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Expertise
I can not think of a question that would be beyond my experience. I have interviewed and worked directly with hundreds of women to overcome issues in both masturbation and sexual intercourse. My techniques that I advise are proven to work and can change a woman’s whole experience with orgasms. I work directly with women one on one to help them work through their questions and frustrations. As a sex therapist I draw the line at intercourse with my clients, but women feel comfortable with me working with them one and one because they know there will be boundaries

Experience
Since all males think they have all the answers I want to be accurate here- I have studied and interviewed several hundred women to get the knowledge to help in most every situation. Most of the help is with orgasms and how to achieve them with or without stimulation other than a penis. My research shows that most women have some mental and physical blocks that just need opening up to understand what is going on down there. Some need stimulation from fingers or toys and many may start that way but progress to not needing outside stimulation at all. The goal for many women is to have an excellent orgasm with just intercourse. This is not always possible and hence women get frustrated. I have a lot of experience with working with women to get through barriers and try different techniques. I have made huge progress with most every client. It changes their lives.

Organizations
I do not belong to organizations

Publications
I published an article about 10 years ago

Education/Credentials
I am a college graduate. I have made it a hobby of sorts for over 35 years. So many women are frustrated with their orgasms and many never know how intense a really good one everyday can be. I know what I am talking about and you will see it in my answers. I make sense out it all.

Awards and Honors
No awards except positive feedback

Past/Present Clients
I have such a long list of clients that I would take up this page.

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Questions Answered By Expert TD
In Category Female Masturbation

