Female Masturbation/masturbation help

I'm 24 years old and a virgin. I've been trying to masturbate for a few years now but have never reached orgasm. I've tried stimulating my nipples and inserting fingers but it doesn't really do anything for me.

I tend to stick to just rubbing my clit and it feel good for a while, but then it just goes away. It gets very frustrating. I don't know what I am doing wrong.

Melissa, have you tried inserting a finger or 2 while you rub your clit?  How much time do you spend when you try to masturbate?  Just gie me a little more detail.  Do you have privacy?  It is very important that you are able to relax completely.  I will be happy to help you discover the way that works best for you.  Each woman is different.  

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