Female Masturbation/Crossing legs

kate wrote at 2008-01-11 08:23:33
i use this technique too. I discovered it when I was in eighth grade accidentally . it is the best feeling in the world. I just place one leg over the other and squeez the upper thighs together. This builds an unimaginable pleasure. it is sweet in public coz noone knows what you are doing. You are not alone.

jenny wrote at 2008-04-09 19:34:02
I finally found out I'm not the only one! I have been able to do it since I was born. Mom always said that as soon as the diaper came off my legs would wrap and she could do nothing but wait till I was done. And of course there are pics of me doing it too. Very embarassing. But now I'm an adult so at least if the guy cant help me I help myself!!

christina wrote at 2008-05-13 21:18:07
i thought it was so odd when i crossed my leg and it just felt amazing so i explored it more. i guess its not so weird after all knowing im not the only one

Hannah wrote at 2008-08-17 10:48:22
I thought I'm weird. Now I know im not alone. My boyfren has tried all sorts of erotic things. But we did not actually made love, we only did foreplay. But I just can't get the feelings where i could at home by my self.

Vicki wrote at 2008-12-20 01:28:25
Oh my god, i thought I was weird.

I found it this way on accident too. All my ex's and my current boyfriend knows about this. This one knows how to work around it since he knows it's only way I can get the pleasure from it. I cross my legs while I am on him. It is actually like orgasm in normal way with your guy.

I usually take only few seconds and I can have orgasm multiple times. I feel that it helps my muscle there a lot too, like a bit of work out.

Rose wrote at 2009-02-26 03:53:04
I can remember I used this technic since I was 5. I have been feeling shame before I can really enjoy sex with man. I knew some women must like me when I was 14/15 years old. Things bothers me is that I never get orgasm with man.  I used to have a partner who has issue with his peanut which can't cum with normal intercourse and it last very long. I tried to use it to mimic leg pressure,I reached 50%-60% but never reach the same leg pressure.

nicola wrote at 2009-02-27 02:17:05
Hi I also cross my legs - wow can't believe finally have found this site, I use my imagination cross my legs and squeeze them together, when I start getting a pulsing feeling I increase my thoughts and the pressure until I cum.  It is so intense, I do go through stages of wanting to do it one after the other, the most I got was 6 times but it was becoming painful and not as strong, have to be really turned on for that.  I also seem to be able only to lie on my right to do it not as good on the left, can in my car though.  Have thought I was a freak for years so I am so pleased to have found this sight. xx

meg wrote at 2009-04-18 16:22:23
i have the exact same problem. it works so well to cross your legs. it can take me within 1-3 minutes to achieve and orgasm. it is quick and amazing.

rosepetals wrote at 2009-05-26 04:05:12

i too can only have orgasms by crossing my legs. what you have written in your post describes my situation perfectly.

the technique works by crossing your legs and squeezing in your crutch. It only take me about 20 to 30 seconds to reach an orgasm this way but i have never had an orgasm any other way.

Diamond wrote at 2009-09-06 10:27:20
I am squeezing right NOW. I discovered it age 10 while doing homework. Whats wonderful-u can do it in public. I am now a teacher and has even dun it in class! I need no penetration. Just glorious dirty thoughts. My ultimate fantasy is to teach it to other young girls!

Diamond wrote at 2009-10-10 07:12:15
I am no dirty woman. When doing it no one knows. And the fantasy is exactly that-only fantasy. A tip for my fellow squeezers to enjoy with your man: lie on back, him above. Let him penetrate you. He now slightly lifts himself to allow you to cross your legs. Now start squeezing-i also like rocking gently rhythmically, faster and faster still as that glorios feeling builds! So you are squeezing him inside you as well. Men who shared this with me (quite a few-blush) have assured me it was best cum ever

orgasmpleases wrote at 2009-11-29 10:10:37
This is the only way I can get an orgasm and I think it might be unhealthy because I'm too dependent on this method.  

kate wrote at 2010-01-11 19:23:42
do any of you girls have find that crossing one leg is better than the other one. mine is left over right the other way doesn't work as well.

hmm wrote at 2010-01-11 21:47:04
holy crap i've done this since i figured out in second grade and i always thought it was bizarre, and i felt weird letting boyfriends know...glad i'm not alone! hopefully i can finally figure out how to do it another way sometime haha

xox wrote at 2010-03-03 03:14:45
I do the same.. I thought I was the only one..done it since I can't remember..this is my favorite way of masturbating  

Kitty wrote at 2010-03-19 02:16:23
I do it too..

I normally do it multiple times once I start.. Normally I have the urge to do it especially when I'm under a lot of stress or bored.  Also what my cycle hits and feel horny, I end up doing it so much until I pass out.

At last wrote at 2010-04-19 22:17:50
It is such a relief to find this site. I have been crossing my legs since I was about eight and it really is the best feeling in the world.  I tend to feel the need when I'm stressed at work, feel like my blood sugar is dropping or the best time is setting myself a challenge to cum before the train pulls in at my station.  I do wonder if anyone can tell or if my eyes dilate.  It's great telling your partner that you are sitting at your desk or on the train thinking about them and next thing you know yourve had yet another great orgasm.  

dai21 wrote at 2010-05-12 07:13:54
d link made my day!!i have been doing it since i was in 2nd standard,i dont remember how or when i discovered it then but i came to know quite recently that it is actuly masturbation!i genrally have more urge before my dates.i tired other manual methods quite a number of times but this is the only 1 that works 4 me. i can do it 3 times 4 times continuously,fanatsizing plays quite a role in my case! and i was so worried that i am the only one with this habit.it feels great having others also share it.reading the comments i felt as if almost evry 1 wa describing my scene!  

Kirsten wrote at 2010-05-16 20:08:16
I discovered this when I was about 12.

The feeling was amazing, of course I still use it. It's great as no one can tell. Just the pressure, and I feel like I have exercised by doing so.

Sonia wrote at 2010-05-23 15:59:33
Yep, ditto, same here from about 10 yrs old. Discovered whilst hanging upside down on a bench, of all places.  Unfortunately, it can go on for ages (which is usually great), but sometimes can 'arrive' at really weird times of the day. But I am glad, that after a long time thinking was relatively freakish about not being able to come through penetrative sex, that I find I actually very responsive and sensitive - like all of you.  :)

anya wrote at 2010-05-27 08:29:32
hi girls, im so glad to have found this site, i thought it was weird way coz all i know is rubbing and fingering which i dont find pleasure at all, i discover crossing legs when i was 12/13 accidentally while i was reading a sex magazine,it was the most beautiful discovery ever! and until now at 31 and married. i cross my legs while hubby kissing the back of my neck...its heavens!!!!  

josie wrote at 2010-07-06 22:17:53
hey i use the same technique of squeezing my legs. i even do it at work when im bored and no one can tell!i cant seem to orgasm with my man though and cant get into the right position to be able to squeeze effectively :( you girls seem to be able to. any tricks?

Bibi wrote at 2010-07-18 20:45:38
Hi! I've been doing this since for-EVER! But now I'm really sad that I can't come with a partner (by touch, oral sex nor penetration, although all of these feel really good but not perfect)

Please give me tips on how you achieve orgasm when with a partner. Thanks!

Roni wrote at 2010-07-29 00:04:21
omg! i thought i was the girl in the whole world. i experienced it watching a film on a sofa when i was 5 or 6. i still do it, i usually lay on my back, cross my legs, then sqeeze my thighs together, putting my hands on them to help! i think it's also a fun way of exercising because you get sweaty and tired, then you can't get up so you do more. you are left wet in there! i think it's a totally normal thing, feels normal to me, just a way of masturbating for any age lolz.

Katie wrote at 2010-09-11 00:05:43
I am so relieved to have found this site!! I, like many other women, thought there was something wrong with me. I've been masturbating this way for as long as I can remember, at least from the age of 4. My mum used to call it 'my exercises'! I never realised what it was until my teen years.

Once I've done it once, I do it again and again maybe 5 or 6 times until I'm satisfied. It takes about 30 seconds for me to orgasm, then I rest a bit, and before long I'll be up for it again.

I always wondered if this has anything to do with the fact that I never orgasm any other way, nor do I really enjoy clitoral stimulation by other means?

Does anyone else experience these problems?

I really enjoy sex and have a huge appetite for it, and am never left unsatisfied although I never orgasm... But I'd like to know if I'm normal...?

Allie wrote at 2010-09-27 19:13:18
I've been crossing my legs, squeezing them hard, and move my hips up and down to get the pleasure. I didn't know what it really was, since I've been doing it since kindergarten. My mom used to come in and yell at me since it was not normal thing to do. Now I am 18 years old and still do it, since I never had sex before. I really didn't know it was really masturbation till a year ago.

Truthfully, I am little ashamed of doing this, since I've been doing this since I was 5 years old. But now, I can't stop doing this often and it's bothering my studies, since I am in college.

Secret's Out! wrote at 2010-10-18 23:17:18
I'm glad to have found a group of you with the same talent for fast, efficient, mess-free orgasm. Yes, I do consider it a talent or a gift because of those 3 factors I just listed!

I started doing this when I was about 8... it started with short squeeze pulses, alternating legs. I would lie on my back, pretending to push to give birth. I eventually found that left leg over right, lying on my right side, felt the best. It wasn't until I was 13 did I learn that I was having orgasms.

For those who say you can't have orgasm any other way, this might not be all true. I eventually managed to orgasm from rubbing my clit, but its much slower. Orgasm by oral sex also takes longer, but you have to really believe you want to cum. Don't ever feel like you are burdening your man by taking too long to cum.

Oh, and here's an awesome trick, for those of you who want to try. Lie on your side (whichever you usually cross legs on), and have your man slide in from behind. Once his penis is in, cross your legs and squeeze while he thrusts. You'll orgasm together because your leg squeezing could just about send him over the edge.

Anyway, best of luck discovering! :)

crinury wrote at 2010-10-19 00:35:21
I'm also a leg-crosser! I started when I was 11 or so. Discovered it when laying down reading on my bed - and had my first orgasm this way. I have so many good memories from it! I used to do it during school, always getting a rush by trying to come before the bell rang... and what a distraction it was for those long evenings of math homework! When I was around 15 or 16, I would sometimes have 5 or 6 orgasms in a row like this, straining my legs for just one more time. I cross my left leg over my right, and hook the ankles together for stability. It's easier if I'm sitting as opposed to laying down, because the legs fall in a more natural position. It also works if I lay down on my stomach, with my legs standing up at a right angle. I can sneak in a hand to finger myself too, either from the front (so I can press on my clitoris) or the back (access to the G spot!). I've also tried wrapping my legs around a hard object, like a round table leg, and squeezing against that. It worked too, but was harder on the lady-parts.

My boyfriend was amazed when I told him - he finds it incredibly sexy to know I can be masturbating fully clothed and sitting down in front of him! And I can only be grateful to having discovered this technique so early, it helped so much to develop a healthy attitude towards sex. With a partner, there are quite a few positions that work well, and two that work like a charm for me. The best is spooning. He has an easy access from behind, and I can squeeze to my heart's content around him. Small, gentle, deep thrusts from him are mind-blowing when I do that! The second best is me laying down on my stomach, and having him on top, legs spread, so I have place to cross my legs behind him. This applies more pressure to my pelvic region, which I found helps intensify the pleasure.

Unfortunately I cannot orgasm without crossing my legs, although we're steadily working on it. Sometimes, when I'm very aroused, I cross my legs to bring myself to the brink, then quickly uncross and keep contracting to push myself over the edge. It works, but it just lacks that amazing intensity and ease that I get from crossing my legs... Also, for the more adventurous out there, I found it much easier to focus on contracting the right muscles when I was high. That was one of the easiest, most comfortable and enjoyable orgasms I've ever had. :D

If any girl here taught herself how to have an orgasm without crossing her legs, I'd honestly love to know how you did it. Please consider dropping me a line in an email? I'm so curious to see what our bodies can experience! But this doesn't mean I think that crossing legs is the wrong way of masturbating or enjoying sex - it works so well I'd probably keep doing it even if I learned other methods too.

JessRabbit wrote at 2010-11-03 09:58:51
Im so happy to  fins this post!

Ive been doing this since I was about 7 years old... think it started when I needed a wee and crossed my legs? Teachers at school always asked if my legs were crossed because I needed the toilet lol

I used to do it all the time when doing homework and now im at uni- its an excellent study break from essays!

However as with everyone else, I cant orgasm any other way... I love sex but I just cant orgasm like that- think I might be too embarrassed to tell guys that i need to cross my legs to cum!

If anyone discovers an alternative way of orgasming during sex- please let me know. Crinury- your advice was really helpful though! Might just try it.

CeCe wrote at 2010-12-12 00:42:54
I'm so happy that I found this site because I do the exact same thing but I usually put my right leg over my left. I found out when I was in second grade at school on accident. I thought I was a freak and the only one who did it. Now I feel so relived that I'm not alone. The only down-side is that after I do it and reach an orgasm I feel ashamed. The best part is that no one knows that you're doing it and I've done it in tons of places without anyone knowing like school, store, etc.

Chrissy wrote at 2010-12-31 07:55:07
Crossing legs works for me too.  Either single crossing or double at the ankles for steady pleasure.  Rapid thigh muscle contractions make the last method intensely pleasurable.  I also wear a tight panty girdle to help especially when standing or riding!  Tight jeans are also good.

emu wrote at 2010-12-31 19:02:30
Finally! !!! Im not the only one. Discovered this when I was 6years old. Didn't understand it. Kept doing until now at 31. I can achieve almost the same when im riding my partner and he's being patient and letting me grind. Otherwise I do it before bed.. when im bored.. when im horny

This is so interesting. I know that my orgasms are amazing and I feel really bad for friends that say that never had one... what causes it do u think? Is it the size of the clitoris?

Caroline wrote at 2011-01-25 23:11:00
Wow thank goodness that I found this website! I thought that I was the only person who was doing this, and this is how I get pleasure whenever I am not with my boyfriend. I accidentaly discovered this feeling in 6th grade when i was sitting at a desk doing homework. I didn't really know what that feeling was until about five years later in high school when I accidentaly did it again when I was sitting on the floor and then I understood what it was. So glad that I am not the only one!

Amanda wrote at 2011-01-27 04:39:34
Omg me too!!! I'm 16 and have had sex with 13 people. I CANT GET THE SAME AFFECT THAT I DO WHEN I RUBB MY LEGS. I hat it. I need help, I wanna be able to enjoy sex.


romay wrote at 2011-02-01 19:50:59
i am 30 and only now got curious if i was the only one able to do this.it started since i was about 8yrs old and i never stopped until now. i also have orgasms during sexual intercourse but if i do it myself i get very satisfied.i wonder what causes this to happen?

Amy wrote at 2011-02-15 05:17:49
I've also been doing this since I was about 8, except when I have to pee, or my bladder is full.. it is such an intense and amazing feeling and that's usually when I get the urge to do it, when I feel like I have to go to the bathroom. I just start feelin antsy down there! It was the only way I could orgasm until I discovered vibrators about 3 years ago. It takes longer, sometimes a lot longer depending. The orgasms I get from clitoral stimulation with a vibrator are not as strong, nor do they last as long but they still are really really pleasurable. I've not found a way to hit the big O with a partner yet, but I'm hoping. Maybe I should incorporate some of this leg crossing into sex. I've tried before, but I stopped before I pushed myself all the way.

LizB wrote at 2011-02-17 04:23:28
Oh my God, this is such a relief, imagine we all thought we were alone! And look at how many of us are here. I've also been doing it with my legs crossed since I was 14, and it is the only way of masturbating for me as well. Like everyone, I too have trouble reaching an orgasm, but it has worked once or twice when I was on top and squeezed my leg muscles.

applesareyum wrote at 2011-02-24 20:20:55
I cannot believe there are so many others dong this. This was A secret I have carried since I was little. The only difference with me is I am never satisfied, I feel I am doing damage to my nerves. I feel I need to keep going again and again as my nerves are buzzing. No amount of normal sex or doing this will stop this dreaded feeling. Sometimes I cant stand it. Does this happen to anyone else

bashfulgirl wrote at 2011-02-26 04:01:07
Well I don't remember the first time it happened, but it was somewhere in primary school. And i accidentaly told that to my friend and she made fun of me and i never told anyone. I'm too ashamed. Although i think its normal and guys kinda like it. (lately i've told a few of my exes)

But I could have an orgasm by not crossing my legs, i sit on top of a guy, and then in a way stimulate myself against him. And i have to be really relaxed and trust the guy, cause otherwise I can't do it. I suggesting maybe drinking a glass or two of wine, just to get relaxed a bit. :)

Philipa wrote at 2011-05-08 07:59:37
Lolz, It's Great When You  Need To Pee

Haha, Strange.

So Relieved wrote at 2011-05-14 04:50:49
As with everyone else, I am so relieved. I have always been afraid to tell my boyfriend how I do it, because I feel so embarrassed. Although it feels really good, I can never reach a point of orgasm this way, nor any other way. This is very frustrating to my boyfriend who just wants to make me orgasm in any way possible, and I can't help him because I can't even do it on my own! It's so frustrating...does anyone have any advice? As a side note, I am a virgin, but we have done everything else.  

