Female Masturbation/Can't seem to orgasm


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Okay so I'm 14. I've been masturbating for a while. When I was younger I already knew my sexuality. Well my friend had been telling me about sites to go to and how she knew a way to have a great sensation. So of course, I Tried. And I could orgasm and everything. Well I stopped for a short time because I was in the denial stage thinking I was wrongful and disgusting. Well I got over that and started doing it again. I've tried in the shower, on my bed, I've tried clit stimulation, penetration, objects, etc. I just can't seem to orgasm

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Your situation is not unusual for a young female.  Many don't have orgasms until they've been masturbating for a while.  Keep at it.  Try to enjoy what you're doing and don't be so focused on having an orgasm.  If you're enjoying masturbating, you'll have an orgasm sooner rather than later.  

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