Female Masturbation/I want to orgasm...


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Hi, I am 14 and I am not sure where to start.... I have recently wanted to try to give myself an amazing orgasm but I cant seem to achieve it. I have tried massaging my clit and even doing the "come here fingering motion" inside. I have a back massager that has 2 round balls on it and it can adjust speeds and I love to use that because it makes me feel good but not orgasm good :C. I get dry down there when I try to massage myself. Is that normal? I am straight but I fantasize about all genders.Is that normal for me and my age? I am at a loss here and could use some help with achieving this.

         Thank You!

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I advise against using a back massager or any other kind of vibrator.  Women who are best at this start with their hands.  Please read this page for ideas: http://www.healthystrokes.com/youngfem.html and then this one: http://www.healthystrokes.com/female.html.

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I have been answering questions about female masturbation, male masturbation, and other areas of sexuality for over 11 years on my web site HealthyStrokes.com, and I have been an expert in sexuality categories on AllExperts for over two years.

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