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anon wrote at 2013-05-28 06:39:08
I am a 20y.o. female and I did the same thing at around the same age. I remember the embarrassment when my mother told me "that's private. If you want to do that go to your room." Of corse, doing such things in front of the tv with company over probably wasn't the best thing in the world. I would just like to say that by your daughter doing this at such a young age and training my body to orgasm in this way is not a neutral or positive thing. as a young adult, it is IMPOSSIBLE for me to orgasm in any other way. I've had a few sexual partners and have tried anything imaginable, but it's no use. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and our sex life is a struggle because of it. I feel broken and inadequate. If there is any way you can stop her, I would do it. It will cause so much pain for her (emotionally) down the road when she meets a spouse and cannot reach an orgasm with him.


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