and women online.

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