Female Masturbation/Too small?

I'm 16 and have been masturbating for years, when I masturbate, I can only get as deep as my fingers, even when fully aroused, it hurts to go deeper, my boyfriend and I plan to have sex one day and he is around 7", I'm a tiny girl and he's a pretty big guy, and obviously much bigger and longer than my fingers, when we have sex, will he be able to ever fully enter me?

Rose, you will probably have a hard time the first few times he tries to put his erect penis in you.   On the positive side, your vagina is made to take a penis, and they come in all sizes.  When you are fully aroused it is likely you will eventually be able to take all of his big penis.

Have you tried to get any kind of small dildo in your vagina?  Do you know whether your hyen has been broken or not?  When did you start masturbating?   Are you able to have orgasms.  Is it sometime difficult for you to get one?

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