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Hi, I'm 14 and have been masturbating for about 2 years. I only started to orgasm a year ago, and in the past I had no trouble staying arroused while masturbatting. For the past month though, I've been masturbating every few days, and have found that I can't stay arroused unless I watch porn (and even then staying arroused is very hit or miss). I also have been having trouble having good orgasms lately, because the ones I get are weak and don't last very long. I was wondering if you had any advice on how I can get a stronger orgasm and how I can stay arroused witgout having to watch porn the entire time. Thanks!

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You might be pushing yourself too hard or too often to have an orgasm.  Just relax and do it only when you're in the mood to enjoy yourself.  I don't think you have an arousal problem if it's only been for the past month.  You might enjoy using a lube, especially one with warming chemical in it.  Warm Touch at Dollar Tree only costs a dollar (surprise).

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