Female Masturbation/Hi!! :D

Hi,my name is Kiara. I am wanting to know how to give myself an orgasm. At the moment I use back massager that has 2 round heads on it. It feels really good and I like it alot but I want to learn how to give myself an orgasm. I recently talked to my very close friend and she has tried to help me but nothing has worked so far... :/ I really could use your help.... Thank You!!

Are you saying you have never had an orgasm?   Or you are able to orgasm but only with the back massager?  Tell me how you are using the back massager.  Do you just press it against your clit or do you rub it all along the crack of your vulva?  Exactly how do you make yourself feel good with it?    And what is your age please?

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