Subject	Date Asked

ruined?	8/5/2008
Q: I'm 21, when I was 15 I was raped, and then I stayed in a relationship with an older man for years, ... A: Eva, I can tell you are English and I only say that to say hello as I have a lot of English friends ...
masterbation	8/5/2008
Q: i em 15 please don't say its to young but when ever i masturbate i have orgasm but none of them are ... A: I don't think you are too young. But you are still developing down there until about 21. I would ...
Guilt over sex	8/3/2008
Q: My question is how can a woman who was taught that sex was dirty and bad learn to be comfortable ... A: I would prefer this to be on a private response, but here goes. I realize that there is a lot of ...
Need to tense calves to reach orgasm	8/2/2008
Q: Ever since my first masturbation I have almost needed to tense my calves in order to reach an ... A: This is fairly common, but just not talked about. I really can not think of a reason not to do ...
masturbation!	7/31/2008
Q: .. and what can I do so that my time spent with my self is longer than just 10 or 15 minutes?... ... A: I kind of depends on a lot of things. Most girls can get to multiple orgasms but most at first do ...
Broken?	7/28/2008
Q: I have be fingered a few times and also done it to myself, a few months ago, i was fingered and i ... A: Ok let me see if I understand. You are being fingered by someone or you are masturbating yourself? ...
What is an orgasim?	7/26/2008
Q: Now.. i know the bascially what an orgasim is and as i do masturbate and have experianced one.. i ... A: I can assure you that you will know for sure when it happens. A twitch down there and a little ...
Clitoris Pain	7/25/2008
Q: I masturbate once and a while, i go periods of time doing it three times a week, but lately i do it ... A: Anytime there is pain it is telling you to be careful. So all I can say is that it sounds like to ...
female masturbation	7/22/2008
Q: is it bad for my health in any way to masturbate with a showerhead? high pressure or every other ... A: If it does not hurt then it seems to me to be ok. Pain will tell you. But if the water is not clean ...
overuse of a dildo	7/18/2008
Q: First let me say that i am a porn star and a cam girl and i love what i do. I am masturbating daily ... A: Yep it for sure over doing it. I am not big on dildo's but I know some women are so I can only ...
Being comfortable	3/24/2008
Q: TD. I have been masturbating since I was 14 I am now 15 so it's been like a whole year. I am ... A: What I meant is that sometimes I just do not want the "world" to read my responses and I tend to be ...
Being comfortable	3/24/2008
Q: TD. I have been masturbating since I was 14 I am now 15 so it's been like a whole year. I am ... A: Hey Zee, Cool name by the way- My message is to relax- Don't fret. You can take what I say to the ...
start stop method not not stopping	3/20/2008
Q: I have tried the start stop method but I am one of those that once it gets started I cant stop it. I ... A: If you want to click on private I will answer more. I am not sure I understand you on the start ...
Masturbation	3/19/2008
Q: I recently bought a jack rabbit vibrator and it seems that every time I use it I have to pee and I ... A: I want you to write this same question request to ALL the experts on Female Masturbation as I do not ...
orgasms	3/16/2008
Q: i have been masturbating for about a year now, and i have had a couple orgasms but not a lot. I only ... A: Let me know how the bathtub water goes. I would be interested in how it works out. I have tried a ...
orgasms	3/15/2008
Q: i have been masturbating for about a year now, and i have had a couple orgasms but not a lot. I only ... A: So you stimulate your clitoris with your finger? Have you tried having the batch tub water run onto ...
porn	3/15/2008
Q: hey, i was wondering if you would know of any good free porn websites? thanks Laurie A: What kind of porn to you like best? Girls on girls, girls on guys? There are lots of free sites. I ...
I want to sqiurt!	3/12/2008
Q: I touch myself all the time but cant manage to squirt...I mean i cum and get wet I orgasm sometimes ... A: The net has a lot of great descriptions with graphics and all. Google Female Ejaculation and go ...
anal sex	3/12/2008
Q: can a female have an anal orgasm? Me and my wife are just starting to experiment with anal sex. A: My guess is that without vaginal stimulation or clitoris stimulation I would say know. But check ...
help me	3/10/2008
Q: I love to touch my clit and feel horny. I'm 20 years old I like to run shower water in my clit to ... A: Ok, You seem to have some pretty strong Bi sexual thoughts which is fine. You can go to multiple ...
Humping	3/6/2008
Q: I'm 20 and this is probably a silly question, but how exactly do women hump things? I can't figure ... A: Basically their are a lot of techniques but I am certainly not up on all of them. Some use some ...
Inability to orgasm	2/27/2008
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, he is the only person I have had sex with, ... A: hmmmm I am kind of at a loss also. I can only probe for more information. I have some ideas but I ...
female ejaculation	2/19/2008
Q: I have followingwhich part of woman.body pump out the ejaculate? Is ist the internal part of the ... A: It is the g-spot area. The fluid is stored behind the spongy area of the g-spot, at least that is ...
G-spot orgasm	2/19/2008
Q: I'm a teenage girl and decided to get my first sex toy. Everyone's told me that a g-spot orgasm is ... A: Please let me know your age. Also write back sometime on private but for now I will take a shot at ...
I can't find a technique that works for me..	2/16/2008
Q: I am 12 years old and I am a beginner at masturbating. I have tried to masturbate about a month and ... A: You can write the other experts here, but my expert opinion is that yes you are young and it is hard ...
fingering	2/11/2008
