Female Masturbation/Masterbate

Hi I'm marissa and I'm 13 and I have 2 questions. First, when I was 10 me one one of my close friends were hanging out and we were playing prince and princesses and we were pretending to kiss but somehow it turned into real kissing and that became a habit for us was to play that game and kiss and once we almost started trying to make out. Is that bad? And second, I think I might be a little bit of o lesbian because I love watching lesbian porn and master bating to it.

Hi hun-

I can answer both questions at the same time.

It's normal to experiment with friends. Just don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. If you trust her and you two like to make out, that is normal. It doesn't make you lesbian, it just makes you curious. The same goes with lesbian porn: Just because you watch it doesn't mean you are, or are not, gay. You will know if you're gay further down the road :)  

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I can answer any questions related to female masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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