Tbaby wrote at 2011-05-18 13:55:02
OMG!! I thought I was weird for this art of self gratification. I have been pleasing myself this way since forever. I never understood what I was doing until I started having sex.   Its good to know I'm not alone!

kayla wrote at 2011-06-14 00:31:37
I havent had sex yet but i been masterbating only this way since i was 6 and my mom would hit me i didnt understand why until i got older but i tought when you have sex you would have the same feeling even better now im reading all the comments and everybody says they cant reach an orgasm any other way i dont even think i had an orgasm before but i can go masterbating this way for hours in my room  

Xenia wrote at 2011-06-15 12:36:59
oh my goodness... I should have looked this up AGES ago! I started doing this since I was an infant..in the crib..in my mother's arms..around the age of 4, I started getting beatings for doing it..and so I would try to hide it. I was taught that it was something disgusting and wrong... but I just never could stop. haha when I was little I tried to explain to my mom that it was the same as "french fries" (my favourite food at the time)...I had no idea it was anything sexual. Then in school, I would do it and at my friends houses...I would say it's my "morning excercise" haha... My first serious relationship was for 5 years with my ex husband and I tried hiding it.. but finally came clean.. and he loved it!! Interesting fact...I was on methadone for a while.. and whenever I would start feeling withdrawal...I would get this uncontrollable urge to do it..I mean like dropped everything and ran into a bathroom stall at the nearest starbucks lol seriously! And the orgasms are intense!! I didn't even know they were orgasms until my ex told me that's probably what they were. And yeah, I can't orgasm any other way which is kinda sad. I would love to be able to orgasm while making love... but ah well..sooooo glad I'm not the only one out there, I really did truly think I was a freak.

Thankgoodness! wrote at 2011-06-24 00:20:34
I have done this forever, and I had absolutely no idea. When I was in about third grade I would sit at my desk and squirm, and my teacher told my mother I hada fidgeting problem. So my mother took me to the doctor, but they couldn't figure it out. I used to get in trouble for it after that, and I thought something was seriously wrong with me. I just couldn't stop. I'm so glad I know now.

Lilco wrote at 2011-07-07 00:01:36
I remember being about 6 or 7 years old and needing to go to the bathroom badly.  I hung onto the sink and let my legs dangle.  I crossed my leg one over the other and felt this intense feeling and I didn't need to pee as badly anymore!   That was my first orgasm.  After that, I hung onto other things or off the monkey bars on the playground and crossed my legs.  My mom caught me a few times and yelled at me, but I couldn't stop.  Now, I'm older.  I've added a vibrator.  I place it between my crotch (on my clit) and cross my legs and dangle off something (usually a table) and cross my legs.  The feeling is so intense.   I cannot have an orgasm through ordinary love making, oral sex, or hand manipulations, but I still enjoy it.   My man lets me use the vibrator while he lays sideways in the bed so I can place my upper body on his lower half while my lower body dangling down the side of the bed.  I squeeze my legs and cum while sucking his dick.  He then performs oral on me right after I've cum and it's fantastic.  He wishes he could make me cum naturally and so do I but I'm just not sure it is possible.  I thought I was the only one like this forever.  I'm glad to see that I'm not alone.

Lo wrote at 2011-07-07 09:53:45
Wow! You couldn't PAY ME to think that other women do this! I swear I've been a leg crossed since I was about 6! It is an amazing feeling, I just did it actually ;) fortunatly I can still cum while having sex with my boyfriend. You ladies have no idea how much this post had blown my mind! I've never told anyone about this. I remember when I was 12 sitting having lunch with my parents at a restaurant and I did it, hehe how sneeky and cool at the time! Lol

freakygurl... wrote at 2011-07-07 23:21:36
Wow...i have discovered this since i was four yrs old nd tryin to climb a pole at school. It feels really good! Bt i cant have an orgasm n e othr way :( i do it in public bt if it gets too intense i stop cus i start movin my body and makin a distort face. Someone plz tell me if this

IZ a real orgasm...Lol  

Hollywood wrote at 2011-07-19 17:05:30
I been orgasming like this since about 10 or 11 I'm 21 now and its still the only way I.can orgasm. Sometimes i can squirt during sex but thats only about 1 outta 15 times it happens. Also only hapoens with certain ppl. I looked it up lol trying to see if i was weird. It looks like several women do it. I guess we are "squeezers" ha ha. My bf and I have been working on trying to get me to climax in sex. Last night I was finally just like I kno this sounds weird but if I squeeze my legs together I can orgasm. So I layed on my left side put right leg over left and squeezed while he penetrated me from behind best orgasm ever. Trust me just tell the guy. He wont care as long as u get off. And the squeezing feels great for him too because it makes it really tight. Also I layed on my stomach with him behind me and squeezed and that worked pretty well to. So squeeze during sex! It makes ur orgasm even better :)

maco wrote at 2011-07-20 15:37:02
Glad to have found this forum. Amazed how many women use leg crossing to orgasm. Like many others I have also probably started when I needed a pee as your bladder is full which intensifies the feeling dramatically. I was about 12 when I did it the first time. I felt inadequate because I couldn't orgasm during regular sex, although I still find sex enjoyable many men feel they have to make you orgasm during intercourse. It was often difficult to let out the secret of your way to orgasm as man is rarely involved in it. My husband touches my boobs while I cross my legs which gets me really aroused. That's the only way how I could involve him. I also cross left leg over right lying on the right side while doing it. I have done it a couple of times the other way round but it's not as intense and more difficult. The only regret I have I want to be able to orgasm during sex. This is the only way I really have ever orgasm-ed and I am 37 now. It also tends to be a bit addictive as you can do it secretly just about anywhere if you can control your face expressions, which can be a bit difficult at times. Since there is so many of us doing it, perhaps we should start a club! ;o)

Jenny wrote at 2011-07-28 05:01:16
Wow!! So glad to know I'm not the only one! I've been squeezing my legs since I was like 6! I just knew it felt good and then I was tired and that's how I put myself to sleep for years! It wasn't till I was older I figured out I was masturbating! I do it all the time, in school, on an airplane....anywhere...mess free and no one knows! At least I don't think so! :) Although, this is the ONLY way I have reached orgasm, and cannot with a partner and it makes me very sad. I have tried so many different things. But one thing I know is, I am stimulating my clit to reach orgasm by putting pressure on my legs, but when I or anyone else touches/rubs my clit it is SUPER sensitive and it makes my legs shake like crazy and it is almost like unbearable feel good pain, and then I squirt, but do not orgasm. Does this happen to any other leg squeezers? I really want to orgasm a different way and or at least & especially with someone...I'm 26...I guess I have a while to try...but advice and tips help! Gonna try some positions I've heard on here! Thanks! Yay for our superpower!

Louise wrote at 2011-08-15 20:38:00
Im so glad to have found this site. Been squeezing since I was little, never realised what I was doing until my teen years! I'm relieved to hear others have difficulty orgasming during sex... not so worried about it anymore. Gonna try out someof these recommended positions. I think it must be good for our pelvic floor muscles =)

Sam wrote at 2011-08-16 20:20:58
Wow I'm amazed at how many people can do this - I thought I was odd. But yeah, it's amazing being able to covertly orgasm - it can make a boring day at work interesting!

anon wrote at 2011-08-16 23:10:46
i have been doing this since i was in second grade...only my best friend knows about this because i asked her if she did it too, she didn't until i showed her. i do it probably 15 times a day. it is the best feeling i have ever had! glad i'm not alone.

libido wrote at 2011-09-15 21:26:34
I'm a male, and since I was very young I figured out the leg crossing technique also. I see only women on here and I can't find a site that says anything about men doing it, but I can do it and yes everyone is right it is an amazing feeling better than actual sex to me but that's just me  

Syntribate wrote at 2011-09-18 08:32:11
I'm a male and i remember i started at 5-6 years  when i discovered this method. I did not know what is , but it was very very nice  . Up to age 14 I could do at school but then I could not do it because i was at puberty and  had already had sperm . It is the best way to achieve orgasm for me . I think i'm a lucky guy .  

cady wrote at 2011-09-19 18:59:49
This is the only way I can get off by myself... for some reason, using my own hand or anything just feels weird & I get nothing from it.

Okay so ADVICE/TIP: I have learned how to have an orgasm with a partner, this is how I do it:

Lie on your back - he is lying on his left side, to your right. Put one leg between his, and the other one over top of his. He is penetrating you from behind. He will also be using his left hand to stimulate your clitoris. Use the SAME muscles you use when squeezing to bring yourself to orgasm as he thrusts in and out.

Keep trying, it can happen. :)

Hughsef wrote at 2011-09-24 13:19:28
im a male and i can cum by crossing my legs, all i do is put my penis in between them facing down, cross them over and then squeese.  

paul wrote at 2011-10-02 16:36:20
my wife of twenty years has always crossed her legs, but she has a hard time with clitoral stimulation, and i have never got her to orgasm,   can anyone help?

dannii wrote at 2011-10-09 20:55:24
Wow i cant' believe it i thought i was the only one, it was bad for me though, i remember standing in a line an just crossing my legs all the time, one time i even fell over becuase i did it :( but also i dunno weather this is true but i have a damaged spline becuase i used to cross my legs i hope this ent true but im soo glad i am not alone :)

Ani wrote at 2011-10-16 22:01:31
:) I am very happy to have found this page too! I cross my legs since I was very little, like some months old.I used to cross the legs around the bars of the cradle :). I continued doing it till now that I am a teenager. However, I want to grow out of it, I see is a a child thing, but since i am an adult almost i want to stop it. I am happy I did it for all this years though :).

Anne wrote at 2011-10-17 00:36:48
wow I didn't know males can do it this way too!!!! That is amazing!!

Becky T wrote at 2011-10-19 21:08:11
O-M-G! I am so relieved to find this post! Did it by accident when in little school and like a pringle once popped, the fun never stopped! haha x Well done ladies for being able to be so open and share your experiences with others in the same (very satisfying) position!! :D Keep leg-crossing ladies! x

bluv17 wrote at 2011-10-20 20:28:56
Sooo glad I gound this! I remember being in the first grade and my teacher would always be telling me to ''quit it'' I didn't even understand it was masturbating until I was 16. Then in the fourth grade I remember trying to get friends to do it! Which was not the best idea!! Im so glad to know I'm not alone!! I do it quite often both in public and private and love it! I use to not be able to orgasm with a guy but now I can both have a g spot and clit orgasm, it takes  a lot to want it, then it will happen, try squeezing during sex, find positions to where you can end uo crossing your legs! mindblowing

Kittygirl00 wrote at 2011-12-01 15:52:58
This is funny I used to do it when I was little. Now I do it when i have to pee but one thing I do that I might of missed on everyone else is hang on something a table back of a couch ect I lift my legs and cross them while holing my body with my arms up and leaning against whatever I'm hanging from. I always have done it this way just crossing isn't enough. I haven't told anyone it's kinda a funny private time thing I guess.

Mr Wanker wrote at 2012-01-13 23:16:44
I'm a male who thought he'd discovered this in high school (a long time ago),because this one girl would be crossing and swinging, and it always got me hard watching. She would start slow and speed up, then one day she stopped and squeezed, her face red, she turned to me and grinned.  I had caught her, but was to immature to pick up on it.  

ans wrote at 2012-01-22 01:09:40
I confirm some men can do that too.

I did it one at school a long time ago. I remember I wasn't quite "on top" when the bell rang, thus I had to make as if I had still had some work to do... and I came while other guys where walking besides me to get out of the classroom. Awesome !!

As an adult, I did it, only once, in a cafeteria ! But I knew before that I would do it, and put some material to avoid any problem. I hope there was no camera to watch people ;-)

I did it while reading, oh well, while trying to read after a few moments :-)

I don't know the percentage of girls able to achieve orgasm like this, but there are some (thanks for sharing your experience) ! I saw one some day, lying on her bed, with her legs scissoring and shaking for a very long time, and eventually more and more violently toward the end, it was sooo hot !!

I was thaught by her :-) and do it sometimes in private.

For those who can't do it (men or women), I think the main error might be a lack of patience. It's not good to squeeze and grind hard at the beginning. On the contrary, you have to make tender and soft regular movements, while having hot thoughts (for instance reading this page !). Regularity is very important IMHO.

After a while, you'll have fun to make *one* harder squeeze, then softer again, but always regular.

Then you will feed the need to do it more often, and to make a longer and tighter pressure.

Etc... don't hurry up, or you will get tired and frustrated, that's my advice.

Once the stronger and longer squeezes become more frequent, you'll get your way to the end. But let it come, don't try try to make it to hard, that's all.

And then, please, if you like, come back and tell us your experience !

Since I'm aware of this method, I watch often girls doing it (but in public they only get some gentle pleasure - I have real doubts about hiding an orgasm to those who know the trick and have watched the beginning of the game).

cutiepie wrote at 2012-02-11 03:31:15
to have found this site i thought i was weird too! o_O i was so surprised its actually masturbating haha. I didnt know i was already having an orgasm because i was doing this act like forever! I discovered this when i was 6 or 7 while taking ballet classes. Haha now i know. The feeling is amazing!

JAMES wrote at 2012-02-15 02:24:51

Anxious Princess wrote at 2012-03-02 01:13:46
I can't say what it means to see this. I had my first orgasm when I was twelve I was watching some naughty stuff on computer  and my bladder felt a bit full so I crossed my legs to hold it in and out of nowhere I knew exactly what to do, and I came. I got addicted to it for a while I can have up to seven in a row and my partner who I've been with years still doesn't know. I thought I was a major freak. It is great how you can do it ANYWHERE I used to do it on buses, police cell (yep) work, wherever nowone knows it is happening! When I'm at home though I lay on my side cross my legs and finger myself from behind. I cannot have an orgasm during sex :( Spooning now doesn't work as it pushes my partners penis out. My boyfriend can finger me but it takes ages and he says it hurt his hand cos I squeeze the life out of it! When I had an exam down there my my female doc she said I had lots of muscle tone down there. I wish I could come normally. I am thinking of seeing a sex conseller but it is expensive. Thanks so much girls.  

syntribate81 wrote at 2012-03-04 03:49:22
Anxious Princess : as you can see, you're not alone in this. There are so many other people who can do this . You don't need a sex conseller . The simple way to explayn what is wrong, there is nothing wrong, so you are a lucky woman who can orgasm by crossing legs, and it's the best way to orgasm. Is so intense that you can not focus on a different way to orgasm . Most of woman can't orgsm in other way and it is not a big problem .Try to tell your partner about this and you'll find together a way :)

raeganw wrote at 2012-03-06 04:34:25
this is such a relief! :) i thought it was the only one! my favorite is right leg over left.. left over right takes longer

i was wondering though,

does it affect leg muscles? i think my right thigh muscle is EXTREMELY strong and my left is sorta..

or does it affect your period? or any development?

christina wrote at 2012-03-08 09:39:37
I'm glad I'm not weird. It's a relief to find this site. I have been crossing my legs since the 5th grade and now I'm 21 and still do it. I get an instant rush from the feeling.  

Geoman wrote at 2012-03-24 21:48:41
Oh boy woohoo for our women haha!!!; James seriously why would u say that.. I mean u were the only guys' representative here till I showed up... Anyway I didn't know bout that women secret!! (evil smile), I have already created sex-stances in m' mind so I can please my sex-partners more

Hahhaha what can I say, you re full of surprises, like a treasure box! And I was kinda turned on by watching your enthusiasm here, you girls are so fun to play with hahah love u all kisses ;)

Oranjuce wrote at 2012-03-28 23:59:48
I found this when I was 11. Absolutely addicted but I too have learned how to do it with a man. Absolutely amazing feeling and i can do it anywhere! Very soothing for a long flight overseas... I'm just saying!  

Thank GOD wrote at 2012-03-31 23:03:13
I've been doing this since I was 3 years old. Crazy right? Now I'm 12. I've been doing this my whole life, and I thought I was the only one. It embarrassed me so much. I usually cross my left over my right while sitting up, hold on to the table, and squeeeze. I get so sweaty. I never knew what this was b4 lol THANKS!!!!

sm wrote at 2012-04-09 15:09:12
I also thought I was the only one! Glad to know there are so many leg crossers out there. I started when I was 6 and used to do it in school. The boys knew I was doing something because I'd roll my eyes and twitch..LOL..I was made fun of and laughed at but I never stopped. Its addictive. I am 35 yrs and still do it today.. be it at work, in the car or whenever the urge strikes.  

Stella wrote at 2012-04-09 22:28:53
Hey! I'm not the only one!!! Little tip for you girls... When having sex, I cross my legs and start doing my stuff while my husband is kissing me, licking my nipples, whispering in my ear... After having the biggest O ever, He comes inside, and starts doing his stuff and it feels amazing... I've been able to achieve other kinds of orgasms this way :)

dayrin wrote at 2012-04-12 03:35:01
omg i cant believe more people do this! I have been ashame of this all my life! I thought i was the only who did this! I am so happy im not the only one! wow, i stared doing this since i was little girl and i was always tease about it by my family! Feeling so much better about this now... heck im about to do it now! haha.  

Glad! wrote at 2012-04-16 14:04:04
Can't believe we all thought we were alone, it is a huge relief to see that I'm not the only one who orgasms in this way!

Like the vast majority of you, I discovered this very young (around 6) which tells me that cross legged masturbation is completely natural instinct.

However I differ somewhat as I can only get off by doing this laid on my front with my right leg under the left. I also find that it helps to shake a little and sometimes grasp an object between your legs. Try it!

Definitely not going to feel ashamed about this anymore, all masturbation is healthy and normal, if we do it a little different then so be it!

Jord wrote at 2012-04-16 18:47:57
Oh my God! I thought I was a freak aha I've been doing it for as long as I can remember, and like some of you have said there are pictures of me doing it as a baby, and my mum called them my 'exercises' too. Oh how weird, I never thought about searching this until now, after all these years. I've never orgasmed from sex, but would like some tips to help combine the leg crossing with actual sex.

