Female Masturbation/Privacy

So I have a big family and everyone is always in and out of the house. I can never find enough time alone to masturbate. I share a room with my two sisters who NEVER SLEEP. On top of that my mom makes me keep the room door open all the time. If I'm in the shower and someone has to go they'll pick the lock and walk in anyway. Now I'm always sexually frustrated and its showing I'm my mood. Any suggestions?

That is really difficult, hun. The only really place would be the shower. I'm sure you have told them not to come in, so I won't bring that up. What about at night in the bathroom when most of the house is sleeping ... can you go in their and do it? It's really hard to have an orgasm if you share rooms, and could be quiet embarrassing if you are caught. I really do think the only place is the bathroom. You will just have to finger and rub faster than usually. I know that is less enjoyable, but it's better than nothing.

Let me know how else I can help you, hun. Just send me another message, ok :)  

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I can answer any questions related to female masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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