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Hi, I have been masturbating since I was about 14.  There have been times I have done it every day and some days 4 or 5 times a day. I mostly use my fingers when I can, but the thing is that because I sometimes get bored using my hands I like to try and fingure out different ways to get satisfaction.  Sometimes BECAUSE I have masturbated and gotten myself wet and excited, I end up wanting to do it again.  I have a couple of toys, but I can't always have a toy handy and I have done some pretty unusual things, but I was wondering if you have some other ideas, and if its normal to have a strong urge right after I just played and orgasmed. I just want to know if maybe I can had a good orgasm maybe I wont have the urge to so often.

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Hi Wendy!
What you're describing is perfectly normal. There's nothing that I'm aware of that can take away the urge to continue to masturbate after having an orgasm or masturbating for a while. Your body is very turned on and it just wants more. A better orgasms may even lead to a stronger urge to continue. I also masturbated 4 or 5 times in one day some days, still do when I'm home; and my young daughter will occasionally do the same.
As far as different, you could try "homemade" toys such as carrots or cucumbers, or humping something like the edge of your bed or couch, or of course experiment with a girl friend and gt her fingers and tongue down there instead ;)
Hope this helps!
Take Care!
-Ashley

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I will do my best to answer your questions about female masturbation, including what healthy masturbation is or how it can become unhealthy, when you should consider masturbating with others and when that may cross the line to sex, and how to handle masturbation in your family whether it's your parents, siblings or children

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I am a Master's Student in Developmental Psychology and have focused most of my classes and research on healthy sexual development. I have helped younger siblings, friends, cousins and now my pre-teen daughter embrace masturbation and safe sexuality in a healthy and vibrant way.

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Church organizations, a counseling/soup kitchen volunteer organization and several teen puberty forums where I hope to offer advice

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Class-specific college writing on Developmental and Sexual health

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B.A. in Psychology at an Indiana University. One year of Masters classes.

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Dean's list, 8 semesters.

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Family (siblings and my daughter), friends, cousins, and those I've met online

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