Jasmin wrote at 2012-04-21 13:02:59
Its such a relief to know that this is not weird & i'm not the Only doing this.... goosshhhh... Thank you all.... But is it safe if i'm trying to conceive ?  

Intrigued wrote at 2012-04-21 19:12:02
I also thought I was alone, and have been doing this as long as I can remember. It mostly happens when I start to feel like I need to pee. I lay on my stomach, cross my legs, and put my hands down to push on my pelvis. I continue until my muscles get tired and the pressure builds up too much. I've never orgasmed, either this way or though sex. I would love to figure out how to actually orgasm.

Hollie wrote at 2012-04-21 19:19:41
Im 15 now,I've been crossing my legs since the age of i believe 11.Im glad to know im not a weirdo for doing this  or the only one.But when i squeeze my thighs together i lay on my side,something i gotta aim my leg up,but eh,either way it feels,it was a few secs to 2 mins for it to start feelig good.I never squirt but still feels good and tend to get wet.is this a rare technique??

Hollie wrote at 2012-04-21 19:19:47
Im 15 now,I've been crossing my legs since the age of i believe 11.Im glad to know im not a weirdo for doing this  or the only one.But when i squeeze my thighs together i lay on my side,something i gotta aim my leg up,but eh,either way it feels,it was a few secs to 2 mins for it to start feelig good.I never squirt but still feels good and tend to get wet.is this a rare technique??

Memyself@i.com wrote at 2012-04-23 03:53:11
Hi lucky girls .... Well I guess I am the eldest  40 y.o married woman with the same partner for 20 years now . we have good sexual relationship . It has to do with the way I cum . Let him be inside , cross your legs and make sure he stops moving once the O  starts . He will feel it and it will drive him nuts . Just be all open and honest . Nothing is shameful about it . He will want to feel it every time . It is the most amazing yet natural thing on earth .  

simply beautiful wrote at 2012-04-23 19:42:57
So I have been doing this since I was a little girl I thought something was wrong with me or I was a sex addict no one knows I do this I only do it when I'm alone but I can't get that sensation with anyone and that couple of minutes of pleasure feels better than hours of sex some times after sex I have to sneak away and do it just to complete my sexual encounter I always thought I was weird...

heartie wrote at 2012-04-24 21:46:20
I have been doing this technique since I was a little girl as well (maybe 6) and I dont remember how it started. While lying on the bed, I put a pillow in between my legs and then make to and fro motions. It's a wonderful feeling!

I am so glad I had downtime to research about this. :D

Hannah wrote at 2012-04-30 19:02:39
I thought I was the only one that did that, glad to know im not the only one, because Its so weird :O

Sophie wrote at 2012-05-10 21:05:34
Ahhh I can't believe it!!

Since I was very a young girl me and my sister have both been doing this!

One day I needed the toilet but my sister was in the loo and so I had to wait.

I crossed my legs and minutes later I'd done it!

I told my sister what id done and she can now do it to!

We have carried this around with us to this day because we don't want to mention it thinking we'd get laughed at and neither has someone else mentioned it to us before.

We thought we were alone!!

We named it " fanny ding ding"

Hahh how creative!

I feel so relieved that we are not alone.

I was just lying here thinking I'm going to type this in to google see what comes up and found this! Literally just now!

Im going to call my sister now and tell her!


I can cum while having sexual intercourse but I can't orgasm.

Have read tips other people have left on here though so will give them a try!!

Kristen wrote at 2012-05-14 07:17:16
I didnt know this is masturbation. I feel kind of ashamed, but I cant stop doing it; its addicting. at school when i get bored, i gross my legs and picture dirty things until i orgasm. I feel disgusted with myself. No one knows, I am afraid I will be discriminated if anyone knew. But im glad im not the only one. I have been doing this for two years now. I discovered it in 6th grade and it felt so good and amzaing why would I quit? I was naive in 6th grade and didnt know better. I cross my right leg over my left and imagine dirty thoughts while my legs were squeezed so tight I stil sigh with pleasure. In the peak of this new found activity I could do it up to 15 times in one day. Its gone down dramatically and I have had to find even dirtier more erotic things to think of to arouse myself to feel that pleasure. Im not a freak am I? Ijust cant stop! Is this reallly masturbation?!?

Ayat wrote at 2012-05-28 00:24:04
Oh my gosh i have been doing this for as long as i can remember! i have no clue how i ever figured it out. I've always thought i was the only one that did it but it's really weird (in a good way) to know that other girls do it too! i can only do it with my right thigh over my left and my right ankle wrapped around the back of my left ankle,then squeezing my thighs together in a pulsating motion. when i was younger i could only achieve orgasm when i tightened my muscles in my left calve but it got to the point where my left calve was bigger than the right! so i taught myself to do it with the right calve instead and now i can do it without tightening my calves at all! accept i have noticed that fingering myself doesn't arouse me at all like it is supposed to ...  

Bam Bam wrote at 2012-06-03 15:21:35
I do this and I lay on my side and squeeze really hard and I feel really hot and then I start shaking. In about 30 seconds I start getting a heartbeat like feeling in that area.  

jessyj wrote at 2012-06-18 13:43:01
I discovered this when I was 12, my sister was 11 at the time and we liked to play the tickle game before bed by lying on our fronts and see how long we could stand having the backs of our thighs tickled. I liked to lock my thighs tight and cross my ankles with my hands under me and gently poke my panties up my groove as I squeezed and felt my sister tickle me

jilly wrote at 2012-06-18 13:45:42
I discovered the thigh squeeze many years ago, I now teach at an all girls private school, often during periods of quiet while they work away or particularly in detention I look to see who is doing the thigh squeeze and feel the familiar sensations just from knowing whats happening in their panties.

meghan wrote at 2012-06-21 00:50:34
i'm 16 and have been doing this technique for as long as i can remember.. i always thought there was something wrong with me as no other people seemed to relate to it! i tried to stop doing it but it was impossible! although the feeling is amazing i am frustrated that no other techniques work for me, i have not got an orgasm in any other way. so glad i'm not the only one!

Alicia Rosselin wrote at 2012-06-22 20:49:50
wow..lol im not alone here either..i have been doing this type of master bating for years..cool to see others do it as well..only problem i think is that it is a lot of friction and can cause a yeast infection if you do it too much.

almostalways wrote at 2012-07-01 15:57:14
i have been using this technique since i was about 4 years old. who knows where i learnt it.

i lay on my stomach crossing my right ankle over top my left, while placing my hands/finger tips below the top of the pelvic bone, and thrust my hips in a rhythmic motion against my hands. usually after about 30-40 thrusts i've had a release. i discovered a few years ago a home back massager with 2 nozzles that works beautifully instead of my hands against my pelvic area/near clitoris.

however, i will say, i've never orgasmed with my partner. i only ever have these orgasms by my self. they are some what intense with the back massager but still not everything i've been lead to believe orgasms were ;) in saying that though I sometimes finding my self doing this 5 times in a row 4 times a day.

i acquired  

Ellie wrote at 2012-07-02 19:01:01
Hand over my mouth!! I'm so shocked that Im not the only girl that does this. I'm just like everyone else, been doing it since I was young (about 5 years old). I'm 17 now and I still do it. I was just doing it and I thought to myself, why the heck do I do this? So I had to google it! When I cross my legs I move up and down and imagine Im having sex. Fingering myself doesn't do anything for me! No one knows I do it. I'm so glad I know other girls do it and Im not a weirdo.  

Ellie wrote at 2012-07-02 19:01:01
Hand over my mouth!! I'm so shocked that Im not the only girl that does this. I'm just like everyone else, been doing it since I was young (about 5 years old). I'm 17 now and I still do it. I was just doing it and I thought to myself, why the heck do I do this? So I had to google it! When I cross my legs I move up and down and imagine Im having sex. Fingering myself doesn't do anything for me! No one knows I do it. I'm so glad I know other girls do it and Im not a weirdo.  

Tabby wrote at 2012-07-05 05:43:54
WHAT. Oh wow. I can't believe other people do the same thing. Apparently I have been doing it ever since I was born. My mom said I used to do it at least 3 times a day, EVERYDAY when I was a kid. She even made me go to the doctor about it but I wouldn't show him what I did. Now I see I'm not the only one.

Candyfloss wrote at 2012-07-06 14:59:43
OH MY GOD!! I thought I was a freak!!!!I have always used this method!!when i first did it(at the age of 11) i had no idea i was masturbating...only a few years ago did i realize what it was....I thought I was the only one who used this method though....so relieved I am not :)

Sexe Grandmum wrote at 2012-07-10 02:52:36
I am 89 years old and have never heard of such a thing until my granddaughter suggested I give it a whirl. My muscles are not as strong as they once were, but I did attempt and ended up squirting during bingo.  

14Girl wrote at 2012-07-11 11:37:50
I promise you I've been doing this probably for my whole life! I discovered it alone, and for a long time I thought that it was so weird and I was the only girl doing it. Then i googled it and discover this!  

14Girl wrote at 2012-07-11 11:40:26
I used this method every single day, a lot of times, even at school when i was younger :P When I reached 12/13 i tried it just with my hands and it was very hard in the beginning! Now i can do it both ways, but with my legs crossed it ALWAYS works ;)

millie wrote at 2012-07-11 13:25:16
I teach science at an all girls school and discovered the thigh squeeze when I was about 12.  I often set the girls assignments and sit back and spy on who is doing the thigh squeeze, sometimes I see a descreet hand pressing between the thighs and a flushed face, one girl likes to slump down in her chair and let her thighs fall open, I can actually see the muscles on her inner thighs flexing and making her panties tug against her, another girl likes to cross her thighs around the leg of a table!!

mamma wrote at 2012-07-22 15:11:48
This is very insightful.  Our 4 year old daughter has been doing this leg squeeze since she was an infant in her crib.  There are times when she does it with such intensity and consistency that it hinders anything else in her little world.  She won't eat or play or anything for days sometimes.  This is the disturbing aspect of it.  I'm really okay with her doing this as long as she does it in private and does not allow it to interfere with the daily activities of her life.  But this is not always the case.  I would love to hear if any of you who are older now have advice on how to communicate this with her.  She seems almost compelled to do so much that it doesn't matter who is around or where she is or what her other needs are(ie: food).  There also seems to be a cycle to it.  She'll go 3 months without ever doing it and then like clockwork she'll be so distracted by it that nothing else matters for about a month.  Again, I would LOVE some advice on how to communicate with her about this without negatively impacting her thoughts about sex and pleasure.

cinamon wrote at 2012-07-22 20:08:42
OMG yes. Same here. i thought i was a weirdo doing that, but now i see i am not the only girl. I do this since i was, i dont know maybe 4 years old. I didn't know that it is masturbation but it felt so good. :D i even told my best guyfriend this method but when i grew up i realized that for guys its not the same :D

Only problem now is that my boyfriend cant give me such a pleasure as this crossing legs method. Thats sad. :)

Anaid wrote at 2012-07-22 21:26:39
Oh wow i am like all of you amazing and relieved to find out that i am not the only one!!! I have been doing this since i was in preschool and i didnt know i was doing this till right now! i remember doing it when i was small and my mom would hit me and tell me it was wrong and gross but i never knew why... not until now, l want to tell her but I'm too scared about it..... i  actually wonder if she knows what it really is. Anyways I just told my boyfriend about it and he thinks thats just plain sexy and hot knowing we can have an organism just by thinking of them or doing it in public haha i guess this is like some super power thing. Lol i really cant wait for the day i get married to try out some of the crazy sex tips here!!!! :D   i also have noticed that i get the urge to do it when i am stressed or have to go pee, i love the sensation of it and i have also taught my self how to squirt! ha it feels great for me!!!!  

jessyj wrote at 2012-07-24 20:24:52
I discovered this when I was 7 and now at 13 it is my fav method.  I go to an all girls private school and some days we change into PE kit at lunch time for PE last lesson of the day.  Usually we have boring history before and as we wear tight spandex shorts for PE most of us do the thigh cross to relieve boredom and sexual frustration, I sit in such a way that my spankies pull my panties up my slit a little and cross my right over my left and rock away enjoying the spasms jolting up my tummy, sometimes I sneak a hand between my thighs and press the back of my hand againt my crotch for extra stimulation.  After PE I go straight to my dorm and lie on my front and hump away until I cum!!

Wow wrote at 2012-08-05 17:01:18
Glad to know that im not the only person doing thing style! :D i have been doing this since i was 9... by an accident! and still doing it now at 23.

Barbara S. wrote at 2012-08-08 18:41:02
I am 47 years old and have been crossing my legs since elementary school. I really didn't think much about it until an episode at a night club 2 weeks ago. When I saw this site and read some of the stories here, I just had to log on and share with everyone. I haven't been out clubbing in a while, and haven't had an intimate relationship since my divorce 2 years ago. I was at a club 2 weeks ago with a couple of my friends and met a guy who kept on staring at my legs all night. When going out clubbing, I like to dress up in a short-skirt,  with some pantyhose and high-heels. This guy, John, asked me to dance and then brought me a drink and we were chatting. He later admitted that he really admired my legs and that he is a legman, with a fetish for pantyhose. After some more chatting, I let him feel my legs. I noticed the tent he was creating in the front of his pants. That got me soooo excited, and I started to cross my legs and flexed my thighs to get a little relief. I later was able to get him to whip it out, and nice rock-hard 10 incher. I gave him a nice hand-job, while the whole time, I had my legs crossed and flexing my thighs and had one orgasm after another. Luckily, I always wear panties underneath my pantyhose and also had a maxi-pad in my panties (just in case I get to wet down there or my period starts). When we were finally done, I had to go to the ladiesroom to change my pad, that was soaking wet.

Ngaih wrote at 2012-08-17 22:17:11
wow! I thought I was weird. I can't get an orgasm without crossing my legs.. and it's addictive. I discovered it accidentally when I was 11yrs old. Bt I got white discharge for days wen I do it too frequently. Any 1 got the same problem?

chitra wrote at 2012-08-19 20:55:38
ever since i was 11 !!!

i am 18 now...

well, i got orgasms in all sorts of different(im a virgin) ways but this is quickest stress relief method ever !

well, right leg over my left is my preference !!! :)  

kelly wrote at 2012-08-20 06:34:58
This is creepy! I thought I was the only one doing this omg. I love it! It feels so goood omg. I'm doing it right now :) I used to do it in schoool & my face would get really red & some of my friends would ask me what was the matter & I pretended like I didn't know what they were talking about. Now that I knoow that more people do it I'm am not doing ittt in school lol. Btw I'm 14.  

Wolvesrfun wrote at 2012-08-22 23:53:49
OMG I thought I was the only one! My mom would tell me it is naughty and unnatural. I have been doing it FOREVER! I found this out when I was playing a video game alone.

redder wrote at 2012-08-24 00:04:29
Hilarious and amazing! Yay, I thought I was the only one to!! and thought I was weird. I can't remember how it all happened but i know it was from a very early age like 5, my mum used to tell me off when I was little...*cringe*

I'm in my late 20's and I still rely on this way as it's the only way I can orgasm. I lay on my back, left leg high over the right. In a scissor motion i move the right one under my left, squeezing my inner thigh together. How I came across this method, I never know...lol.

Raven wrote at 2012-08-31 03:07:15
Ive done this since I was 11... I didnt know at the time what I was doing. but I was on my chair and crossed my legs then BOOM i felt this tingly sensation..I'm 14 now I still do it and wow I thought I was the only one then searched up girls crossing legs masterbation and I found this. And also I had this dream about a man having sex with me (The man looked about 28-32 and I was 12) It turns me on i huess but I have to look at porn pics of girls since I'm more attracted to them.

Raven wrote at 2012-08-31 03:07:19
Ive done this since I was 11... I didnt know at the time what I was doing. but I was on my chair and crossed my legs then BOOM i felt this tingly sensation..I'm 14 now I still do it and wow I thought I was the only one then searched up girls crossing legs masterbation and I found this. And also I had this dream about a man having sex with me (The man looked about 28-32 and I was 12) It turns me on i huess but I have to look at porn pics of girls since I'm more attracted to them.

T-MWOT Bon Ki Ki wrote at 2012-09-06 05:10:43
Hey guys!  This thing is the best!  Started a FACEBOOK page called MWOT (masturbation without touching) a MWOT-ter.  Joinh my MWOT page on FB!! Don't be ashamed!!! :)

sarah wrote at 2012-09-06 09:27:06
I have thought all my life that I was weird! As most of you I discovered this way of stimulation in my childhood. I don't need any kind of sexual thought, just any pleasant thought or feeling, or some positive stress helps. The trouble is that I have never had an orgasm in any other way that crossing my legs and squeezing, so it is a very private way of getting an orgasm  and my partner can not participate on it, which is sad.  

