Female Masturbation/daughter

Hi, I have a very cute young lady who is my daughter now 12 and growing up fast.  A few times I have walked past the lounge and seen her poking into her panties, sometimes I have stopped to watch for a while as bad as this is.  Her room only has a curtain over the door and sometimes I hear her bed moving in a way that says one thing, a few times I have glanced through the curtain and invaded her privacy I guess.  Sometimes I become aroused hearing her or watching and I have used her panties, gym shorts and leotards to masturbate with, as I a bad father?

Hi Jim,
No, you are certainly not a bad father! We are all curious like this at times! Is your wife/her mother at home with you two? When you peek through the curtain what do you see... have you actually seen her masturbate?
She is probably just beginning, and pretty horny a lot of the time. Does she ever flirt with you, or tease you?
If you'd like, we can discuss this more privately on yahoo messenger: cheergurl0111@yahoo.com

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I can answer most questions about male and female masturbation including physical, mental and ethical aspects. I've helped many girls and women, and some men, with issues like not enough pleasure, too much or too little masturbation, mutual masturbation and teaching others, and using it to improve your sex life or life in general. If I do not already know the answer to your question, I will gladly find it or refer you to someone who does.


I have helped my sisters and friends learn how to pleasure themselves growing up. I was always the one my friends would ask about it and I would try to help find the right solution for them. I am very comfortable talking about the subject and any problem associated with it. I believe there is always a solution to any problem, but I will not hesitate to refer someone to counseling if the problem warrants it. I strongly believe masturbation is a healthy part of living for both sexes, and can especially be important for women's sexual health and relationship success. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology and have done a lot of research on masturbation, and how a healthy amount of it can be a positive part of a young person's life, and an uplifting part of a relationship or marriage later in life. Personally I have been masturbating since I was 11 years old, and I have tried just about every trick in the book. I know what worked for me, what works for most people, and what is just a bad idea.

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