Female Masturbation/Female Orgasms.

Hi, I'm 15 and have masturbating since I was about 10, and I have an issue. I always try to reach an orgasm but I just seem to be peeing myself. I have looked at it and smelled it and it is definitely urine. My boyfriend and I have an intimate relationship but I am afraid to let him finger me to the point of an "orgasm" because I don't want to pee. Am I doing something wrong? I stick my fingers in myself and run my clitoris like most people, but I don't know how to not pee.

Hi hun --

It sounds like you are 100% certain it is pee. The only thing I can do then is guide you to see your OB/GYN. Since you  know you are peeing, you need to see your OB/GYN as soon as possible.

Sorry, hun,you didn't like my answer,but I do strongly suggest you go to your OB/GYN.  

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I can answer any questions related to female masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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