Luleepop wrote at 2012-09-09 06:04:54
Wow. For the longest I thought I was the only one. I've been doing this for as long as I can remember, since the age of 7 or 8. All I knew was it felt great. Usually I would do it sitting in a chair with my legs crossed over one edge of the seat. I would cum in seconds. Sometimes I would stop myself just so it could last a little longer. I have not been able to cum any other way though for the longest ( I'm 27 now) until I bought my first vibrator. It's a g-spot stimulator and I used to insert it but it wasn't that great. But now I just place the vibrator on top of my clit and turn the vibrations to the highest setting. Sometimes I cross my legs and sometimes I don't but the orgasm is mind blowing. And my clit would become so sensitive the vibrations would be too much for me. Even washing myself would cause my knees to buckle I had never felt anything like it before. I'm glad I'm still discovering new things about my body sexually. But my thigh rubbing will always be my fav. I can do it anywhere. I used to do it in school a lot. And I do it at work a lot too. It's the greatest rush when every one is walking around you and they have no idea. I'm glad I found this forum. I don't feel alone anymore.  

jessy wrote at 2012-09-23 05:06:52
Omggggggg I'm not the only.one sheesh I thought I was weird I'm

22. Been doing it since I was like 11 .... But here's my question why can't we feel like that while having sex smh ?????

Helena wrote at 2012-09-30 15:27:45
YES! I just spent half an hour reading all the answers! So glad I'm not the only one. I first discovered it when I was 8 in an english lesson. I was really bored, sitting cross legged, trying to touch my left toes to my right and then boom! I've never stopped since. I'm now 18 and all this time I thought I was the only one and didn't tell anyone. I do it everywhere; bus stop, train, in an exam and even at the dinner table with my family. Luckily I've never been caught. Thank you so much ladies, all this time I thought it was something embarrassing and was ashamed of it. This has made my day, if not the rest of my life. Going to tell my boyfriend the moment I see him next. So exciting!  

Darnise wrote at 2012-10-08 02:01:08
Me and my mother had an okay relationship so I never talked to her about when I started masturbating at 6 years old. The only child and I didn't have sisters to talk too about this. I want to ask my friends and my doctor but I said to myself >>HELL NAW.... lol. I'm 29 years old and I have a 7 year old daughter, (Guess What?).....yeah I caught her. I told her there was nothing wrong with her and if she had any question talk to me I won't be mad, plus the same thing happen to mamma.

The good thing that came out of it was that I didn't need to have sex at a younger age. Lost my virginity at 19 ....This saved my life lol.

Plus our mother and grandmother did it.


Sabrinaxo wrote at 2012-10-08 02:03:03
I can't believe there are so many other women doing this.. i don't feel alone anymore!:D i discovered this when i was 6 and never stoped! i mean wow im so happy now ! haha, im afraid of telling my boyfriend about this though... also how come it doesn't feel this way when i have sex??:/  

chaosgirl wrote at 2012-10-18 21:23:21
It's so comforting to know I'm not the only one who does this. I have only met one other person in real life who could do this and she is my best friend. I figured out to do this when I was very very young and I never knew what it meant until about middle school.

AnnaMichelle wrote at 2012-10-18 21:46:12
Finally I'm not alone. I've been able to do this since middle school. It is the best feeling in the world. Glad to know I'm not the only one.

MarinaStar wrote at 2012-10-19 11:39:01
You are not alone at all :))) it feels amazing in every way !!!

It is safe and very clean !! Since it is you and your body !!

Enjoy it girls, i am 21 now and i've been doing it since i was 13 !! Love it and it feels good to know when u need an orgasm u can please urself without any help !! And it rocks !!  

MarinaStar wrote at 2012-10-19 11:39:07
You are not alone at all :))) it feels amazing in every way !!!

It is safe and very clean !! Since it is you and your body !!

Enjoy it girls, i am 21 now and i've been doing it since i was 13 !! Love it and it feels good to know when u need an orgasm u can please urself without any help !! And it rocks !!  

Pooja wrote at 2012-10-20 15:52:28
OMG!! Same thing!!! I was just 13! But I guess there are many side effects!! Like I had infection, I have cramps in my leg! And nothing else gives more pleasure!! That seems to be very disappointing!! Should be a way to stop doing it.. Self control doesn't help!!

Turbo wrote at 2012-10-21 22:34:34
Unreal....thought I was the only one.  Been doing this since I was in grade three or four.  I am lucky because I can still have orgasms from sex. But the leg crossing way is so much faster......and to have 5-7 orgasms in a row is amazing.....nothing beats that.  And it's discreet.  

subsurvient wrote at 2012-10-23 00:38:39
After finding out what my wife was receiving through this act, my natural response to her was if I could offer something that might increase her pleasure.  We first tried my focusing on watching the genitalia area which initially increase her pleasure but grew old and we went to my totally exposing myself and applied pressure in a certain area of my cock that made the head grew tremendously and turn red.  This was a great success for her with tremendous orgasms and it also made her very willing to please me in many different ways.

Baby-Bee wrote at 2012-10-28 19:26:25
Wow, I am not the only one :). I discovered by accident in bed when I was about 8 I think. I noticed when I contracted my muscles together it made me need to pee but in a really good way!! I didn't know what I was doing of course. For a long time - even in to adulthood I didn't quite realize it was orgasm as I'd never had one during sex. Yes, it is addicting and now I can orgasm in less than a minute I think. I can't even believe how fast it happens!!! Thankful I am not alone! I lay in bed on my left side with my left leg crossed over my right with my right foot hooked over the edge of the bed for more stability lol.

V wrote at 2012-11-03 16:47:01
Cool to read that more women have discovered this way to orgams. I remember doing it since I was 3 or 4. It's amazing how fast and intensely I can come, I don't use any other technique anymore.

It's fun to do it together with a male partner in doggy style or spooning positions, you cross your legs during penetration and can come very easily together with your partner. Most of my exes loved it :) It's even more intense if you do it during anal sex.

jayden wrote at 2012-11-04 21:48:56
Omg i do this too i thought i was crazy. Doing this and thinking about my bf licking my clit really helps. I have had orgasms from this before.  

nelle wrote at 2012-11-07 23:34:34
woah .... i thought i was weird tooo ... dam !!! wow i found others just like me i've been doing it since like 7 wow amd am 17 now its just awesome to find out what it was wow !!! thanks very mucj :)

mkay12 wrote at 2012-11-16 16:27:49
OMG I am not alone...Also discovered this on accident when I had to pee and was crossing my legs to hold it when I was 12 yrs old or so. Now I have discovered that using a small vibrator on my clitoris while crossing my legs works wonders!

Kayla wrote at 2012-11-21 05:43:29
I am so glad I am not the only woman who does this! I thought I was the only one! I started in kindergarten because I had to really pee, but it was 'nap time' so I had to wait! I crossed my legs and squeezed, but the teacher got onto me for not going to sleep. I also remember a (Infuriating, and not in a good way) boy who liked me (And expressed it with painful hair pulling), that caught me doing 'the squeeze' and confronted me about it (I was in 3rd grade, btw). He walked up to my desk during free time and he mimicked what I was doing. "This feels really good!" He had said. My face was red! Haha. Those were the good days. Thank you ladies out there for giving me some techniques on how to have a 'fun time' with my boyfriend! We ladies leg crossers(And some men!) gotta stick together!!

Samira wrote at 2012-11-27 18:51:00
OMG, I always got weird feeling of I am the only one who is doing this. Now I can see I am not the only one! I am doing this since I was only 10 years old, I have enjoyed it a lot!

sometimes in a day I am doing it 4 or 5 times, feeling awesome. I feel so independent and feeling very powerful.  

mariasofia wrote at 2012-12-07 12:48:07
OMG. I am amazed at this site. I so wish I had found this out years ago. I too thought I was the only one. I have been doing this since I was baby. My parents have pictures of me doing it. They called when I did it “squishy”.  They would be like “you are not doing squishy are you?” They never got mad unless I was doing it in front of people and it was obvious.  I did it all through school and everywhere else. Until I was older I did it in response to stress as a release. I now do it because I am turned on, stressed or bored. As a child I would do it on my knees with my right over my left leg and up on my wrists, kind of like doggie style by yourself. It makes me laugh but my wrists used to hurt I did it so much. I can also do it in a chair by crossing my legs or standing up at a counter or table standing with my legs crossed. I have even trained myself to be able to just flex my muscles without crossing and have orgasm that way while seated. I am 35 years old and have been married for a quite a few years. I have hinted at the idea of it to my husband and to my best friend but never came right out and explained what I did. I can have an orgasm from sex and clitoris stimulation but the orgasm from this is just more instance and different somehow. I am going to tell my husband the whole story now and try to somehow incorporate it in our sex lives. I can’t tell you how relieved I am to find this website. I too felt some shame and embarrassment over this and I have always been extremely open about sex. I didn’t realize anyone else did this. Amazing!

Alexa wrote at 2012-12-08 04:34:00
I TOTALLY THOUGHT THIS WAS JUST ME!! I feel so much better after reading this. Personally I get the shakes with clitoral stimulation and I like sex for the intimacy, but nothing compares to rubbing my thighs together. I thought I was so strange.

Jasmine wrote at 2012-12-16 04:09:44
I thought i was the only one for the longest time! I've been doing this since i was 5 though my way of doing it since childhood has changed i used to lay on my stomach, cross my legs, and put my hands down to push on my pelvis. My mom would always catch me doing it because i would do it while watching tv. She made me stop doing it that way because she disapproved and i felt so ashamed being put in time out for doing that so i thought it was bad and quit! A short time later i found out like many of you having to go to the bathroom and crossing my legs recreated the good feeling i had before and i was hooked! of course i didn't know what i was doing only that it felt good to do. My 1st grade teacher noticed me fidgeting while i had my legs crossed and tried to get me to stop but i couldn't my mom noticed too while i was doing my hw and always asked me to stop/quit it and focus on my hw. I haven't stopped it is addicting but I've learned to do it more discreetly so no once can notice. I always thought i was a strange girl since my sister never did what i would do nor any of my friends lol. I'm 19 now and a virgin still after reading all these comments i hope this isn't the only way i can orgasm! i guess time will tell once i reach that stage in my life. I get a rush doing it in class and in public places, I love how this technique is discreet and you can do it anytime you're in the mood. The best orgasms I've had so far I've always been wearing tight panties and a tight pair of jeans. A funny story that happened a while ago me and my bff were on the topic of masturbation and i mentioned that i do it anywhere and anytime the mood/urge hits me but i forgot to mention my method of doing it hands free, fully clothed, and squeezing. she probably thinks I'm some perverted freak now lol i'll have to clear that up next time while on topic. But she uses her hands so i thought i'd give it a go in the bath before this I've never used my hands down there i tried stimulating my clitoris but I'm super sensitive a few simple rubs and my legs have spasms! the feeling was intense but i didn't orgasm from it but it did feel good but i was shocked that my legs went all crazy from it! i think all this squeezing/pressure has made my clitoris overly sensitive to touch i'm guessing. i think i'll stick to my squeezing and try other hands on masturbation techniques too.

roseinjuly wrote at 2012-12-26 07:15:35
Oh my goodness, you guys are great! I began doing this as an infant. Haha, I even had an affectionate name for it "wiggling". I still do it to this day when I'm alone. When I was younger though I had no shame in doing it around others because I didn't quite understand. I remember my mother telling me they recorded me wiggling as an infant in my crib and were going to ask the pediatrician why I did this strange thing. We moved shortly after and they werent able to see the doctor (fortunately?) For me I have to be laying down on my right side, go figure. So glad I'm not alone!

danisse wrote at 2012-12-27 20:12:35
ok so this might seem strange but I am in 7th grade D:  I have been sqeezing since 2nd grade!! I'm do glad it's not dangerous! I thought I was the only one!! this sensation only works if I'm thinking dirty! eww! but it feels so nice that I can't stop! i just hope that its safe to do it with your period?  

danisse wrote at 2012-12-27 20:12:45
ok so this might seem strange but I am in 7th grade D:  I have been sqeezing since 2nd grade!! I'm do glad it's not dangerous! I thought I was the only one!! this sensation only works if I'm thinking dirty! eww! but it feels so nice that I can't stop! i just hope that its safe to do it with your period?  

Gabriella wrote at 2012-12-29 06:01:36

JK wrote at 2013-01-02 01:52:47
Just thought I'd let you ladies know, sorry to shatter your illusions, but when you're sat there squeezing your thighs and gently rocking the leg that's over-crossed, it's very obvious what you're up to.

Belle wrote at 2013-01-04 18:37:16
So glad I'm not alone till not long ago I thought I was unable to orgasm until I realised I had been all along!! Always had really strong thigh and butt muscles but can't tell anyone why I really do ;)

My only issue is I have never had an orgasm with my partner through sex or oral sex...and if I'm supposedly so sensitive down there because I can orgasm by crossing my legs then why do I feel hardly anything when my boyfriend licks me out? does anyone else experience this?  

VulcanRider wrote at 2013-01-08 18:16:58
I'm a guy. So, obviously, I not only find these answers/comments intriguing but also very "stimulating". Needless to say I'm jealous as hell but who wouldn't be?  I do have a serious question for all of you ladies who can "get off" by this method of stimulation.  Is the fact that this works for you because: A) You all have what would be considered a large or long clitoris?  B) You all have what would be considered large or muscular thighs?

Happy New Year to all and happy "criss-crossing"  ;oD  

Male wrote at 2013-01-09 07:46:37
Yah I agree everyone knows what your doing when you thigh sqweeze. Its not like anyone is going to confront you about it. lol Its actually quite hot when see I chick doing this, I like to watch althoe it is kind of a tease..

Ansley wrote at 2013-01-19 08:02:05
Wow, I'd have never thought that other girls/women would do this too! I found the "crossing legs" technique by accident around the age of 5. I didn't know at the time that I was masturbating, but it felt so amazingly good and I'd do it almost every time I sat down; at school, at home, at the park, etc. Eventually, my grandma noticed that I'd always have my legs crossed; I was about 6 at that time. I remember what she said the first time, "Stop messing with your teetee!" Lmao, it baffled me that she accused me of messing with myself. Still, I  refrained from doing it around her or anyone else for fear of getting in trouble. As I got older, I gradually started to understand that my grandma was right. I WAS messing with myself; that was around when I was 14 (I lived a very sheltered Southern Baptist lifestyle until then). Now I'm 19 and proud to say that I've come up with little add-ons; like placing my hand on my crotch and then crossing my legs, or holding my breath(strangely it makes the climax build-up more intense). The "Crossing Legs" Method is the only one that'll bring me to orgasm, sadly. But sex is still definitely enjoyable without the big O.  

Adie wrote at 2013-01-21 13:32:15
I'm a boy, i do something similar to what you girls do,i also used to do it in public usually when lusting chiks , i accidentally discovered it at the age of 12, i cross my legs, the left over the right, then I'll squeeze my thighs between my penis and my scrotum. Waal, its such a pleasurable sweet feeling and i orgasm in less than 2 minutes,. Yu're lucky you're not alone.... Bt me am still the only boy in the world  

Kellie wrote at 2013-01-29 03:40:16
I have been doing this at about the age of 4 and at school! My mom volunteered once and she saw me doing it and told me to never do it again. I did not understand why though. At seven another girl started doing it in my class. I think she tried to copy me. I had NO idea what the feeling was or why I liked it. I can cross my legs both ways (right and left) and feel the amazing sensation. Also, I can reach orgasms by just sitting without crossing my legs!! I just have to squeeze a bit.

Me,my self, and I wrote at 2013-01-30 01:24:02
Yea me to but when I cross my legs I rock and it makes me cum and I love it soo bad that I can. Even do it in public but also I kinda squill when I do it by accident  

Tatita wrote at 2013-02-01 06:09:32
Omg i thought i was the only person who knew how to do this , i'm so glad theres many others... I've been doing this ever since the third grade when i was sittin bored and tired so i crossed my right leg on my left one and randomly felt an amazing feeling.... Lol

Creepy ik but it's better then vibrators!! Even tho after you do it twice in minute hurts when you pee.  Or is that just me ?  

Happygirlwithboyfriend wrote at 2013-02-14 15:08:35
I have had a weakness for masturbation from as far back as childhood.. I only decide to start having sex at 23 and i couldnt reach an orgasm for a long time, and the whole finger thing has me feeling guilty afterward. One day after watching porn i told myself im not gon touch myself and some reason after crossing my legs i came.. Coolest feeling ever. Guilt free pleasure

sandy wrote at 2013-02-17 02:34:22

I use the same technique, too. But I want to be able to get orgasm during sex, too! Do you have some tips how to do that?  

pindu wrote at 2013-02-20 14:47:20
Hi, am glad am also crossing legs since from my 7th grade it gives me great pleausre now am married but still am doing it gives me great pleasure than sexual intercourse i wonder about this:) But am afraid sometimes is this cause any side effects to my orgasam:(

Yanet wrote at 2013-02-20 21:56:08
omg im so glad i found this site. i always thought that i was the only onethat could do it. i though i was very weird. I discoverded i cold do this when i was 5, my cousin thought me to do it, but after that no matter how much i try i cannot stop. i am 18 and i cannot cum any other way, i found out a way to actually cum with my legs opened and with my boyfriend playing with me down there. but i barely discovered this way 2 weeks ago. i would like to be able to reach an orgasm through penetration. my boyfriend almost broke up with me when he found out since  he felt with very low self esteem after he found out i have been the only girl hecannot please. i wish i could come another way.

butterfly wrote at 2013-02-26 06:36:57
I have too thought I was weird my bf makes fun of me he doesn't understand i do it in class better than taking advantage of about at school and getting caught by the principal that was funny I usually cross my right when sitting or lay down and grab your foot while crossing and imagine something erotic or someone can't do it often or I can't cum when I'm actually getting some.

vladimir wrote at 2013-02-26 12:14:12
As a man I am ahppy to read  happy women tell authentical experiences. There is always more to learn or having it confirmed. As a man I also felt the crossing legs as exciting in the woman also during cunningulus, wich can be crucial but also exciting

Hi ska wrote at 2013-03-10 22:56:17
I can't believe the number of people who do this, I thought I was the only one! I can't do it sitting, I have to lie on my left on stomach and pull my left over my right. I still can't cum :( but is the most extreme pleasure I can get. I've been doing it for as long as i remember, my mum used to call it my grasshopper or my exercises lol. I wish I could orgasm, I almost get there and the I just can't tip over the edge!

