About Samantha Expertise If you have never masturbated, NOW is a good time to learn what it feels like. http://www.redtube.com/6767
I WILL answer YOUR questions about masturbation and also help you with concerns you may have. Dont be embarrassed to discuss your masturbation habits. No question is too personal or too private to be dicscussed here. Whether you are a beginner wanting a little help, or a woman seeking a more intense orgasm, or if you simply want to know if you are 'doing it right', you can ask me and expect me to give you the practical help you need. I know that your pleasure and total satisfaciton are impotant to you.
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YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD TO ENJOY MASTURBATION AND ORGASM.
Orgasm is a mental , emotional and physical time of intense pleasure, and needed sexual release. It is a whole-body experience and the whole body needs to be involved in masturbating.
When a female has an orgasm she becomes intensly involved sexually, her breathing gets short, rapid and irregular, her heart rate increases, her nipples harden, her vulva and vagina start to contract and relax involuntarily, her body and legs stiffen, and her clitoris becomes erect and exposed much like the male penis, then she secretes a thin liquid from her vagina.
It is very difficult for her to stay in control of her body during orgasm, though many fight to be lady-like, its just not the time for it; her voice even betrays her and as she spasms she gives in to little moans, gasps and yelps that are all part of her body trying to express the pleasure it is going through. Body jerks often accompany her vaginal and clitoral contractions. She may appear helpless and feel helpless during the sexual release induced by stimulation of her genitals either by her partner or herself. Does this describe what you want or need?
I have about 12 years of increasingly satisfying personal experience with females. I also have had opportunities to help women with their sexual release at times because of my involvement in alternative health care. Pre-orgasmic females sometimes only need some simple coaching to help them reach an unforgettable climax.
Question QUESTION: Okay so i have been sexually active now for almost 3 years and i have never been able to orgasim. My boyfriend now will finger or eat me out until i have this tingly sensation or almost like, a numb feelings but it seems like no matter what he does or what i have done by myself in private, it just never happens. Do you have any suggestions to help me?
ANSWER: Yes I think I do have some things for you. I know you are desperately wanting to orgasm. Your sexual need must be overwhelming you. But you just need some coaching. I'm sure we can get you an orgasm. Girls masturbate many different ways. Explain to me what you are doing when you are privately masturbating yourself. I will help you to get what you need.
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QUESTION: Yes it really is. When im in private..well its like rubbing in circles and stroking, some penatration and such, i dont really know how to describe it.
ANSWER: You need to do kegel exercises. If you need help with them let me know. Also Maca capsules or Damiana capsules can help you. -from your local healthh store or pharmacy.
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QUESTION: yeah i need help with that, i have never heard of those.
ANSWER: Allright, do this to identify the muscle group you need to squeeze. -called PC muscles or vaginal/pelvic muscles.
When you need to pee sit on the toilet with your legs apart pretty wide, start peeing for a few seconds then stop your pee, start again then stop. The muscles you use to stop yourself when peeing are the muscles you will squeeze when doing kegels. push a finger into your vaginal opening, now squeeze a few more times. Feel the tightening.
Now to do the kegels, squeeze 10 slow then 20 fast.
Slow is squeeze, hold while you count to 3 slowly, then release. Repeat that 10 times.
Fast is squeeze the muscles 20 times as fast as you can.
Do both of them 3 times every day. After 2 to 3 weeks you will notice a difference when you masturbate.
When you do them the first 2 days try to lay on your back, feet 18 inches apart and put a finger in your vagina as you do them. After the 2nd day you can do them with your clothes on, sitting, standing or lying down. Let me know if you have questions. You will do fine and this will help you to orgasm the way you are needing to. It costs you nothing and can help a lot. Also try the capsules if you can.
Your masturbating is fine. Just experiment touching in different ways to see if it feels better to your clit. k?
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QUESTION: okay thank you for that advice. what will those capsules do and wherewould i find them?
ANSWER: Damiana capsules will increase your level of arousal, sexual desire and just make sexual touching more pleasurable. The Maca capsules will give you stronger more intense orgasms and will increase your sexual desire as well. Many women (and men) have benefitted from both supplements. You can buy them at any health food store and at most pharmacies. Swanson vitamins is a good place to order them. Look on the internet and research the capsules. Learn all you can about them.
How are you doing with the kegels?
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QUESTION: Okay thanks, And is there a certain age you have to be to buy them? I'm doing well with them i think..i can do them now almost anytime. Is there any specific positions you suggest that would help increase penetration and touching of my Gspot? some that i do get a bit embarassing because air gets in and..yeah. kinda akward.
Answer As long as you are 18 you can buy them.
I am glad you are trying gspot touching and stimulation. How does it feel when you touch it? What sensations do you get? The longer you touch it the harder you want to press on it, especially as it starts to engorge with fluid. It's good to keep it up as long as you can, up to one hour. It should give you some deep pleasure quite different from clitoral touching.
For Gspot touching, some girls like to get on their knees on the bed with breasts touching the bed, reach under yourself and push your finger up into your vaginal opening. Do a 'come-here' motion with your finger on your gspot. I know it is awkward but it pays off if you can keep it up. It really does help to have a gspot stimulator. Look at Dr Leonard's catalog or website. You will find 2 very good ones. They are not expensive. I love to see a young woman use one that she is comfortable with if she is serious about gspot orgasm. K?
