Female Masturbation/Help with orgasim

Hi so i am stuck. I am 24 years old and i never had a orgaism. I tried and tried. I have had sex since 18. I tried masterbating i tried it with my exs but nothing works i get very excited to where i wanna scream but thats it i never entirly get there. I tried fingering myself using vibrators showers and all i wanna feel a orgaism. People tell me its a wonderful feeling and i probably had one not realising it....trust me i havent. I just wanna be able to have one and please myself. I am currently not in a relationship with anyone so its all on my own.....what do you suggest i do?

Hi, hun.

The truth is I can't really help you since you have tried all the options. If a vibrator doesn't work -- as well as shower heard and fingers -- then there isn't much left. I would suggest you go to your Ob/Gyn and explain to him or her what is going on. Some women just have less blood for in their clitoris and that can hinder an orgasm.

I'm sorry I couldn't help you out more.  

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I can answer any questions related to female masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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