Female Masturbation/Female Masturbation

I'm gonna make this short and to the point
I'm 14 and I can't seem to have an orgasm.
I've been trying to for a couple of years...
Fingering doesn't work, I can barely feel it.
I have to use an object like the round end of a razor.
Is there something wrong with me where I can't reach an orgasm?
I can rub my clit, but only for around a minute because it's really sensitive and almost hurts and tickles at the same time.
is there something i can do to fix this?

Hi Delaney-

I think you should try using the end of a brush and not the razor. I am only saying that because it would be less dangerous.

I hope that rubbing your clit does not hurt, but if it does please -- and I mean this -- see your Ob/GYN and make sure there is nothing really wrong, ok.

If you want to try new things I suggest you buy something that vibrates  --- like a massager. You can but one at Target or Walmart.

Another thing you can try is using water. You can either lay under the facet in the tub and let water hit your clit, or if you have a detachable shower head, you can use that also.

If you don't want to try those things, let me know. I am sure we both can figure something out :)  

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I can answer any questions related to female masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


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