Female Masturbation/swimming

QUESTION: Hi, I'm Gina 14 and thanks for the site it's great.  I attend an all girls boarding school and like most teens my hormones go crazy so I am usually jilling off 2 or 3 times a day.  I swim most days as that is my sport but sometimes even the water running over my body is enough to set me off!!  Three times a week I receive one to one coaching from Miss Green who is 19 I think.  We do this is a special training pool and it's usually just the two of us, it often requires me to swim lengths to perfect my technique.  Usually I have a swim float between my thighs and just use my arms, problem is Miss Green insists the float is placed right up against my crotch and any movement makes me horny, even floating about is enough for the crotch to get me horny with the float pressing there.  It feels nice and doesn't hurt, I don't want to say anything as I secretly enjoy it but sometimes I have to be excused to go and rub off.  Sometimes I have to float on my front and just show her the arm technique with the float jammed aganst my crotch, she usually holds me up by my tummy and this sends me into a right horny moment as well, as few times she has actually placed the float between my thighs to get the right spot and she has kind of rubbed my crotch a little with the float, as I said I enjoy the sensations but is it ok??

ANSWER: Hi Gina!
Everything you are feeling is normal! Everyone masturbates and it would make anyone feel good to have a float placed right up against their crotch. Can you tell me a little more about you and Miss Green? Do you ever think about her while you masturbate? Do you think she's pretty? Has she ever touched you with her hands?
Do you masturbate with your roommates or by yourself?
It's perfectly OK if you get turned on by other girls. Try asking Miss Green if she ever feels good "down there." She clearly wants to make you feel good when she rubs the float against you, and this is a gentle way to let her know that she is :)

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QUESTION: Hi thanks for answering, Miss Green is 19 I think and very pretty, yes I often think of her when I masturbate, I sometimes look at her crotch in the pool and it makes me horny, a few times she has accidentally touched my crotch and it felt nice.

Hi again Gina!
This is all very normal. You sound like a very beautiful young lady. Next time you're alone with Miss Green I want you to kiss her on the cheek and ask her if she ever touches herself down there. This will let her know you do too, and if she is uncomfortable at all she will just say no. I don't think she will be uncomfortable though ;)
If you would like to chat online, look me up on yahoo at cheergurl0111@yahoo.com

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I can answer most questions about male and female masturbation including physical, mental and ethical aspects. I've helped many girls and women, and some men, with issues like not enough pleasure, too much or too little masturbation, mutual masturbation and teaching others, and using it to improve your sex life or life in general. If I do not already know the answer to your question, I will gladly find it or refer you to someone who does.


I have helped my sisters and friends learn how to pleasure themselves growing up. I was always the one my friends would ask about it and I would try to help find the right solution for them. I am very comfortable talking about the subject and any problem associated with it. I believe there is always a solution to any problem, but I will not hesitate to refer someone to counseling if the problem warrants it. I strongly believe masturbation is a healthy part of living for both sexes, and can especially be important for women's sexual health and relationship success. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology and have done a lot of research on masturbation, and how a healthy amount of it can be a positive part of a young person's life, and an uplifting part of a relationship or marriage later in life. Personally I have been masturbating since I was 11 years old, and I have tried just about every trick in the book. I know what worked for me, what works for most people, and what is just a bad idea.

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