Vicki wrote at 2013-03-14 10:46:01
I'm just so glad that I found this website, and to find so many people are the same as me too!

I found myself enjoying crossing my legs when I accidentally over heard my parents having sex. Haha

I know that was kind of embarrassing to tell but somehow I started to cross my legs

I even remember ever since I started to do It, I got so hooked that I had to do it so badly

specially when I was at school, same as you guys. Those details are exactly the same!

And I remember whenever I do it next to my sis when I was young, she would get so

Annoyed and told me to stop and said that's so weird. I did it once when I had an urge

Wanted to pee, it was an intense orgasm but after that it took me so long to pee and it

Feel kinda suck...

And also I found that when I was about in elementary school, every time a had an urge

To do it. I couldn't wait, I felt like I had to do it right at the moment, and just like other girls

I will run straight to the toilet, shut the door, and squeeze my legs while sitting on the toilet.

I'm the same with most of girls here that I can only cum when crossing my legs,

I haven't tell my husband because I thought this behavior was so weird that I'm

Embarrassed to tell, but now that I know there r so many of us are the same and it

Makes me feel better, and I'm actually going to try the tips that you guys suggest

For crossing legs sex with my hubby.  

Squeezer wrote at 2013-03-16 08:15:20
OMG!!!!! I really thought I was the only one! I am so please to hear that this is normal! I have trouble cumming any other way (usually I have to fake it, which is bad, I know). I usually lie on my back and cross my left thigh over my right and rhythmically squeeze my thighs tightly together. I double cross at the ankles sometimes, or I put my blanket between my legs and squeeze like mad! I also enjoy rolling to the side and feeling how wet my lady parts are from the back. Oh WOW I have been embarrassed to bring this up with my boyfriend but now I can't wait to tell him! I am already fantasising about him forcing his tongue between my slit to lick my clit while I squeeze, or have him enter me from behind....awesome! We are totally normal, and bloody lucky I say!

Wise Nurturer wrote at 2013-04-06 21:35:09
Ladies, if you want to regain your ability to get satisfied through regular stimulation with your husband, stop crossing your legs... please. Not only are you doing your man a disservice, but why feel so attached to something like this? Just try it, challenge yourself like one month without crossing legs (hard, I know),and go up from there and you'll see results! Make sure you are doing plenty of kegels as well. I'm starting to believe these crossing legs exercises may be "desensitizing" your lady parts and doing the opposite of what kegels should do... which explains why you are dependent on these to reach your best climax. You deserve to be able to have great, fulfilling intercourse like God intended with your husband... without these little devils. That's why I no longer do them.

Jess wrote at 2013-04-22 22:35:14
I'm so glad I've finally found people that do this! I started doing it when I was around 13, and it is the easiest way for me to orgasm now. I find it extremely hard to orgasm during sex, although it does happen occasionally, only when I help my man though! You shouldn't feel weird about it as you will learn that there are so many different ways to orgasm. One time I used a pillow between my legs (I had bottoms on) and tensed my legs when it was there and it worked just the same! You should feel comfortable with what your doing, and atleast you have a way to orgasm, as I know many women that can't even reach orgasm!

Destiny wrote at 2013-04-25 00:55:55
Wow, this was really informative. I am about to turn 18, and have been doing this since i was 7. It came from stress. i was in first grade and teacher wouldn't let me use the bathroom. She was mean. so i crossed my legs and rocked and then wow! After that I kept doing it. As I got older i became ashamed of it, and thought i was some weird sex addict. tried masterbating with fingers but felt so bad. this really gives me the courage to have no shame about my body, and i see that appearently it really is a natural thing. thankyou for posting different methods so as not to hurt your-self.  

RIP wrote at 2013-04-29 18:21:18
As a boy I achieved an orgasm climbing a support pole on a school swing set. I had no idea what happened though it felt god.  I tried it from time to time as I got older and noticed when I was about 10 or 11 a few drops of wetness after I did it.  About 13 or so the amount of wetness was sufficient to soak through my underware and leave a dark stain on my light colored pants.  After that I would only do it if I was wearing black or dark brown trousers. I guess girls can cover it better wearing a dress or if they don't "squirt", which as I understand it, not all do or not do all the time. Plain leg squeezes would not do it for me. I had to be climbing something. It never interfered with my reaching orgasm conventionally as it seems to for many women. I did notice that I favored women with larger than normal thighs and that I achieved more intense and unfornatually, I have quicker orgasms when my partner wrapped her legs around my waist and locker ankles together. Sliding her thighs up and down my sides while dragging her heels from the back of my mid-thighs up over my bottom to the small of my back really set me off. When my wife wants to release some tension quickly without a prolonged session of lovemaking she will get me in that position and it is all over quickly and we can relax in each other's arms. She told me long ago that she has orgasms with me because she wants to have orgasms with me and I need not worry about it. I don't know if she ever did leg squeezes or not. I do know she gets very wet very quickly but not whether it is natural lubrication from arousal or if she squirts. Maybe it is both.

bro1322 wrote at 2013-05-11 21:42:51
I always thought there was something wrong with me. Id cross my legs and hold my breath an my mom would always look at me and tell me to stop. This was when I was around 11. Im 15 now an lost my virginity recently and to me doing the leg crossing feels better then sex.

SM wrote at 2013-05-16 03:34:25
I have done this since before I can remember! I thought I was the only one! It does feel amazing but I finally did find the guy that can give me the same satisfaction. At least I know I am not so weird after all.

Manda Jay wrote at 2013-05-19 06:26:41
Okay I have been doing this for what seems like forever glad to know I'm not alone I love sex huge labido still can't seem to orgasm unless crossing my left over my right.. the other way doesn't work... I don't feel bad or alone about it... this is the best way to practice safe sex...lol...am I the only that only can get two in then have to used the rest room?? Its relieves my stress and helps my insomnia

Manda Jay wrote at 2013-05-19 11:01:31
Okay I have been doing this for what seems like forever glad to know I'm not alone I love sex huge labido still can't seem to orgasm unless crossing my left over my right.. the other way doesn't work... I don't feel bad or alone about it... this is the best way to practice safe sex...lol...am I the only that only can get two in then have to used the rest room?? Its relieves my stress and helps my insomnia

Kat wrote at 2013-05-27 07:19:32
Like everyone else... I was ecstatic when I found this. I'm a Freshman in high school and have been doing this since I was about 5 or 6. I don't know if anyone else hangs off of a desk or anything? Just crossing my legs doesn't give me enough pleasure so I dangle myself off of a desk or table holding my self up with only my arms. I can go multiple times in a row until I get tired and take a break. I do it at school but not too much because my face gets sorta red when I do it. Sometimes I shake when I'm doing it also so I try not to let anyone see me much. Does anyone feel like there are two different types if pleasure when the do it? One that's forced and feels great as opposed to one that takes longer and feels AMAZING? I have tried touching myself but it doesn't feel good. At all.

I remember when I was a kid and taking swimming lessons, they would have us hold on to the wall of the pool and try to float. I would cross my legs and do this while they were focused on other kids. Everytime they saw me they would yell at me but I didn't care. :)

I have two sisters and they both do the same thing...  So can it be hereditary? Or is it just some kind of gift? Haha I don't know any other girls that do it besides my sisters and I, but I'm happy to know I'm not the only one :). I'm a virgin, so I'm afraid that I might not ever orgasm with a man. I love that I can do it in public and no one knows!! It's like my DLS (Dirty Little Secret)!! My sisters and I all know we do it, but we never confront eachother about it. I have never told anyone I do it, and don't know how a guy would react. I'm afraid that he would think it was weird, and that I was s freak. But I guess we'll see. Pl

Please reply if anyone has any answers to any my questions XD

Thanks fellow "squeezers"!!

Justtryingtodoright wrote at 2013-05-31 11:41:22
I thought I was the only one who did that! It all started when I wore a maxipad and I was laying down and rubbbing my thighs together and all of a sudden it was like "the forth of July." I am 32 and it is so addictive! I lay down cross my legs and squeeze and the feeling that I get is so intense to the point that I have to suck on my teeth when I orgasm I know it sounds strange but hey that is how I react to the feeling because it is so  intense! It helps me to go to sleep!

quiettess wrote at 2013-06-02 22:30:23
I turned to the internet to see if what my daughter has been doing since before age 2 is the same thing I learned how to do since I was age 11....it looks like my hunch is right. My daughter is age 8 now and she will still do it..(sometimes for hours on and off...her doctor told me it isn't harmful)... when I asked my daughter about it, she says, "it relaxes me"... I let it go at that, but thank you for making me feel like her and I are not alone....Now... to let my husband know....or not?

quiettess wrote at 2013-06-02 22:38:37
I also wanted to add one more thing: I'm noticing that a lot of woman are having issues orgasiming in other ways. It took me until my 30's to figure it out. Get a soft, gel-like vibrator...low-level setting....find a "just like me" type lube and find your clit....at first, i needed to put the vibe directly onto that area, but now just around it is ok.. i found that visuals help, but i have a feeling the rest of you are like me and have a good imagination... it took me a pretty long time, this way, to figure out what worked...but once i found it... it was a whole different orgasim.....a little harder and  lot stronger. Good luck, girls, and don't give up... I'm glad I kept trying....i think we can become dependant on what we know and don't explore other options further, because it can be frustrating.. but this reward is worth it.

rob wrote at 2013-06-17 20:02:25
I AM FROM BANGLADESH, its good to know that i am not the only one :) cheers everyone!

Lanica wrote at 2013-06-21 05:41:41
Lol i love doing this!! is so much better than vibrators!!!  

Nai1po1ish wrote at 2013-06-24 00:24:23
I discovered this when I was a freshman in college so I was 18. 3 years later now I do it so much I wonder if its harmful. I wish I could orgasm some other way but I can't :( whenever me and my bf have sex I can't orgasm. It feels great and all but I wish I wasn't so dependent on this way. It would be nice to orgasm while having sex u know? Crossing my legs seems to be the only way I can achieve it. My bf think that's awesome though lol so I guess that's a plus.

im.not.the.only.one wrote at 2013-06-24 09:26:24
EVERYONE:  What everyone is doing here (leg squeezing) is called a COREGASM!!!  It's all over the internet just google it! Women's Health Magazine actually has a routine which includes leg lifts and rope climbing and other ways to stimulate your pelvic muscles by aqueezing your legs and lower abs to the point of COREgasm--it's not a dirty little secret!  

Im.not.the.only.one wrote at 2013-06-24 09:32:07
Please, everyone who has posted here, please, please please look up the word "Coregasm."  You'll see that it is well-known that this happens, it isn't a secret, it is a real, documented thing that happens to lots of people!  

im.not.the.only.one wrote at 2013-06-26 09:22:39
There are how-to videos that show you how to do this, what everyone is doing! It is called COREGASM or SYNTRIBATE!! Just look!  It might seem weird to everyone that people are doing this on national t.v.,since almost everyone who has been doing this has kept it a secret, or is ASHAMED of doing it so they do it privately,  but people are actually doing this openly! Check it out!  AND MEN can do this too!!!  Men and women, boys and girls, even babies!




Izzy wrote at 2013-07-05 19:58:37
I do it too! The only thing with me is that I can feel the same way while having sex.

Jen wrote at 2013-07-18 10:21:19
First found out about the thigh squeeze when I was 12 sat in the back of dads car on a long borning journey, my mind was fixed on sex and I felt soooo horny, I had one leg crossed over the other and a combination of my mood, the seam of my jeans pressing up my slit and squeezing my thighs made the journey fun.  Sometimes in class I would hane my hands jammed between my thighs under my desk and if we were watching a video with lights out I would slide them up against my crotch and squeeze, also I like squeezing my thighs round the rope on the swing.

Ashley wrote at 2013-07-19 05:36:24
Omg im so glad im not alone i thought i was really weird doing this and now finding out its normal best feeling in the world lol but i do the squeezing thigh thing when im stressed out or when im really turned on the plessure is amazing !!!

pallavi wrote at 2013-07-19 08:57:29
i did this thing from like i was born my mother always got angry with me for doing it so i thought it was wrong but finding this site was relief i am so so so glad

pallavi wrote at 2013-07-19 09:30:51
i used to think that its some sort of curse and i cant do it its strange that when i see a dream doing that i feel pleasure for real if anybody does that too plz let me know

Ftcdgfdgf wrote at 2013-07-23 12:44:42
OMG I've been doing this since I was seven! I didn't know it was masturbation untill recently. It's the only way I can get an orgasim. I like it the best in skinny jeans. It feels amazing!! I thought I was alone lol

disappointed wrote at 2013-07-29 04:52:05
I was able to do leg crossing since childhood, too. Felt good. Until one day (when I was already a grown-up), when the feeling of wanting orgasm came all of a sudden, without any thoughts, and did not want to leave me. It is a very long story. To make it short: After about 1 year in pain and severe anxiety (still taking meds for that), I found out that I had PGAD (or PSAS) probably caused by pudendal nerve entrapment. So, I ended up having a surgery. It is better now, but still hurts and I still have PGAD sometimes. So, be careful. If you do it because this "wonderful feeling" comes from nowhere (without having sexual thoughts), this is not good. You might have PGAD, too.  

Angie wrote at 2013-07-31 18:48:43
I did thought I'm the only one! I did this since forever and my mom always scold me from doing this back then, it gave me great feelings and when I discovered porn I finally knew it was orgasm.

Dee wrote at 2013-08-06 15:22:30
Wow, I thought I was a bit wierd liking the leg cross masturbating style but obviously not.  The bit about the girl finding out when in her dads car remined me of the same.  When I was 13 I was in the back in my cheerleading outfit after a competition and it was a long journey home.  I nodded off but woke up afyer a while and looked out under the slits of my eyes, dad was concentrating on the road.  I began to feel horny and bored and desparately wanted to rub myself and started squeezing my thighs, I had one crossed over the other, as I squeezed I scooted down some so my leotard pulled tight at my crotch and as I squeezed the fabric actually pushed up on my clit and a little jolt went through me so I carried on with this until I got home and then jumped in bed still in my leotard and humped my hands to a huge orgasm.

Anonymous Annabelle wrote at 2013-08-07 04:48:53
Holy schnikes, I thought I was the only one and I thought I was extremely weird and I had no idea what I was doing!! Sooooo glad I'm not the only one!! I've been doing it for about a year (I'm sixteen) and I've never had any intimate relationships or anything. I've never had any relationships. I'm such a naive young woman and I had NO idea what I was doing until I searched online. Soo glad I'm not the only one!! Now I won't feel as weird doing it. Thanks so much!  

JLa wrote at 2013-08-21 03:43:18
Oh my gosh, how funny.  I don't really know anyone else who does this.  I actually didn't know it was masturbation until I was like... 22.  I used to do it all the time.  I actually taught elementary school and did it in my class once when I had to pee because I thought it was just a way of holding your pee.  (Seriously... I was sexually deprived and I didn't know anything about sex until my mid-twenties. -_-;).  Now that I know it's masturbation, I would never do that.  Lol.  It's good to know there's lots of people who do this.  I am still a virgin so I have no idea if I have to cross my legs during sex or not, but we'll see.

Hogan wrote at 2013-09-11 08:59:31
My Ex wife and current girlfriend both cum this way  In order for them to have and orgasm the current girlfriend places my dic between her legs and squeezes her thighs until she cums.   She does this either on top of me or standing ( against a wall or pole.)  This is the only way she can come.  She said she started when she was younger by humping pillows with her legs crossed and kissing them like she was making out while crossing her legs.  She also has orgasms at the gym while using ab equipment that requires her to cross her legs.

I recommend this method for those who can't orgasm with their partners.  Put his dick between your legs without it entering you and do it exactly as you would while on your own.

My ex wife would come but with me inside her but she still had to cross her legs in order to do so.  

missy wrote at 2013-09-12 04:37:08
Lol insane ! I have read nearly all posts , I have been doing it since grade 1 crazy lol but I know that it felt so dam good . I remember in school I always use to pretend I dropped something and I'd lean over an do the leg cross and pretend I couldn't reach it until I came lmao !! I remember one time the side of my chair even broke haha , I also have a hard time having an orgasm during sex usually when I'm on top grinding really fast I will cum . I am surely going to be open with my next bf and try it out while crossing my legs .

Sammygirl wrote at 2013-10-04 03:25:38
Omg thank god...

I do this too!

I've discovered this when I was eight and thought I was like a freak. It only takes like a minute and its amazing!

I've only came once without doin It this way.

But it took a lot of work!!

I don't feel weird anymore :). Yay!

crazywolf wrote at 2013-10-04 04:19:41
Omg!!!! I'm not the only one who does this! I was in 1st or 2nd grade when I started. I would even to it in class and start shaking really bad and the teacher had to tell me to stop, but I couldn't help it. Anyways of course since I was young I didnt know anything bout it but I quite doing it when I was in the 4th grade I think, then one day when I was in the 8th grade I thought I havnt done it in a while, so I went to my room and did it again and I couldn't stop. When I was in 9th grade I was learning about sex and sexual things so I would go home,cross my legs, and.squeeze while thinking about pleasures and all that good stuff.  Of course as I hot older I didn't it more and more even with my bf in the second half of woth grade, he just loved watching me do it lol. I'm 19 now so I go harder now and can't quite. Thank God I'm not the only one who does this!  