Q: im 13 and i masturbate reguarly but only rubbing the clitoris, i dont finger because it hurts and it ... A: My expert opinion is that you need to grow a little. Right now you are just smaller than you will ...
young sex?	2/10/2008
Q: um hi. i'm almost 13 and my boyfriend is 14. we both want to have sex. but i;m not sure because i ... A: What I see too much is a lot of foreplay leads you both giving in and having sex. Hey guys really ...
young sex?	2/10/2008
Q: um hi. i'm almost 13 and my boyfriend is 14. we both want to have sex. but i;m not sure because i ... A: I think you are too young. I do not know if planned parenthood gives birth control to girls your ...
Inability to orgasm	2/7/2008
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, he is the only person I have had sex with, ... A: t You are absolutely correct to assure him that it not him. A lot of men think that size matters ...
Squirting	2/1/2008
Q: I am eighteen years old. I have been sexually active sine I was 15 years old. I have achieved two ... A: You checked not private so I am reluctant to be too specific here. But I have a couple of questions ...
hymen	2/1/2008
Q: how do you know if your hymen is broken? if you have stuck fingers or other objects up there will it ... A: It is hard to say. I would not worry about it one way or another. If it has it has and if not why ...
oh... i'm confused	2/1/2008
Q: I'm 14 now, and am rather embaressed about this but... well yeah. anyways, i've begun to explore... ... A: No it is perfectly NORMAL and not to worry. Being in touch with your own body is important ...
Is It Wrong?	1/31/2008
Q: Hey. I am 12 years old and have been intrested in masterbation and stuff for about 6 months. ... A: I would talk to your mom about masturbation if at all possible. But some girls just do not know the ...
Masturbating questions/problems	1/30/2008
Q: I'll be 18 in a couple weeks and I have a question about masturbating. I've tried stimulating my ... A: I have to say that I have not heard of anyone that can not get an orgasm with a vibrator. What is ...
i wonder	1/29/2008
Q: me and my boyfriend tried to have anal sex.. well we used vaseline as lubricant he lubricated his ... A: Ok, It seems like a good idea to wait until you are protected from pregnancy and other potential ...
Masturbating questions/problems	1/28/2008
Q: I'll be 18 in a couple weeks and I have a question about masturbating. I've tried stimulating my ... A: If you believe that a massager can desensitize your clitoris then my suggestion is not to place the ...
Masturbation	1/27/2008
Q: I have been masturbating since I was at least 15 i am 51 years old now -- and i really want to stop ... A: I am glad you are not giving up on men. I would suggest joining the match making web sites. You ...
Masturbation	1/27/2008
Q: I have been masturbating since I was at least 15 i am 51 years old now -- and i really want to stop ... A: Where do you live as in city and state. I am curious why you have been raped so many times. More ...
Masturbation	1/27/2008
Q: I have been masturbating since I was at least 15 i am 51 years old now -- and i really want to stop ... A: I want to try to understand better. I need to start off asking some questions. Then I can better ...
Vibrators: cheap but worth it	1/23/2008
Q: i have already asked about where i can get a vibrator in hawaii. i havent looked in Shirokia, ... A: Cate, I can only advise. Just go down and check out what is there at Sharper Image and Brookstone, ...
very confused	1/23/2008
Q: i dnt know why i am not having any orgasms or if i have an i havent realised it. im 12 and i started ... A: Taylor, First identify where your clitoris is. It is where the pee comes out. Then with one hand ...
my vagina	1/22/2008
Q: i am having a few problems with my vagina. i know that people say stick up 2 fingers in you and ... A: Having your age really helps me. But whether it is two or one is not the issue. Lets start with ...
masterbating???g-spot???	1/22/2008
Q: i am dying to know what is all of this. all i am asking is a simple picture that shows all these ... A: Good description but keep looking. Try "female ejaculation" and more on "G-spot" I would do the ...
Vibrators	1/22/2008
Q: i hear that a lot of teens are now getting their very own vibrators. i have also heard that young ... A: I lived in Hawaii for 26 years. Massagers are readily available at the Japan stores like Shirokia. ...
help me plzzz!	1/21/2008
Q: okay i really need help, i have been masterbating since i was 8 years old, and i am 14 now, and i ... A: It sounds like to me your are trying to hard actually. One thing is that some women have like a ...
masterbating???g-spot???	1/21/2008
Q: i am dying to know what is all of this. all i am asking is a simple picture that shows all these ... A: I have advised a lot of women on this. So many times it just takes time. At your age you have so ...
masterbating???g-spot???	1/21/2008
Q: i am dying to know what is all of this. all i am asking is a simple picture that shows all these ... A: Your best information is on google on the G-spot. Just google G-spot and or female ejaculation. ...
Mastubating with razor	1/21/2008
Q: This is a very uncomfortable subject for me, but I need to ask a question. I was taking a bath ... A: I would not guess you have found the best item to use. I have known women to use a hairbrush handle ...
sex	1/15/2008
Q: I am 16 and me and my boyfriend are sexually active. When he wants to give me an orgasim and try to ... A: Where it comes from is not the issue. The sensation can feel sometimes like you are going to pee at ...
Female Masturbation	1/14/2008
Q: WHAT WOULD BE THE BEST THING TO FUCK THATS AROUND THE HOUSE A: I am interested in helping you further. Please write back with more questions and let me in on how ...
sex	1/11/2008
Q: I am 16 and me and my boyfriend are sexually active. When he wants to give me an orgasim and try to ... A: When you ejaculate which is also referred to squirting you are not peeing. You can tell right away ...

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