Female Masturbation/took away my vibrater

Hi. I am 14 years old. I have 2 questions. I. Love to masterbate. I have masterbated for a really really long time. My dad knows i always do and doesn get mad or anything but I asked for a vibrator for Christmas and he got mad. When school was over I found 3 of them on my bed he bought me. Now he won't let me use them because he says I need to learn first.  I have been begging him to let me but he keeps saying be patient and he laughs at me. I love my dad and we are super close and he knows everything with me. but this is going to make us fight. He acts like he is happy that I am mad about it. If he doesn't give them to me tonight i want another one.  Can I buy anther one he doesn't know about? Will the store call him? How much are they?

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I lile to masterbate on my laptop. I record it and watch it sometimes. I save it on a flash drive but now its gone. Can I get in trouble if my teacher finds it or if my dad found it and calls a counselor or something?

You may buy a vibrator if you want to.  You can get one on the internet from a number of different sites.  Some vibrators are available for around $10.  Some cost more.  Im wondering if you have discussed with your dad learning to use your vibrators.  Since he says you need to learn first, ask him how you can learn.  Are they 3 different kinds?  Do they look like they are the right size for a girl your age?  He bought 3 vibrators for you.  Surely he expects you to use them.  Are you ok with asking him what you need to do so you can learn to use them?  Just be calm and talk with him about learning.  Let him know how badly you want to use the vibrators.   Ask him if you can use just one of them.

Do you think someone took the flash drive with you masturbating?  I doubt if you will get in trouble over it since your dad knows you masturbate and he is ok with it.  

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