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Hi,

I am 73, and I still masturbate a lot. I used to masturbate a lot when I was a teenager and in my twenties, and early thirties, and then it slowed down, which I understand is normal, but even through my fourties and fifties, I masturbated at least two or three times a week. I thought when I'd turn sixty I'd lose some interest, and masturbate a lot less. But that didn't happen, and then I told myself that I'd lose interest when I'm seventy, but actually, I'm masturbating more now than I was when I was sixty, and that's because I retired two years ago, and just have so much more time than before. Sometimes, I'm masturbating twice a day. I'm not complaining about it, it's actually fun, I just wonder if it's normal. Do other 70ish aged people masturbate a lot still? How old are people normally when they stop doing it regularly?

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Hi Betty!
Thanks for your question. I'm afraid I'm not an expert on later-life masturbation, nor is there a whole lot of research about this. I can tell you from my experience that everyone is different, and it's quite normal for masturbation to fluctuate throughout life. It doesn't *always* continue down a slope of less and less frequently. In fact I'm wondering if retirement and less physical activities combing with a less active social and work life wouldn't have something to do with an increase in masturbation. I would wager that you'd find an increase in people your age as your lifestyles change and shift. I think it is perfectly normal, and you should enjoy yourself. I hope I've helped!
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Ashley

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I will do my best to answer your questions about female masturbation, including what healthy masturbation is or how it can become unhealthy, when you should consider masturbating with others and when that may cross the line to sex, and how to handle masturbation in your family whether it's your parents, siblings or children

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I am a Master's Student in Developmental Psychology and have focused most of my classes and research on healthy sexual development. I have helped younger siblings, friends, cousins and now my pre-teen daughter embrace masturbation and safe sexuality in a healthy and vibrant way.

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