Mel wrote at 2013-10-04 10:41:30
Oh my god I'm so happy I'm not the only one who does this.

I started when I was maybe 5-6ish and needed to pee really badly and did it to hold it - the feeling was so amazing that it stuck with me. As I got a bit older, I found hanging from things while doing it with a full bladder was absolutely intoxicating and I still do it even now. I never realized it was a form of masturbation or that's what I had been doing all this time. I'm 22 and still a virgin, so I worry that sex would be nearly as pleasurable when I finally do have it.

I could do this all day and it feels like nothing would ever compare.

shmini wrote at 2013-10-16 20:53:20
WAIT. I'm in complete shock right now. I've been doing this since I was about 8 or 9 and only now, at 19 years old am I finding out that I'm not the only one. I thought it was so weird to experience the pleasure but I couldn't stop. I would just cross my legs under my desk and squeeze my leg muscles and had no idea what I was doing exactly. I never thought of looking this up until now. But thankfullyI am able to orgasm without crossing my legs.

#teamlegcrossers woo!

ayy wrote at 2013-10-29 01:52:55
yoooo im 14 and i do it too lmao

the only thing is it really hurts to finger myself and i get literally no pleasure from it. i get no pleasure from anything except the leg crossing thing and its kinda annoying bc most of u guys cant orgasm or find sex pleasurable and like im a virgin but im really scared that its gonna be like that when i get older??

i dont know if i orgasm or not with the leg thing, like i dont even cum (sorry tmi) but it just feels so so so good

but like i said im just scared that when im older sex is gonna feel like nothing

A man wrote at 2013-11-08 01:14:54
Hi Kat, don't worry, this game is quite frequent amongst young girls, and some women, like to do it later.

But it would wise to remember that some people know this game, and may notice !

A man wrote at 2013-11-08 01:19:22
Hi quietless,

Just try to make a rather cool attempt when sitting somewhere with your husband ; he might look embarassed (I hope not), or interested with perhaps a slight touch of amusement. Then you will have got your answer ;-) Personnally I would like this very much :-)

I'm.not.the.only.one. wrote at 2013-11-12 03:43:18
Did everyone look up "Coregasm" ??  Please look it up, Google it, read up on it.  Does everyone know that this is what NORMAL?? Of anyone reads this, or if anyone has read my previous posts, please let me know if this information on Coregasms has helped you.  This is what everyone is doing here.  What every single person is describing is a coregasm.  I am just surprised that men can do it too.  If any men read this, please tell me: Can you have a leg-squeeze orgasm, and jerk off at the same time?  Are the feelings of orgasm different with each type of masturbatory technique??  

taj wrote at 2013-11-26 03:22:06
I get on my knee and got on a couch end which is best. I cross my legs and shake. I use to have to lock my door. my parents use to catch me when I was like six or younger. I never told my husband. it is the greatest. I could never sit in a chair and just cross my legs. I had to  get up and put one leg on the couch arm and cross my legs as shake

Payton wrote at 2014-01-07 03:11:42
Oh my god, I'm so glad I finally got the decided to type this into google and see if there was anyone else out there like me, 20 years old and all this time I thought I was such a freak.

I started doing it when I was about 7 years old. I haven't stopped doing it since and my fantasies that I imagine while crossing my legs have become a little more extreme lol, I enjoy doing it so much.

It only works for me if I'm laying on my right side with my left leg over my right one

birdiering wrote at 2014-02-10 06:27:54
Ladies-to achieveorgasm during sex- doggie style- cross your legs. Usually I go first and the pulses drive him to orgasm.

Audrey wrote at 2014-02-17 04:25:28
I have been squeezing my thighs since I was a baby. My mom told me I would crawl to a different room and lay down and start squeezing my thighs. I still do it today when I'm alone. I'll think of something and then I just have to go into the bathroom and just let it out. I start to get really sweaty and my face gets red and my heart starts beating really hard. It feels soooo amazing. Then I stop but then I get turned on again and I have to go into the bathroom again and squeeze my thighs. I thought I was the only one who did this. By the way, I'm only 14 years old.

lolimnotalone wrote at 2014-03-27 13:57:00
omg, i thought i was the only one doing this? Hahaha i was like five years old when i accidentaly crossed my legs thightly and it felt awesome i kept doing it  many many times hahaha. and im already 13 lol.  

nini wrote at 2014-03-29 05:56:34
i learned this trick last year and it has been great! luckily for me i can still orgasm by touching myself. however the feeling is not quite the same. i find that crossing my legs is a lot more strenuous (go figure, its almost an exercise) but there is a lot more heat being built than in a regular orgasm. the orgasms achieved by crossing legs require a bit more imagination if you know what i mean, but at times they can be totally intense. i like alternating between the two because i dont want to be too dependent on it. generally, i touch myself once a week or less to ensure i have awesome orgasms every time, and in the meantime i cross my legs because i find that you cant use this method too many times? i could be wrong on that but i havent felt a change in the intensity myself.

Alexandrrraaaa wrote at 2014-04-15 22:01:50
I have never had sex, only foreplay. I discovered crossing a little while ago and it has been incredibly awesome. I told my boyfriend about it but he didn't take it seriously or understand, maybe cos we never had sex. the feeling is great and I always want to continue, but after I reach once, I can't reach orgasm again for a while, maybe 30 mins and its a little painful.  im 19 now and still a crosser as well as a virgin.  im worried that when I finally want sex, I might not enjoy it as much. its really sad :( but I love the pleasure from crossing so much! can't believe i thought I was the only one and something might have been wrong with me. This is incredible!  

Alexandrrraaaa wrote at 2014-04-15 22:01:55
I have never had sex, only foreplay. I discovered crossing a little while ago and it has been incredibly awesome. I told my boyfriend about it but he didn't take it seriously or understand, maybe cos we never had sex. the feeling is great and I always want to continue, but after I reach once, I can't reach orgasm again for a while, maybe 30 mins and its a little painful.  im 19 now and still a crosser as well as a virgin.  im worried that when I finally want sex, I might not enjoy it as much. its really sad :( but I love the pleasure from crossing so much! can't believe i thought I was the only one and something might have been wrong with me. This is incredible!  

Aage wrote at 2014-04-17 03:21:45
As an oblivious guy, I didn't notice this until college. I was watching a movie with a bunch of friends in a dorm room. The lights were low and everyone was watching the tv. This hot girl was right in my line of sight with her legs crossed and her hand wedged between her thighs. I noticed her legs started rocking faster and faster and she got a strained expression on her face. Then she would slow down for a minute, then start up again. She did it maybe six times before stretching and straightening it her legs. She probably assumed nobody would see her, so she made no effort to hide her expression. Needless to say, I don't remember anything about the movie after that.

This seems to be the only sexual practice without its own genre of porn. Wonder why?  

Shawna wrote at 2014-04-20 05:56:44
Oh my! so many crossers.

I am 32 now and have been crossing since I was about 10years old.

I really tot i was alone on this too until now. I mentioned it to a male friend who thought it was weird so I decided to look it up.

Glad I'm not alone.God bless we crossers. & to the virgins who think they might not enjoy sex, you will enjoy sex. I actually do enjoy both. I mainly cross my legs when my husband is away for months n need some pleasure.

I don't know about the cross and sex at the same time though but on getting this info, i'll try it out *winks*

Same as Alexandraaa, I can only reach organism once with my legs. Wish I could go more.

I absolutely don't like fingering myself. Don't get no pleasure from it at all. Its just a no no for me but the legs are simply amazing xxxxxxx

anon wrote at 2014-04-23 02:06:28
I discovered this by accident. I needed  to go to the bathroom but there wasn't one near. I crossed my legs and then it happens.  I don't orgasm though, but it stills feels amazing.  

psssssshlol wrote at 2014-05-13 11:10:30
Hi girls i started doing this when i was 6 and im already 12 going on 13 and still havent got my period my mom got her period when she was 11, does this affect my period thats why i havent got it yet? Pls answer.

j56260 wrote at 2014-05-22 07:58:25
Hello everyone,

I am a male that has been with the same girl for 10 years, she does this same thing to reach orgasm all the time, and has not reached orgasm since we have been together. I am just wondering if there is something that I can do to help her get there while we are having intercourse, I have tried everything and nothing does it like the thing described above I love this girl so much and I just want to give her the pleasure while we are together that she can get without me :-(

Any help is greatly appreciated.  

Qwerty1234 wrote at 2014-05-25 06:00:11
Hey js56260...I have never been able to orgasm without crossing my legs....but...my husband and I have amazing orgasms together like this....

I'm on hands and knees or on my stomach,

He is behind me moving ...when I'm getting really worked up I cross my legs while on my stomach and he pushes deep inside. Moves a little here and there to push me over. We don't even need to say anything anymore but starting off, there was plenty of dialogue. If he doesn't finish with me and starts moving, typically I have to keep having orgasms until he's done. It's kind of annoying to only be able to finish one way but I'm pretty sure it's what has kept me a very eager wife for 15 yrs.  orgasms with him are much stronger than without  

Hailey wrote at 2014-05-29 04:11:44
At 14 I found this out and especially good if you are certain types of religious as an alternative to sexual intercourse. Js.  

Quiet one wrote at 2014-06-09 06:54:34
I've been doing this for awhile and I thought that I was the only one. It's nice to know that I'm not alone.

mollyjane wrote at 2014-06-10 19:32:22
I've been doing it since I was 10 and I wondered if I was the only person in the world that did it. I didn't know what an orgasm was when I was younger so I referred to it as the "pee feeling." Looking back i see how ridiculous that was but I'm relieved so many others have been doing it!

jlf47 wrote at 2014-06-17 03:02:41
Wow after 25+ years thinking I was the ONLY one haha I've never heard of anyone doing this although I've never told. many. its been a very embarrassing topic because I did this a lot when I was young from probably before age 5 my family called it the hula I have actually struggled a lot lately wondering why it was always a joke and not addressed as an issue like possible sexual abuse as a child..hmm I too couldn't achieve orgasms with a partner or any other way for may years..but after practice figured out positions that create the same friction and pressure work;) haha I love Google :)  

Kate wrote at 2014-06-18 04:02:46
Thats so funny. I though I was just this weirdo who did that. Im 14 and I accidently found out that technique during my history class when I had my legs crossed. I was trying to hold in my pee because I "really had to go" and the pressure felt amazing! Its weird because after that I started watching porn ((oh please dont judge)) and I started doing that in a circular motion.. I tried masterbating with my fingure but it just hurt... I didnt feel much pleasure with that. So anyways glad im not alone ;)

Brook wrote at 2014-06-18 08:04:37
ME TOO. I was scared i was weird so i googled and ughghg happy to know theres other who do the samee

thinker-bell wrote at 2014-08-10 07:16:18
I thought I was alone 😢 good to know I'm not!!! I discovered when I.was little I woke up in the middle of the night doing it!!! I couldn't stop after that... it's kind of weird I feel the need every time I sweep lmao, I've done it in public, it's just awesome! Then I learned some other techniques involving my hands, one finger is all you need and you don't need penetration, our Clair is powerful!!!

Here's and advice...if you are laying down and you had 1 or 2 orgasms already spread a little bit on your cult and then squeeze again...you Wil totally LOOOOOOVE it I promise 😁

Dee wrote at 2014-08-24 15:49:58
Used to think I was wierd for orgasming this way but so relieved to see that a lot of women are the same. Worried that I wont be able to cum with a partner when I do become sexually active but with all the advice given, I'm looking forward to trying them out. Cheers to multiple orgasm days! ;)

mobug1095 wrote at 2014-09-01 08:16:26
Oh my goodness I'm so happy to see people actually do it I was 7 when I first discovered it and I accidentally found my dad's porn Stash and I wad trying to figure out what it was all about to I put the video in and sat on the couch and I was wearing jeans and they were itchy so I started rubbing my legs together to itch them then all of a sudden I have this unimaginable feeling it was amazing and that'd the only way I can masturbat now and it's hard because I make the guys I've been with feel bad because I can't orgasm with them but I still haven't told anyone about what I can do. This is my first time sharing it with anyone.. How was it to tell the men you were with? Was it easy for you? And how did they react?

bethany93 wrote at 2014-09-05 14:10:07
I'm so relieved to find this website! I'm 20 and have been doing this since I could sit in my high chair. Obviously when I was little I didn't know what it was and my primary school teacher would shout at me and take my chair away from me and make me do my work standing up. I think I asked my mum why I did this when I was about 10 and I was so shocked at what I was doing that I stopped doing it until I was around 14 when I remembered and gave it a go and could still do it. I also can go 5 or 6 times in a row taking me less than a minute to reach orgasm and struggle to cum any other way. I feel like we need to be more open about our special talent so that other girls don't feel like a freak and that they are the only ones. I told a group of my friends and they gave me the nickname magic fanny!!  

Kat wrote at 2014-10-13 00:13:49
I guess i am very happy to find out that i am not the only one with this type of sensational pleasure. I too, do this when no one looks. I came upon this in accident when i was 12 i think, it was when i was laying on my bed while playing a game (my tv was on the top front straight across from my bed).  I thought it was a bad thing to do because my mother got mad when i rub/cross my legs. After that, i couldn't stop so i do it when no one is looking. I was still thinking if it's a bad thing to do that can harm my health(did not have internet/WiFi at the time). Now i am 18 turning 19 soon, i find myself not being the only one doing this. ^_^

Lily wrote at 2014-10-14 18:28:13
The same for me. But i have never had sex. I am also very worried that i can get orgasm when i have sex in the future. It seems like it's the same problems to most of us.

Glad to Know wrote at 2014-10-17 19:39:14
Glad to finally see I'm not weird!!! Ok, I found out about this in 1st grade.  Back then, I saw a girl in class humping the chair and she did it often. Then I thought to myself - why does she do that? And decided to emulate and found out it feels so good.  The older I got, the more I found out that it feels good by just squeezing my kegel muscles without needing anything protruding.  All my partners have admitted that having sex with me is addicting because I know how to control my kegel muscles really well.  A lot of quality orgasms through sex but I still like to masterbate on my own too.  

neha mirza wrote at 2014-10-24 13:04:43
I also do this since I was 4 nd now m 24 I still do I have big thighs so I feel erotic I wana share my experience plz add me on facebook my email is nmirza645@gmail.com  

Problematicpleasure wrote at 2014-10-27 05:35:31
I'm the same but it's a bit different, I have to do it in an odd position on a chair and it only works sometimes. If any one saw me do it they'd probably think I was weird.

It's the only way I can orgasm as well, but it's starting to affect my relationships, my boyfriend blames himself for not being able to make my clit work. Anyone figured out how to be all normal? :/  

kickme1 wrote at 2014-10-30 16:27:11
I've been doing this since I can remember. I find it best when I lie on my back squeezing a duvet or something between my legs. I've recently found it better when I lift my knees up higher to increase the pressure on my clit. It's also really good for edging.

Feels So Wonderful! wrote at 2014-11-12 17:55:08
I am glad to know that I am not the only one who enjoys this kind of orgasm.  Although, I do it a little differently .. I think it feels best when I am sitting on the couch or perhaps a chair, slightly lean to one or the other side and then move my hips in somewhat of a slow rotating motion (more side-to side) rather than front to back while also slightly lifting my hips from the surface.  When I feel like I am almost ready to orgasm, I slow my movements until I feel like I can move again without orgasming.  I repeat this several times until it feels so awesome that I can't control it any longer.  At that point, I explode into the most body-rocking orgasm!!  Oh my gosh!  Think I will do it now!!

Arleen Charlotte wrote at 2014-11-14 04:28:17
I also found out about the thigh squeezing at a young age, I was 7 years old. I never knew why I would do it until I grew up. My parents would see me do the squeezing and it was very embarrassing for me but they never told me anything. I also would do it in school during my 2nd grade when I discovered it, my guy best friend caught me while I squeezed in my chair but it's not until we grew up and actually dated that I confessed about how or what happened during my squeezing.. I've never been able to reach an orgasm with a partner or by masturbating/touching myself. I fantasize about my now partner when I do my squeezing method. I do it often sometimes my thighs feel sore but it's worth the pain. I squeeze when I am nervous, upset, horny...etc.. I do feel/believe that it tightens up my downstairs area(; I thought I was the only one..I'm glad I found this site!

Arleen Charlotte wrote at 2014-11-14 04:28:30
I also found out about the thigh squeezing at a young age, I was 7 years old. I never knew why I would do it until I grew up. My parents would see me do the squeezing and it was very embarrassing for me but they never told me anything. I also would do it in school during my 2nd grade when I discovered it, my guy best friend caught me while I squeezed in my chair but it's not until we grew up and actually dated that I confessed about how or what happened during my squeezing.. I've never been able to reach an orgasm with a partner or by masturbating/touching myself. I fantasize about my now partner when I do my squeezing method. I do it often sometimes my thighs feel sore but it's worth the pain. I squeeze when I am nervous, upset, horny...etc.. I do feel/believe that it tightens up my downstairs area(; I thought I was the only one..I'm glad I found this site!

♡♡Lala wrote at 2014-11-20 03:18:38

Wanna Achieve wrote at 2014-11-24 15:39:40
Female, squeezing since age 12, squeezing multiple times weekly (sometimes daily), now age 38.

