Female Masturbation/Masturbation

Hello, I am 14 and  having trouble getting fully aroused, like I get turned on and slightly wet but nothing I can work with and I have been trying for the past year and a half to be successful and have an orgasm. And if their were something sexual in your past is it possible that your mind could some how be blocking the mental part of my focus of reaching orgasm?

Hi Abbey -

There is a chance that something in your past can block an orgasm, if it was something tragic and/or shocking. But you could be blocking an orgasm by just "over thinking" things.

Send me another email but mark it as "private", and let me know all the techniques  you have tried so far when you masturbate. This will give me an idea on what we can do.

Angie :)

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I can answer any questions related to female masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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Because of the sensitivity of the issue, I would never release names of pasts clients.

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