Female Masturbation/mutual masturbation


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Hello , thank you for taking the time to help people, I am a male but u mentioned in your profile you are able to advise on this subject. I am young, and recently married.my wife is pregnant and because of issues we cannot have sex. She recently asked me to masturbate for her, and she will touch herself also.I feel very awkward with this. I just pretend she isnt there?

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I think it would be better if you helped your wife have an orgasm instead of pretending she isn't there.  Ask her to show you where her clitoris is, if you don't already know.  Or you can study the anatomy drawings on this site: http://www.healthystrokes.com.  Gently touch the area around her clitoris.  It's usually a bad idea to touch the clitoral head, which is very sensitive.  

Maybe she will return the favor and perform manual or oral intercourse on you.

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I have been answering questions about female masturbation, male masturbation, and other areas of sexuality for over 11 years on my web site HealthyStrokes.com, and I have been an expert in sexuality categories on AllExperts for over two years.

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I have been answering questions about female masturbation, male masturbation, and other areas of sexuality for over 13 years on my web site HealthyStrokes.com, and I have been an expert in sexuality categories on AllExperts for over four years.

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I have a Ph.D. in an unrelated field from one of the leading research institutions in the world.

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I have helped thousands of females over the years with their questions on masturbation and female sexuality.

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