Question Hey. im 17. for as long as i can remember ive been masturbating on my tummy with one hand inbetween my legs and humping my hand. it takes me about three minutes to reach that point and get pleasure. i believe im having an orgasm but i dont know. ive never seen cum i dont think. sometimes sticky stuff. but its clear. never squirted. honestly i just have no idea. but im a lesbian and my girlfriend fingers me great. but i dont think shes ever made me have an orgasm?? is there something wrong with me?
Answer Hi Nicole!
You are perfectly normal hunny! Most girls don't squirt contrary to what popular belief would have you think! You describing extra wetness or stickyness is exactly what your body is designed to do. And many many people, most of us actually, have a much harder time cumming at the hands of someone else. You know exactly what you need to do with your fingers every second to get to orgasm the fastest but she doesnt. It takes time and lots of practice for her to make you cum. Keep enjoying her company and keep practicing, and enjoy your body!
I will do my best to answer your questions about female masturbation, including what healthy masturbation is or how it can become unhealthy, when you should consider masturbating with others and when that may cross the line to sex, and how to handle masturbation in your family whether it's your parents, siblings or children
I am a Master's Student in Developmental Psychology and have focused most of my classes and research on healthy sexual development. I have helped younger siblings, friends, cousins and now my pre-teen daughter embrace masturbation and safe sexuality in a healthy and vibrant way.
Organizations Church organizations, a counseling/soup kitchen volunteer organization and several teen puberty forums where I hope to offer advice
Publications Class-specific college writing on Developmental and Sexual health
Education/Credentials B.A. in Psychology at an Indiana University. One year of Masters classes.
Awards and Honors Dean's list, 8 semesters.
Past/Present Clients Family (siblings and my daughter), friends, cousins, and those I've met online