I cannot achieve an orgasm any other way. These squeeze orgasms have become weak, and not nearly as satisfying as I KNOW orgasms during actual sex should be. i want my whole body to be spent! These squeezes feel intense for a very brief time, then poof-gone.  Note: I have never even enjoyed receiving oral sex, either. There is definitely some sort of desensitization, or reorganizing of the pleasure stimulation spots by using this method. i want to have orgasms "the old fashioned way" and want to climax with my husband inside, not by myself.

Advice for these young girls doing this: heed what I (and many others on this site) have said: you will not be able to orgasm in any other way if you kep doing this! it makes for a very stressful situation for yourself and your partner. Not to mention the feelings of inadequacy, feeling like your "not normal" down there, and longing for more that you can't seem to physically achieve (yeah, it goes that deep for me). I looooovvve sex...I just can't hit the heights without squeezing, and that is so sad.

A previous post said to 'challenge yourself to stop for a month' and to do kegels. i am going to try this and report my results in one month. but, in the meantime, if anyone has any other suggestions on how to rehabilitate, I am open. Also, anyone who shares my feelings, please post.

Wanna Achieve wrote at 2014-11-24 15:40:06
Female, squeezing since age 12, squeezing multiple times weekly (sometimes daily), now age 38.

I cannot achieve an orgasm any other way. These squeeze orgasms have become weak, and not nearly as satisfying as I KNOW orgasms during actual sex should be. i want my whole body to be spent! These squeezes feel intense for a very brief time, then poof-gone.  Note: I have never even enjoyed receiving oral sex, either. There is definitely some sort of desensitization, or reorganizing of the pleasure stimulation spots by using this method. i want to have orgasms "the old fashioned way" and want to climax with my husband inside, not by myself.

Advice for these young girls doing this: heed what I (and many others on this site) have said: you will not be able to orgasm in any other way if you kep doing this! it makes for a very stressful situation for yourself and your partner. Not to mention the feelings of inadequacy, feeling like your "not normal" down there, and longing for more that you can't seem to physically achieve (yeah, it goes that deep for me). I looooovvve sex...I just can't hit the heights without squeezing, and that is so sad.

A previous post said to 'challenge yourself to stop for a month' and to do kegels. i am going to try this and report my results in one month. but, in the meantime, if anyone has any other suggestions on how to rehabilitate, I am open. Also, anyone who shares my feelings, please post.

Catherine wrote at 2014-12-01 17:34:25
I've been doing this since I was about 13. I love it and hate it at the same time. When I was younger I hated the thought of masturbation, to this day I still do. I do not enjoy touching myself down there. But now I am starting to really hate this leg crossing thing. I never really knew that I was coming to an orgasm until I read these posts. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and him as well to me. Him of course never having sex orgasmed really fast. It was no biggie I just giggled and said I guess we'll need more practice. But so far no matter how much foreplay we do, I don't think I have orgasmed with him yet. I get amazing stimulation from him and it feels like I'm on edge, as if I am about to orgasm, but I can't let it go. I guess I'll have to tell him about this leg crossing masturbation and do some kegels or whatever it is called.

The leg crossing feels great! But once you found a man to penetrate that baby making machine, the leg crossing is going to seem like a bad idea. I could literally go on for hours hahaha, but seriously young women who have found this post, I advice you to stop if you want to orgasm due to a man...if you roll that way. I am still young myself, a mere 21 year old! In the long run, the leg crossing has got to stop for me! I notice that I don't do it when I am around him or stay the night. But when I'm in my own bed by myself...oops! There goes the legs, crossed again!!

Sophie wrote at 2014-12-09 05:16:16
I thought I was the only one doing it. I've been doing it since I was in my 5th grade. I dont even have any idea that it is called masterbation. I've been doing it weekly. Everytime Im not busy, I start fantasizing then cross my legs and squeeze. I know that it feels great but I wanted to stop doing it because Im afraid that it must be bad for my health. I think that this is better than giving up my virginity but still I want to stop.  

Megamunch wrote at 2014-12-09 18:22:15
I thought I was totally weird! So glad other people do this, found it out at 14 and love it  

Lovely jade wrote at 2014-12-13 01:21:11
I know some women get turned on by sticking vibrators in themselves or fingering themselves that has never been me I kind feel like women who do that don't know about this technique which feels better and is a so much better option in my opinion because u can do it anywhere without anyone knowing what your doing. And it's hands free plus it's a better alternative for virgins to.

Knowledge is Power wrote at 2014-12-15 21:32:44
I have been doing this leg-crossing technique to orgasm since I was very very young, I am now 23, sexually active and to all the girls worried about not enjoying sex, DO NOT WORRY, I recommend incorporating the leg crossing into your sexual intercourse. The positions are limited but the orgasms...are amazing.

Alternatively, if you want to orgasm using your fingers, you can try this: cross your legs until you're about to climax and stop yourself so that you do not orgasm, and then proceed with using your fingers to "finish yourself off". Each time you try it, stop yourself from orgasm earlier and earlier. Eventually you will be able to start as well as finish by using your fingers continually without needing to alternate between the two. It works.

But it's amazing how popular this post is and how many girls/women out there do it!

metallover666 wrote at 2014-12-21 04:19:33
I kinda feel left out o_o Am I the only one who figured this out at 16.. Reading all the comments "Found this out at age 4" "14" "13".. :/ But, I don't know if anybody is reading this, if you are; Hello stranger?!^.^ to anybody who is reading this, I have a question. When I cross my legs and...get turned on(?) thats it for me. is that nornal? and when I move my leg away from the other the feeling goes away. :I

kenztper wrote at 2015-02-27 05:34:07
Omg. I started doing this when I was 9! I felt so weird & ashamed but it feels amazing! I put my right over left & basically hump myself until I get an unexplainable pleasure, I drop the phone & squeeze my pillows, sometimes moan too. I feel like I'm in heaven. I always feel awkward when I do it, but now I know it's normal & others do it. Thank god. I'm 15, I've lost my virginity but never had an orgasm during sex, I guess I'll see which feels better.  

baechel wrote at 2015-04-01 00:28:26
Omg..i might be a little young on this sight but im 12 i found this out when i was 6 and i thought there was something wrong with me. I ACTUALLY THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!I googled it to see if there was something wrong with me but i found out lots of people eere doing it and i was kind of shocked ( i found out today) Im glad theres lots ot other people in this world who do it  

Duni wrote at 2015-04-05 16:19:46
No way I found that website!! I am only 13 years old...and I've done that since...ummm..I am 7 or 8 or something...Well whatever.. you guys gave me so much hope! I really thougt that I was a freak! Thank you guys so much! <3

Hope wrote at 2015-04-15 09:04:14
I cant believe tha Am not the only one!! I thought i was Totally abonormal or something like that !! I ve been doing it since i was 10 years old !! I dont know what made me think of it .. It just happened , the orgasms are Amazing!! the best part is you can do it Anywhere Anytime ..  

Hope wrote at 2015-04-15 09:04:20
I cant believe tha Am not the only one!! I thought i was Totally abonormal or something like that !! I ve been doing it since i was 10 years old !! I dont know what made me think of it .. It just happened , the orgasms are Amazing!! the best part is you can do it Anywhere Anytime ..  

bigbum wrote at 2015-04-20 19:55:45
HI! I'm male and I can't get off yet but O.. M.. G does it feel better than. I've done this similar since I was real young age 11 or so.. till now just starting again since my thighs are now thick once again :) So thought I'd add to the pile. I don't cross them :S I rub them together and use the muscles to just go all out it feels soooo good. ad the burn before and after Uhhh makes them feel and look so big. It also helps with the penis to. So yeah you gals ain't the only ones who can lol :D :) I'm male and I can do it too.

chinchin wrote at 2015-04-22 01:37:57
glad i'm not alone in this! i discovered this tech way back when i was in high school or even younger! im not sure i forgot tho. lol. it really is a n easy and an amazing way to orgasm! effortless

LoveCake wrote at 2015-04-23 22:50:21
Man, I discovered squeeze thigh masturbation in the eighth grade. It feels good but I can cause some serious superstition in your lives. Follow God and his word. Lust is against the bible. Think of all of the things you are going to miss out on, like having friends, being respected, feeling comfortable. If I were you I would pray for that sexual demon to leave at once!

Melissa wrote at 2015-04-25 00:20:48
This has changed my life. I'm 28 years old and have been doing this privately since I was about 6. Practically no one knows, not even my OBGYN because I thought she would think I was weird. Meanwhile, I would always tell her that I have yet to achieve an orgasm. I had no idea that this amazing feeling WAS an orgasm for all these years. I feel so relieved and less alone. I can't wait to try some of these sex positions that were mentioned that allow me to squeeze my legs. All this time I've only done it when I had to pee SO bad but didn't feel like going lol. That's the only time I do it. I cross left over right, and I'm always on my stomach and then propped up on my hands or elbows.

Jemmadagurl wrote at 2015-04-29 03:23:48
Omg I thought I was the only one! I started with a pillow between my legs, and humped that. Then I squeezed my legs together one day and got intense pleasure. I do it all the time, but I can only do it with a blanket between my legs. Thank goodness I'm not a freak, bc I thought I was for a long time!

jem wrote at 2015-05-02 12:33:33
Omg I really thought I was the only one doing this kind of masturbation. I'm so glad that I'm not alone. I started when I was 8 and I'll cross my legs in class at school and have fun. I'LL be 18 next two weeks and I still enjoy this method, though I've never had sex i have never had an orgasm during fore play, only by crossing my legs. I'm so happy I can relate to you all

ely wrote at 2015-05-09 07:48:11
I seriously thought I was the only one...I've been doing this since I was like 5 or even younger. The

thing is I have tried having sex twice and honestly even the tip was painful, and forplay never made me orgasm. But I always orgasm while doing the crossing leg method especially if I use my left leg.

ely wrote at 2015-05-09 07:48:14
I seriously thought I was the only one...I've been doing this since I was like 5 or even younger. The

thing is I have tried having sex twice and honestly even the tip was painful, and forplay never made me orgasm. But I always orgasm while doing the crossing leg method especially if I use my left leg.

audiosexual wrote at 2015-05-10 13:34:11
Wow, to think that maybe this action of ours isn't as abnormal as we thought...XD I think I discovered this when I was 3 or 4, waaaay before I knew what an orgasm was. It's embarrassing now that I think about it cause my parents have witnessed it before, and usually when I see scenes of naked people or water/swimming scenes on TV, I would immediately do that and I had no idea why! I even remember accidentally peeing in my pants as a result of squeezing too much when I was really young...e.e;;

So wow, I never knew this is a form of masturbation until now. I'm usually too scared to actually use my fingers to touch myself down there for fear of being too loud, so whenever I get turned on, I resort to the squeezing thighs. And I would be so shocked every time at how wet I would get. I sometimes do this in the cold mornings just to warm and wake myself up from bed. XD

Joe wrote at 2015-05-12 22:37:58
I also do it alone geez it is a great feeling but i feel more pressure to do it when i's under a lot of stressed it actually does wonder in that department as well as when im with my husband i lie on my back and he would be on his knees and then i crossed my legs on his chest and he uses them for a balance and then he hits my g-spot with every thrust

Holy crap there's loads of us wrote at 2015-05-20 13:04:10
I thought I was the only one. I started doing this when I was 8 and haven't stopped haha

swity wrote at 2015-05-26 09:53:28
i put a pe between my legs and thn after i crossed my legs so hardly n entered in heavn :)

appletree wrote at 2015-06-02 22:42:56
Haha! I have done since I can remember and I genuinely thought I was the only one! Go us!  

Anon!M wrote at 2015-06-17 01:01:05
I thought I was the only one who did this! I've been doing it since I believe I was 5 or 6. I cross left over right and twisting my ankles together. I then squeeze my hands onto my thighs by the parts and move my hips up and down slightly. Best feeling ever! I do this when I need To pee and sometimes when I want to watch Omorashi ;)

Never knew it was masturbating or an orgasm! XD

Lisa wrote at 2015-06-25 01:37:59
Omg wow I thought I was the only one that does this. It started around 10 years old when I would always have to pee. Now I do it whenever I'm in the mood or horny. It helps me when I have one leg hanging off and have an object in between my legs. Gives me such a better orgasm in less than 30 seconds. The worst part is that I hate having sex because it's impossible for me to get an orgasm with another man. Any suggestions to help me?  

Multipleorgasm wrote at 2015-06-30 23:50:52
Whenever I am feeling horny I just cross my legs, squeeze and explode with massive orgasm. Have been doing it for 10 years.And it helps and improves my sexual ability to come or have multiple orgasm with a man.

mei wrote at 2015-07-04 07:35:06
I'm so relieved that so many women orgasm the same way I do. I've been masturbating this way since I was a child. It's so funny that I used to want to talk to someone about it but as too afraid that I would have to stop doing it.  

11 wrote at 2015-07-05 21:14:01
Omg I do this too. I do chin-ups and squeeze my legs together and move them and it feels so amazing.

confused wrote at 2015-07-05 21:15:44
When you do this do you keep your legs still or move them/jiggle them?

Liz wrote at 2015-07-18 05:14:50
Omg! So finally! I'm finding out I'm not the only one! I figured out I could do this sometime in 6th grade and I found it strange but amazing. Before I ever had sex I thought "maybe this is what sex feels like?" But no. Sex satisfies me but I can't orgasum like when I cross my legs. At first I thought that it would make my first time more painful because I'm pressing my thighs together and I thought it would make me tighter somehow but it didn't. I'm glad I found this page because I thought I was weird. I really enjoy crossing my legs it's one of the best feelings ever! And I can do it anywhere without anyone noticing

kellyc: wrote at 2015-08-09 04:41:38
Oh my goodness I thought there was something wrong with me! I was little when I started by accident by hanging on the door it gave me one when I was 6 I didn't know what it was than at 8 I crossed my legs and squeezed to see of I could get a leg cramp and it happens it's an amazing experience but can also make it very difficult to orgasam during intercourse  

yummi wrote at 2015-08-09 18:04:18
I have done this since second grade didnt know what was happening other then the fact that it felt amazing and i still do it today. its great to know so many other people do it too i thought i was the only one  

cheeky wank wrote at 2015-08-27 12:45:10
Im feeling a lot of love for everyone here,  it really makes me feel like it is a positive talent to have hearing everybody talking about it so openly. It strikes me that nearly everyone here has been doing it since pre puberty childhood, as have I (my mum and dad used to call it "jigging", until I got to about 13 and my dad told me that it was still ok to do, but only in my room now!) I'm 22 now, but  I developed super fast, I had pubic hair by age 7 and was wearing bras when I was 10, did anyone else here? Develop fast too I mean? I can remember googling it when I was 14 or so on dial up internet and there was like 3 people on the whole internet who said they could do it which made me feel quite special but also very alone. I also sometimes use it during sex with my partner, or sat on the edge of a bed with a vibrator inside me, which is AMAZING. Lots of people seem to feel ashamed, please don't,  its a fantastic thing to be able to do, and its becoming a lot more accepted, as the coregasm phenomenon illustrates! Soon I hope there will be porn with this talent in, as thats where most teens learn about sex now! I also do it in public although im a bit more selective about where now, as I sometimes think how it would make me feel if someone was masturbating on a bus in the seat across from me, I try to respect other people's space a bit more now but sometimes on a long journey I literally cannot help it. I remember it nearly ruining oneof my exams once as I just sat there and came the whole time instead of writing anything, I managed to convince them it was stress and they let me retake but yeah damn it is seriously addictive!! My advice would be just to be honest about it, dont make it a dirty little secret, even if that is part of the thrill! Keep at it ladies, I reckon 70 percent of you are doing it right now!

bluecrush287 wrote at 2015-10-21 05:22:33
Dude! I wish I had found this forum years ago. I've been doing this since the age of 3 and am now in my thirties. There are pictures of me looking very lady-like sitting down- but I know what I was up to! My grandmother used to catch me doing it in my bedroom while watching Nickelodeon.

  I am grateful to not be alone in this. However, I am still as hopeless as ever in figuring out how to orgasm without squeezing my legs. I looove sex. Nothing beats the feeling of dick. But I am worried that I will never have a satisfying heterosexual relationship as a result of my dependence on coregasming. I have ended things with men I've dated over my shame and inability to let them bring me to orgasm. It just seems pointless to continue having sex with a guy for hours when my vag is sore and I am further away from coming than I was in the first 2 minutes. My ex husband did not express that he was weirded out by it at first, but at one point late in the relationship he told me I looked like a 'dead fish.' That's a sex-drive killer if I ever heard one. I think of it every time I do the act and it just makes me depressed. It was pretty hurtful and I am never going to share this with any partner again as a result.

 I am interested in finding out if there are any sex therapists who have successfully helped people who can come only by this style. What does it take to learn to orgasm by clitoral stimulation with the fingers or sex? My guess is long, hard work. And relaxation. I am addicted to the fact that I can muscle out an orgasm, so trying to relax enough to get one with my fingers seems pointless.


 In my efforts to overcome this problem, I have tried abstinence from leg-squeezing for very long periods of time. But when I start doing it again I can work up to having up to probably 200 orgasms in the course of two hours. It just keeps going and going. I am on medications that lower my libido and sometimes I have dry spells where I cannot achieve any type of orgasm/coregasm at all, whereas other times close to my period I am easily stimulated once I put in the effort to come a couple of times.

 This is so weird!! And annoying!!


 This issue has been a source of shame for me for years and I am ready to grow out of this childish habit! Guess I have to take matters into my own hands...

 There was a link to another website that had some ideas from a sex therapist you might check out:


PicoXOXO wrote at 2015-11-28 18:59:50
I did the same thing when I was little!

