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Hi I'm 24 years old I have 2 kids
But I don't know how to masturbate
My husband doesn't allow me to buy a vibrator or dildo
And we have sex like once every six months
I'm starting to go crazy without sex
I want to start masturbate but im scared
I think it will hurt or I will damage something
What can I do to start pleasing myself
I just can't cheat on my husband...
What can I use to make masturbation safe yet pleasing
I do watch a lot of porn and try imitating what they do but touching my vagina just scares me
Even though I crave to please me
Please help :(

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Lala, I understand your needs as a woman and I appreciate your desire to masturbate so you can release your sexual tension.  It is a need women have.  Since your husband does not meet your sexual needs it will be very good for you to learn to masturbate.  It isn't hard to do.  

You said you crave to please yourself and you can.  Do you have times when you can have privacy for an hour or 2?  Thats all it takes.  I can help you gain confidence about touching your vagina.  It feels so good you will want to do it once you get started.  Have you ever had an orgasm?

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