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Hi! I'm 17 and I've been trying masturbate for some time now but whenever I really get going I get these jerks in my shoulders and I get really twitchy. Once this starts I can't really control my hands as much and I lose my momentum! I don't know what to do and I've never been able to finish. I've tried slowing down but it's never as good. Any recommendations?

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Keep working at it.  Do what you enjoy and don't focus so much on having an orgasm.  You might get one when you least expect it.  I suspect the shoulder twitches are coming from using too much force.  Relax instead and feel the power of a gentle touch.  Also keep your legs as straight as you can when you think you're getting close.

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