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I WILL answer YOUR questions about masturbation and also help you with concerns you may have. Dont be embarrassed to discuss your masturbation habits. No question is too personal or too private to be dicscussed here. Whether you are a beginner wanting a little help, or a woman seeking a more intense orgasm, or if you simply want to know if you are 'doing it right', you can ask me and expect me to give you the practical help you need. I know that your pleasure and total satisfaciton are impotant to you.
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YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Question I am 32 year old married women. Recently I have noticed that my husband is losing interest in sex. In order to cope with that I have started masturbating using a big peeled banana with a condom on it to avoid infection. Is it healthy> Now i cannot help it as thats the only ay to relaese my sexual urge. Kindly advice
Pauline
Answer Hi Puline. Of course you cannot help it. Believe me, I understand that perfectly. You are at a time in your life when, as a woman, your sexual need is intense and demanding. Most women feel the urge to be satisfied increasing rapidly in their early 30's.
What you are doing with the banana is certainly a very good thing to do temporarily. Thank you for using the condom to avoid infection. That is excellent.
I would love to see you get a dildo for yourself. There are many available on the internet. That would be better because a condom is not required and you can wash it with any soap and warm water, use some alcohol after you use it, wrap it in a face towel, and it's ready for you next time you need it. A large personal vibrator(available at some pharmacies and dept stores) may work for you, but many women prefer the penis-shaped dildo. You would probably enjoy it more. Until you get a dildo, other objects may work well fo you. Use your imagination; and be careful and you will do fine.
Pauline you have taken a step to satisfy your sexual urges. I want to encourage you to continue and improve your masturbation methods, and thereby feel more intense orgasm with complete sexul release. How often are you masturbating? Does that seem satisfactory to you?
Let me know how you progress, and if you need more suggestions as which dildo to buy, I can help. Let me know whether you want to stimulate your gspot or not. Also, tell me if you are having orgasm with the banana fully inserted into your vagina, or how do you handle the inserted object at the point of orgasm.