I started doing it when I was around 5 or 6. No one ever found out, and I was really sneaky about it.

I also did it when I had to pee, but then it took me a few minutes to pee afterwards :/

I cross left-over-right, legs straight out, and then just press down. Then you start to feel a pressure  by your bladder (at least, I do), and then the magic happens. I never knew that was an orgasm, though.

I did it 5 times in a row once, my personal best.

inshock wrote at 2015-12-31 21:13:33
I can't believe how many people are out there --- all with the EXACT same story as mine: I can only do it lying one direction, squeeze together and pulse the thigh muscles, imagine something horny and make it more intense, and then bam within 1-3 minutes - blissful wonderful orgasm!!

I do like to hold off just before the orgasm and watch some porn or think something even hornier, so the orgasm is way more intense when I do do it. I have been known to do this for HOURS!

Like most others who do this, I cannot cum any other way - I have tried EVERYTHING with very patient and caring boyfriends but I just can't. Incidentally I can't squeeze my legs to orgasm with my partner in the room watching me (but I could do it when the person was not watching......) so maybe it's shyness/shame/embarassment?

I have come close to orgasm through sex, and that was - like someone else said above - when I was high! I managed to squeeze the muscles during sex, and it was easier to focus on which ones since I was high, and NEARLY NEARLY came. I have to try that again!  

syntribate wrote at 2016-01-05 00:13:31
Show your man. Do it when he is the room, and show the world. Film yourself doing this and show all of us . Is the most amazing way to orgasm .  

Mia wrote at 2016-01-08 19:38:04
Finally i found the answer to my long time secret...it was yesterday when i remember to check online abt this squeezing thingy im doing since i was in 3rd grade.I kinda stop doing it wen i was in high school because i thought im weird or sick.Then i started doing it again in college but very rare tho until now im 24 and married.Im just lucky that i can still cum during sex and i can have the same pleasure wen im on top u just need to like rub ur clit on ur mans dick u just need to move faster tho but the thing is u will like freak out once u have ur orgasm  so make sure ur holding on something like in ur man's arms or on bed.The feeling of having the same pleasure  while ur on top is very amazing, you girls should try doing it instead of doing cross leg which is really tiring sometimes.Bcoz i know most of u are having problems on not having the same satisfaction while having sex the only way to be independent from it is to actually stop it for a while and focus on having orgasm during sex.But to those who are enjoying doing it with there man then just have fun 😀 Im just reallly happy to know that im not the only one doing it 😀 U can email me if you have question....spead the squeez 😂

54 and still crossng wrote at 2016-01-12 17:55:13
I don't remember ever not "crossing my legs". If there were any intense moments, someone being chased in a movie, a difficult exam, high stress... The legs would get crossed or thighs would get so tight until the orgasm came.  From zero to ten in a matter of seconds or minutes!  Someone tried to give me a vibrator as a gift after my husband passed away.  What do I need that for? I never did explain.  Nice to know there are others out there!  You will certainly please the men in your life, and hopefully you too!  

John Castle wrote at 2016-02-03 11:10:12
Ladies, thank you for this discussion. I have a perspective to add, from the male side of this. My first sexual experiences were courtesy of a girlfriend in high school who used this technique for herself. When we started "going steady" ) this was over 20 years ago now, we still used that term back then, her idea of sex was to wrap her legs around my rib cage and do the same thing using my side, under my arm, as the stimulus. At first, it was absolutely terrifying. Later, I got used to it. Later still, I got to where being crushed in a woman's thighs was as big a turn-on for me as it was a release for her.

So I just wanted to add -- there are men out there who enjoy this form of female masturbation as the women who enjoy engaging in it.

Veronica wrote at 2016-02-14 14:37:53
!! Thank goodness I'm not the only one !! I do the EXACT same thing, and this cross-legged position gives me the most pleasure as well! Thank you so much for posting this question…I love you! <3

infinitebatman wrote at 2016-02-16 07:05:37
I'm glad I'm not the only one! I thought it was weird because I've been doing this since I was maybe 11/12.. I haven't had sex with a male or female yet but I'm worried that I won't orgasm with them. All I know is that there are a lot of people who are like me so I don't feel so different.  

neha wrote at 2016-02-21 07:35:36
Hi Ladies! i have been doing this for many many years now..

However, recently my doctor told me i have a fibroid in my uterus.. she says there is no particular cause of this and most of the women get it after the age of 50.. but it isnt common at my age.. im 24.. Can the two be connected in some way?

pinder wrote at 2016-02-23 02:48:42
Neha same  with me.

I am also doing  so many years

Now i had fibroid in my uterus  at 24  years of age

ray wrote at 2016-02-27 13:26:50
I am lesbian 25 been doing this since i was 5/6 friends ask how i watch porn without touching my self. i like to do it after sex because its a totally different way of orgasming. breathing in to a pillow gives me the light headed feeling and the leg squeeze gives the best pleasure and no one can replicate the feeling.  

Noelll wrote at 2016-03-04 05:47:57
Wow. I'm amazed and SO relieved to know that I'm not a freak. My earliest memory of doing this leg-crossing "thing" goes back to when I was 4 but I don't remember ever discovering this so I feel like I've done it since I was a baby. My mom used to walk in on me and yell at me and get so angry at me for it and I never understood why. She would punish me if she was even suspicious that I was doing it and starting referring to it as my "thing." Naturally, I began doing it in secret because I literally could not hold myself back and I was so ashamed of it. I get better and better at hiding it with age. At 17 I still do it a couple times a week. I realized it was a form of masturbation when I was 12 or 13 and stopped doing it in public places like school after that. I can't believe how common this actually is! I feel normal (:

If and when my future daughter does this I will not make my daughter feel abnormal or wrong for doing so when it seems to be completely natural instinct judging by all of these responses and the ages that it tends to start. (I wonder if this is something inherited?) I wish my mother hadn't acted the way that she did about it. I was embarrassed about something so natural for so long and for no real reason. I'm still amazed that I'm not the only one who's done this practically their entire lives. Woah

Thighsqueeze lover wrote at 2016-03-07 00:57:40
"I discovered the thigh squeeze many years ago, I now teach at an all girls private school, often during periods of quiet while they work away or particularly in detention I look to see who is doing the thigh squeeze and feel the familiar sensations just from knowing whats happening in their panties."

Oooh, this is so hot !!

Reginelle wrote at 2016-03-07 11:06:55
OMG OMG YES! I discovered this method when I was 9 years old during a swimming class. We had small boards (made of styrofoamy material) that we would put between our legs and swim several laps mainly using our arms to paddle. Everytime I finished a lap and had to turn back to continue swimming the second, instead of reaching for the wall to stop myself and then standing up like the other students did to turn around, I found myself squeezing my legs against the board to "stop" myself from colliding with the wall. I did this for the consecutive 20 laps I swam and each time I came to the end of a lap I would squeeze my legs to stop and then turn around to continue, but the more I did this, the more tensed up I felt and I did not know why. My clitoris was throbbing really bad and it was uncomfortable, until the 20th lap when I squeezed my legs against the board again. This time there was this "release", and my clitoris started to lose all the tension and I started feeling very relaxed. I was confused about what it was then, but for the consecutive swimming lessons I found myself taking advantage of the board for this (hehehe).

I only started changing my "tactic" when our swimming coach tried to get us all to stay afloat with both our legs sticking out of the water and our backs laying back and using our hands to paddle the water. I accidentally crossed my legs while doing this, and I suddenly felt SO GOOD ( even the orgasms I achieve now aren't as intense as that, will never forget how it felt like). This whole release just hit me and my whole body shuddered a little at the sensation and after that I started doing it everytime I went for swimming lessons, and stopped using the board because it just wasn't working as well for me anymore. But then I realised it was a crazily tedious process as it was in the water and the water pressure(?) was kind of getting in my way. So I attempted to sit down on the chair, cross my legs, and then use my arms to grip hold of the chair bars to lift my body slightly up, squeezing my thighs tightly while slowly rocking back and forth. I did this a few times, and hey presto, I had an orgasm again.

Since then I was never afraid to experiment at different places and using different positions to see which one worked for me best. I tried laying on the bed with my legs straight and crossed over each other, and then squeeze my thighs while slowly raising my legs up. This really stimulates my clitoris and gives me the best orgasm. It helps 10000000 times more if I hold back my sexual frustration and watch some porn clips for at least 30minutes to really get myself all "heated up and excited", and then do the leg squeezing method to climax. (I normally start squeezing my thighs together at the part of the video where the girl orgasms, I find it really helpful in helping me achieve more intense climaxes)

I've done it in the school premises multiple times, public washrooms, on the bus, everywhere. No one ever suspects a thing because I've learned to really keep a straight face when doing it.

My current favourite spot is my sofa in the living room lol. I do it laying down on the sofa on my back when my parents are at work and when my siblings are in their rooms. Doing it privately just seems to satisfy me even more somehow. My sofa has this really hard leg rest that I find to be quite useful to place my legs on when I do the deed. Only downside to this is I'm still a virgin and I'm afraid I won't be able to orgasm this amazingly + intensely during intercourse with my partner in future, lol xxx  

Tish wrote at 2016-03-14 20:54:06
Omgggggggggg .....so many comments..i have been doing this since i was 4 or sumthn...feel so good i am not the only one!!!

piya wrote at 2016-03-17 07:23:05
oooooommmmmmgggggg..........    am so happy after reading all these comments.atleast its not weired ....best way of please their self for females

DayJuhnae wrote at 2016-03-23 11:21:46
OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS ALL MI LIFE I thought I was a freak. I hid it from mi mom until I was GROWN-GROWN (30'S). That was when I felt at ease to tell her, that I found a site talking about it,  ITS ACTUALLY CALLED CYBATION- I know thats not how u spell it, but the site I was on said that that is what it is called...SO ANYWAY easing it into the convo wasn't weird for me. I find that kids of today have a hard time talking to their parents about sex. ITs better to. You might find that you aren't as weird as you thought or you might find some sense of ease.  

K.I.C wrote at 2016-04-01 08:08:39
I'm amazed how many women do this ... it is definitely a thing. That's not the only way I can cum, but it's definitely the easiest and most pleasurable. I found I can do pretty much the same thing, but without crossing my legs, just contracting my muscles, the penetration also helps.

shocked wrote at 2016-04-11 01:03:15
Omg thought it was only me this is so funny because I did this when I was like 6 and my parents thought i had stomach cramps it felt good and I thought I was weird so i just agreed. I don't master bate with my finger because it does not feel good to me I don't know why. So i just do this. I have now been doing this for 10 years not everyday but sometimes.  

Cums wrote at 2016-05-08 23:05:27
I actually had a few orgasms like this, which I didn't think were possible before. I only do it while sitting up though. Feel free to let me know if you are able to orgasm doing the crossing legs/ankles thing while laying on your stomach or back though. I'm curious.

Alexi wrote at 2016-05-16 05:22:06
I can't believe I'm not the only one! I started doing this when i was maybe 8 or 9, my Mom called it my "exercise". She would get mad when I would do it however, so I became pretty embarrassed. I still do it now, and i'm 19! good to know i'm not alone  

Squeesy wrote at 2016-05-31 16:27:13
Right well I have done this for as long as I remember and only recently (I'm 14) have I worked out what this is! I can get the same sensation without crossing my legs, it's almost like tensing a muscle down there! I have done this for as long as I can remember and I have found (strangely) that picturing either kidnapping or rape makes the feeling most intense.  

Desperate wrote at 2016-07-03 01:35:56
Crossing my legs and squeezing is the only reliable way I can come. I usually prefer to just work myself up and then allow my arousal to dissipate. I've got a major desperation kink.... I think it's because when I was young (7 or something?) I disliked going to the bathroom, so I would always 'hold it in'. Eventually I would have to cross my legs to keep myself from peeing. The desperation of trying to hold back my pee while experiencing arousal sorta left an impact, haha.... Now, whenever I have to wait, be it something like waiting for a friend to text back or waiting for a show to come on, I get aroused. It's really weird. Even little stuff like waiting for a app to load affects me.....  

thigh squeeze lover wrote at 2016-07-09 23:43:30
"I thought I was alone", "I didn't know that other girls are doing it"...

I'm rather surprised by these remarks. Haven't you observed some girls doing it ? It happens quite often and, BTW, I find so hot watching it !

savannah wrote at 2016-08-07 08:29:48
I literally almost cried when I found out I wasn't alone I started this at a very young age and I never knew what it was I just thought it was something that felt good and im just now finding out what it is when i saw someone had said something about it i couldnt believe it so i went and looked it up I couldn't believe my eyes i just though i was crazy so i tried to stop it by quitting but now i know and im so happy that im not alone

savannah wrote at 2016-08-07 08:30:03
I literally almost cried when I found out I wasn't alone I started this at a very young age and I never knew what it was I just thought it was something that felt good and im just now finding out what it is when i saw someone had said something about it i couldnt believe it so i went and looked it up I couldn't believe my eyes i just though i was crazy so i tried to stop it by quitting but now i know and im so happy that im not alone

Ryely wrote at 2016-08-08 18:13:30
This is crazy, i really thought i have been the only person who do this. I've been doing it since i was 11 and thought that i was doing something wrong to my body but couldnt get myself to stop after achieving an orgasm. First i would cross my right leg on top of the left one and squeeze my thighs together. I still do it to this day and im 15

MrsG wrote at 2016-08-12 01:11:08
Totally just did this. Was curious if it was a thing, googled, and came (teehee) across these posts!  Glad to know it brings happiness to many people! Keep on, squeezin' on!

Tracy wrote at 2016-08-26 12:40:51
I swear I thought I was a freak and that I was super weird am happy right now  

Tracy wrote at 2016-08-26 12:40:57
I swear I thought I was a freak and that I was super weird am happy right now  

Rekha wrote at 2016-08-27 11:41:23
Do you think it's safe for pregnant women to orgasm this way?  

Cums wrote at 2016-09-19 16:22:14
Hey, Ryely, just out of curiosity, do you lay on your back or stomach to do it? You don't specify in your post. Wondering because I think I can only do it while sitting, so I'm curious to know if others can do it while laying down.

sql wrote at 2016-09-25 22:44:20
Cums, lay on your back on the ground, and make scissor movements with legs fairly up in the air, I guess you'll love it !

I have been watching someone doing this when I was young, and it was so hot, because she was totally involved in it and didn't take care of us watching.

She perhaps thought we didn't know what she was doing... Well, she wasn't completely wrong, I wouldn't say I knew exactly what she was doing, however I was quite addicted to the show, and I was feeling something quite unusual and I was feeling horny, Oh that was great.

I guess this is the reason why I'm so fan of this method, always searching for such events and talks about it like this one which is great.

Dear women, BTW, don't think that nobody knows if yo do it in public, those who are aware do notice, do whatch, and do love watching !!

Cums wrote at 2016-09-26 12:20:37
Thanks for the tip, sql. Just out of curiosity though, have you seen anyone laying on their stomachs while pleasuring themselves too? Because I kinda want to try laying facedown.

By the way, if I may ask, how old was the girl in your story? And did she bring herself to orgasms? If so, how could you tell? Did she let out a big sigh, was she moaning, were her toes curling up, etc?

sql wrote at 2016-09-28 00:36:20
Cums, well, I have watched girls laying facedown, in swimming pool or on beach, playing with their legs up and down, and obviously get some enjoyment from these movements, because it somewhat make the pressure on the ground (on the crotch) change a little at each movement.

I've never seen an orgasm in these cases, but one girl noticed I was watching her at a swimming pool, and thus she knew that I knew what she was doing. Instead of stopping, she looked at me quite openly, in the eyes sometimes, while elarging the movements, it was a sort of horny flirt, and so intense because we were on towels 1 meter apart, face toward face !!

I've see another story of this sort in a bus(but she was standing against a metallic column).

About the first story, she was laying back, as explained before ; I think the first thing which made me feel something unusual is that she seemed quite inside her one world, doing these oviously unusual and oviously visible movements (if not even spectacular after some time)without hiding anything - probably there was nothing to hide from his point of view, since she was feeling alone, nothing else was important to her excepted the pleasure she was building and which, I guess, began less and less controlable.

I remember having heard heavy breathing in the advanced part of the process, and her legs made really extravagant and spectacular movements, seeming to find the end of the story higher and higher in the air, so that the bottom of her back was sometimes going up too by a few centimeters because of her furious cissoring in the air.

However, to be honest, if today all this tells me without a doubt that the uncontrolable end of the game must have brought her to an orgasm, we were too young teenagers to name that event, but I had understood it was unusual, rather mysterious, and very interesting, since watching and hearing it was building inside me something that I began to like very much !

Later we were able to talk about that, and discovered it existed for me too (the male) and we were calling that "the feeling". Have you done the "feeling" was a question we asked sometimes !  :-)

Later, as adults, this sort of question isn't welcome anymore (perhaps because we often ask it too explicitly). For me this expression "the feeling" has nearly become a nostalgic and poetic expression of my teenages...

Idek wrote at 2016-10-15 21:53:47
Ugh I love that I'm not alone!!! I've been doing it for a while now... I didn't know what I was doing until it felt super good, and I couldn't stop! But don't do it to much at a time. It starts to really hurt and you can't do it for a while...

Annu wrote at 2016-10-17 13:48:09
Thank God i was thinking i was the only one to do this. it feels so amazing by crossing legs.But sometime i think about other way like by hand but hen i am too nervous to do that. So yeah love this crossing legs(*sighs*)

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